HIDDEN HANDS, BEHIND THE CURTAINS - Page 4

Originally posted by: gees

omg bossji.😲..that is really inspiring now.😲..B...I...G...😍...sounds like a dream cum true......me ready ...😳fire the qstns bossji 😛...weneva u wish ...!!!!!!!😎

Originally posted by: suk4

Good post, Mera.
Nothing to add really, but the point about SDS is spot on, the way they're just carrying on, and she barely gets mentioned😕

Originally posted by: MERARAI

Hi Elle😃

I've randomly watched a few episodes like when K left thana and KN showed up at GH. When I get curious about body language in a scene after reading the LUD I'd watch. Recently there was a thread on Radhe's "I already saw the picture"😆 that got such cheers.

I was going to do an entire post on KN...a psychological analysis of the most disliked Takur KN. 😕 I empathize with KN. His emotional growth is seriously stunted. His behavior these days is more like a child seeking attention with negative behavior. There's jealousy about K getting all the love and praises while he got the abuses and put downs. Over a lifetime it does tend to make the person insecure. Not to mention Pretty Woman who's turned up in his life to push all his buttons. She has a knack for stoking the fires while robbing them blind. He is so starved for love that he falls in her trap and doesn't realize she's plotting to fleece him as well.

POPS did a great job of hinting at his vulnerability. In essence showing that he trusted SS would be fair in splitting his assets between him and K equally ...until Men-ka rani confused the heck out his muddled mind.😆 KN has on occasion stepped in and done the right thing. When K was directing traffic in a drunken stupor he cared enough to bring him home. He came to take K home from the hospital after he came back to life. KN rises to the occasion when he's appreciated like any normal person. He even told Naiki that he appreciated how Kesar served him well in spite of his treatment of her. Now it appears he's likely to fall in lub a lub with his wife, the same woman he abused and hated for years. Being married to naiki was his best wake up call. The way she treated him after he returned home black and blue should have woken him up. We'll see if it did. Wouldn't it be hilarious if KN seeks safety from Naiki by holding on to Kesar? Dropping his baby like a rag doll is something Kesar may not overlook easily nor would she forget his part in depriving her of bonding with Samar and being his mother in his childhood.

KN is in many ways a product of his upbringing. He has always been loyal to his parents, his mother almost always took his side. He did SS's "dirty work" obediently. Today SS is reaping the seeds he sowed in his first born. As GD once mentioned, he taught his kids to fight and bully instead of getting an education. KN doesn't have the street smarts that K does. He married a girl the family chose for him even when he couldn't stand the sight of her. Once K married Prats and KN saw how K got away with everything he did he also realized that K and he were expected to live by a different set of rules. K got away with everything short of murder while he continued to get abused for a little misstep. The first time he got away with anything was when he married Arusia and brought her to the haveli.

SS sees a lot of himself in K and therefore praises him to the skies. He felt threatened by Prats's influence in K's life given how much in love he was with his wife early on. But he was sure KN would tow the line and he had him under his control. So when KN turned the tables on him and swindled him of everything literally throwing him out on the streets it stunned him. Hopefully he is awakening to the truth that one's children no matter how old they are have a knack of reflecting back what his/her parents taught them. The Krishna's of the world who are loved, praised and accepted feel secure and thrive with confidence while the Katra Nareshes of the world who are abused, ridiculed and yelled at continue to prove their low self-worth.

Even at the Saxes, Prats is praised to the skies by Shamu. Adarsh on the other hand has to meet their expectations of him. As much as parents claim to love all their children equally, there is no way to measure it. But the differences show up in the way they treat their children from early on. As each child's personality emerges parents change their parenting accordingly. The most difficult to raise the more love, patience and support the child needs to get by in the world.

Phew! How many of you fell asleep 🤣reading this post.😛