Should GD be forgiven? - Page 4

Originally posted by: MERARAI

I am that one person who voted YES😃. 👍🏼

Can't lay this one fully on the Takurs this time. Prats misled them to believe that she's the one with the problem. Sure GD may have masterminded plans to get K remarried, they believe he can father a child. None of the Takurs can read a report, they are all uneducated. One could say that Prats took advantage of their illiteracy and misled them. The Takurs are old school and live the way they've known all their lives. One can even say Prats has given them cause to mistrust her next time she reads anything to them.

GD did do a 180 but she's hung up like all the senior Takurs about the continuation of K's lineage. Bottom line, if Prats wants forgiveness from the Takurs and K for misleading them all these weeks however noble her intention and sacrificial her stance, she's got to be willing to forgive them too realizing she had a part in this scenario. Forgiveness is never about the other person anyways. She can't expect to live under their roof and alienate every one of them. As it is she's never tried to mingle with the Takurs. Earlier on they accepted her for K's sake but she was hating K in the early months of marriage and that made things worse with time.

As Mahatma Gandhiji said..." The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong."

One of my favorite quotes on forgiveness by Thomas S. Szasz is "The stupid neither forgive nor forget, the naive forgive and forget, the wise forgive but do not forget". You decide, which category do each of the Takurs and Prats fall in?

Originally posted by: Atticus

Mera I'm genuinely confused @ bold

Are you saying that Thakurs are justified in suggesting K remarry if P is infertile? Putting aside the fact that their belief about her being infertile is false.

Originally posted by: trina_one

Yes Prats did deceive them, but she did it out of love. Can you honestly compare it with the kind of deceptions carried out by the family? We're talking about a group of people that were planning to kill her at one point and ended up injuring Piasiya instead. Prats did hate Krishna in the beginning, but wouldnt you hate someone who basically forced you into marriage and broke up your previous engagement, not to mention harassed your family?

As for the question of forgiveness, this girl took a bullet for Krishna. She protected him at her own expense, and she is doing the same again. Considering what she has gone through for him, the family could show a little understanding and see her motives were pure. She clearly didn't think they were going to get carried away and look for a second DIL.

Originally posted by: yemi3006

Me three...

old age should not be an excuse for stupidity or cruelty ... GD is being greedy... she already has 2 g-g'babies... she should be contented with what she has 😡

Originally posted by: Atticus

Mera I'm genuinely confused @ bold

Are you saying that Thakurs are justified in suggesting K remarry if P is infertile? Putting aside the fact that their belief about her being infertile is false.

Originally posted by: simmi.friends03

@red...👏...

and its not look like that GD is doing for krish's child in majboori...c her body language she is enjoying it...like she wants to do it...thats why she is doing it...she is worsen from amma...who clearly show that she hates prats...but GD...no never...i really want that from cv that we want earlier prats who never bend in any pressure...if she forgive and forget about GD's behaviour then this show is over...woh kisi ko bhi maaf karde par usse GD ko itni asani se maaf nahi karna hoga...i want when truth comes out and after the tt of krish she took the oath THAT SHE WON'T GIVE BIRTH TO A CHILD IN THIS TN AS THIS PLACE IS NOT SAFE AND IDOL FOR CHILD TO BE BORN...kyunki sirf bachhe ko janam dena hi kafi nahi hota usse sahi parvarish bhi di jaati hai jo ki usse achha insaan banati hai...jo ki iss TN main sambhav nahi hai...kyunki ghar sirf makan/haveli nahi hota hain...jhopdi bhi pyaar se ghar ban jaati hai...aur TN to ghar nahi jail/grave hai...

Originally posted by: trina_one

Yes Prats did deceive them, but she did it out of love. Can you honestly compare it with the kind of deceptions carried out by the family? We're talking about a group of people that were planning to kill her at one point and ended up injuring Piasiya instead. Prats did hate Krishna in the beginning, but wouldnt you hate someone who basically forced you into marriage and broke up your previous engagement, not to mention harassed your family? And still Prats fell in love in with the same man Krishna who did all this? Her feelings were changing even before she knew he wasn't her kidnapper. It takes courage to forgive and move on.

As for the question of forgiveness, this girl took a bullet for Krishna. She protected him at her own expense, and she is doing the same again. I don't buy her justification for hiding the truth about HIS medical reports. Would she play by the same rule book if K had done the same with her reports? I think not. She will give her baashan on sahi galat and her right to know. Problem with Prats's character is that she falls short in living by the rules she expects others to live by. As Arusia challenged her, rightly so, how does Prats expect others to live by the truth when she fails to live by it herself? Considering what she has gone through for him, the family could show a little understanding and see her motives were pure. She clearly didn't think they were going to get carried away and look for a second DIL. I find it hard to believe after 5 years of living with the Takurs and all the crude and cruel things they've doled out to Kesar and her she doesn't know what they are capable of.

Originally posted by: yemi3006

Me three...

old age should not be an excuse for stupidity or cruelty ... GD is being greedy... she already has 2 g-g'babies... she should be contented with what she has 😡