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Posted: 14 years ago
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We all have been feeling that Ambaji is very harsh and mistreating mona all the time. But she is not the only one tgo be blamed for all this. we do understand that anukalp is having problems inhis office and his salary has been reduced. why can't he disclose this to his mom. his mom was the one who managed eveything. i think she would have been the best person to manage the house with the money anukalp is bringing home now. how can anukalp expect mona to handle all this. anukalp is very unfair to his mom. he should have told her this. also what mona is doing these days is sure to create problems in her life. why can't she tell her m.i.l that she is going out. why can't she tell her about new business. i am not saying that she should take permission but she can atleast tell her that she is going out somewhere. effective communication is very very important in any relationship. these hiding things game takes u no where. when ambaji is angry at mona i feel she is very hurt that mona doesnot even consider her impotant enough to tell her anything. why to hide yaar? anukalp is hiding mona is hiding so how can we expect ambaji to be not angry or frustated?

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Of course Mona and Anukalp are at fault .

Mona has a good heart and is doing the right thing in the wrong way . Hiding and taking dress designing orders is accomplishing WHAT ? Her mother in law wud be immensely proud of her that she is managing the house AND trying to shoulder financial responsibility . By HIDING , she is being silly and immature .

But the onus of all this mess is on Anukalp . Pardon my language , but his stands there like a sissy watching Mona get insulted ALL the time and goes and weeps in his bedroom saying I am nikamma . Why can't he be a MAN and tell his mom he is facing financial pressure ?

He is laying ALL the burden of responsibility on his young wife's shoulder and standing quitely watching her get fired by various members of the family . For NO fault of hers .

Forget the other family members . How about having a private talk with his MOTHER . He does have a relation with her and he does owe it to her to let her know the truth .

Of course they are aiming at that Tayaji to come and blast all one day and defend Mona ...but this track puts Anukalp in a bad light .

Thers no reason to LIE to all .Theres no reason to put Mona forward and hide behind her back and do boo hoo hoo in the bedroom and tell her I love u . My Foot . Go and defend her like a tiger in front of ALL family members and say out aloud that Say whatever u want to me , its NOT her fault .

Earning less when the circumstances r not favorable doesn't make u less of a man . But not telling the truth , making ur wife a scapegoat and watching her suffer silently definetely makes u unmanly .


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