i dont think it was hetals fault - Page 2

Originally posted by: kajolj

When u go into somebody else's home u don't act the same way as you do infront of your parent's, wheather she likes it or not she has to change and adjust according to her in-laws. Had she pulled the same trick at her house, she would have gotten a tight slap from Bharti and a lecture.

Here the main thing is she is not even interested to adjust..atleast she should try .but i didnt saw that kind of sign

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Originally posted by: sherma

hetal has always been rebelious wen she is angry she dont even care whom is she fighting wid,she fought wid ambaji in front of bedis or strted shouting in front of the gandhis wen they were tlking abt her marriage and even slapped karan cause he pou sum water on her.i was actually tinking she will blast sweety or amrit today,but she was quite

When u go into somebody else's home u don't act the same way as you do infront of your parent's, wheather she likes it or not she has to change and adjust according to her in-laws. Had she pulled the same trick at her house, she would have gotten a tight slap from Bharti and a lecture.
mona still behave imaturely at her sasural,so she is hetal a spoilt brat,she needs time.and must be tats the reason she is missing bharti and tinks she is a perfect saas😉.she is missing the slaps and teh lecture.

Originally posted by: saraharshad

Here the main thing is she is not even interested to adjust..atleast she should try .but i didnt saw that kind of sign

That's my point, had she done the same trick say after couple of years it would have been understanble and by then she would have already created a space for herself in the family, right now I just don't think it's good for her.

Originally posted by: sherma

mona still behave imaturely at her sasural,so she is hetal a spoilt brat,she needs time.and must be tats the reason she is missing bharti and tinks she is a perfect saas😉.she is missing the slaps and teh lecture.

Yes Mona do stills behave immaturely, but she tries to adapt herself into the situations like Mona never woke up early at her parent's house but here she made the effort with alarm clocks and stuff and finally succeeded, however main problem with Hetal is she doesn't want to adjust I agree she is missing Bhart's slaps and lecture 😆

Originally posted by: saraharshad

Here the main thing is she is not even interested to adjust..atleast she should try .but i didnt saw that kind of sign

she is not taking an effort because nobody is evn supporting her,i love karal as a jodi but i tink karan is behaving like a fool,he shld understnd he is married and now he needs to give little time to his wife too.sweety is behaving too dumb,the whole earing scene thing,sweety cld have given the earings the next day or wen karan wasnt there,but she gave in front of karan and vimmys presence and plus she was taunted by vimmy too.the food hetal made was criticise badly,she did tried to make but agin not appreciated she dint intentionally made the food bad or nor was tat she dint knew cooking,she cooked in gujju style,amrit told her to cook watever she like.these tings can make a newly wedded bride felt lost sos he runs to her mayka every now and then,the way mona used to do cause she used to feel lost at gandhis place,but wen anu started supporting her and sejal babuji strted behaving well wid her,she strted feeling comfortable and wanted

Originally posted by: sherma

she is not taking an effort because nobody is evn supporting her,i love karal as a jodi but i tink karan is behaving like a fool,he shld understnd he is married and now he needs to give little time to his wife too.sweety is behaving too dumb,the whole earing scene thing,sweety cld have given the earings the next day or wen karan wasnt there,but she gave in front of karan and vimmys presence and plus she was taunted by vimmy too.the food hetal made was criticise badly,she did tried to make but agin not appreciated she dint intentionally made the food bad or nor was tat she dint knew cooking,she cooked in gujju style,amrit told her to cook watever she like.these tings can make a newly wedded bride felt lost sos he runs to her mayka every now and then,the way mona used to do cause she used to feel lost at gandhis place,but wen anu started supporting her and sejal babuji strted behaving well wid her,she strted feeling comfortable and wanted

I totally disagree with you..

Mona is and was living in a prison, her parents all Punjabi community was constantly abused in her presense by Amba, Phui and Baa, she was treated worse than a servant.

In comparison Hetal is being treated like a queen, she abused sweety, when her own Phui lives with them with her husband. Hetal the new bride thinks she owns every thing in Bedi household and she has the right to resent daughter of the family and resent her presence. Her MIL and FIL has no right to invite their daughter to live in their house with them, Hetal has forgotten that it is their house not something given by her parents. Bedis own their own house and Hetal lives with them, as long as they are alive this is their house they can invite anybody they want to live with them including their daughter, Hetal can never ever take their rights away..this house is not build by her husband, unlike her brother, Karan deosn't support his family, he works in his uncle's business, the family supports Karan.

Bedi's arranged all the wedding Gandhis didn't have to spend any thing on the wedding and Hetal is complaining about Bundai, she should have married gujju vaishav, who would demand car, tv, gold and many other goodies, they would take all the bundai plus her jewellery without asking, Hetal, Baa and Phui are cheapstake...one silly bundai and they are whinning..

Hetal is wrong match for Karan..greedy gujju vashinav boy will fit the bill and will straighten Hetal, Amba, Baa and Phui..

Originally posted by: sherma

why?i genuinely want to know,at the start she told ambaji that mona is lucky to have a saas like her,mona can go out movie,shopping etc,wich any young girl can feel,at the end she tld phui and baa her reservations that everytime there is sum1 between karal,wich again is true,it is either sweety,amrit or vimmy who just keep on cuming between them,ambaji made as tatement if karal wont go den even mona wont,so why hetal is dangerous for speaking the truth?

note:its just curosity i am asking,pls dont mind😊

Originally posted by: April2007

You must be watching a different serial than me.

.Ambaji doesn't even let Mona go to visit her parents who live across the street. Mona cannot go shopping, or even step out of the house without Amba's permissions, Mona could never go to movies, I hope you remember the scene in which Anu had to tear the movie ticket because Mona was afraid to ask Amba's permission...Ambaji is saas from hell, she constantly scolds and yells at Mona. She treats Mona worse than a servant, she abuses Mona's parents and calls them uncivilzed (kuch sikhaya hi nahi, Punjabis have no sanskar) she is most horrible person. She acts as if she is her sons wife..she wants to be the only one in his son's life..(packing lunch, serving his food, Mona cannot go near him).

In real life if somebody abuses there DIL like Phui and Baa they can sue them for cruelty and mental torture. How dare stupid Phui abuse punjabis and Mona..when she sicko is living in her Maayke and doesn't follow any tradition.

The Gandhi family thinks they are better than Mona, her parents and punjabis and they practice mental cruelty on daily basis.

amabji dint allow mona to visit her parents house without permission cause mona used to behave like a 8yyear old,she got up middle of teh night to visit her parents and the whole of gandhi fly was worried for her,mona dint went fro movie not cause she was scared of ambaji but because ambaji was in a bad shape taht day(wen bedis were at home and ambaji slapped hetal in front of beids)nobody told mona not to go,ambaji wldnt have stopped her not to go for a movie wid her husband not cause ambaji is good but her ego is too big to syop mona,mona wanted to stay back.amabji,baa and fui have a bad language,but i tink its upto mona she cld have stopped them at the first day itself but she was much interested in being a good baahu.

Mona and her Family even didnt react when Ambaji the great did not allowed Mona to participate in the Rasam of his brother(karan)marriage...like dwaar rukaai etc.Hetal is disgusting Bahu ..Hetal deserved the greedy and shrewd in laws...Chaiji and everyone in their family is tooo good for Hetal madam which she do not deserve ..

Originally posted by: sherma

she is not taking an effort because nobody is evn supporting her,i love karal as a jodi but i tink karan is behaving like a fool,he shld understnd he is married and now he needs to give little time to his wife too.sweety is behaving too dumb,the whole earing scene thing,sweety cld have given the earings the next day or wen karan wasnt there,but she gave in front of karan and vimmys presence and plus she was taunted by vimmy too.the food hetal made was criticise badly,she did tried to make but agin not appreciated she dint intentionally made the food bad or nor was tat she dint knew cooking,she cooked in gujju style,amrit told her to cook watever she like.these tings can make a newly wedded bride felt lost sos he runs to her mayka every now and then,the way mona used to do cause she used to feel lost at gandhis place,but wen anu started supporting her and sejal babuji strted behaving well wid her,she strted feeling comfortable and wanted

but atleast mona tried from day one to please in laws... and it wasnt mona's fault but her her mother who used to come every now and then to support mona... mona was and is not the perfect peson but she is determined to win the love and respect in the family and thats why she even broke all ties with her mayka... hetal has been married for few days only and she is throwing tantrums.. sweetheart every family has some rules and you have to follow them..u cnt change them in one day..
just my 2 cents

Originally posted by: sherma

amabji dint allow mona to visit her parents house without permission cause mona used to behave like a 8yyear old,she got up middle of teh night to visit her parents and the whole of gandhi fly was worried for her,mona dint went fro movie not cause she was scared of ambaji but because ambaji was in a bad shape taht day(wen bedis were at home and ambaji slapped hetal in front of beids)nobody told mona not to go,ambaji wldnt have stopped her not to go for a movie wid her husband not cause ambaji is good but her ego is too big to syop mona,mona wanted to stay back.amabji,baa and fui have a bad language,but i tink its upto mona she cld have stopped them at the first day itself but she was much interested in being a good baahu.