Should GD be forgiven? - Page 3

Originally posted by: MERARAI

I am that one person who voted YES😃. 👍🏼

Can't lay this one fully on the Takurs this time. Prats misled them to believe that she's the one with the problem. Sure GD may have masterminded plans to get K remarried, they believe he can father a child. None of the Takurs can read a report, they are all uneducated. One could say that Prats took advantage of their illiteracy and misled them. The Takurs are old school and live the way they've known all their lives. One can even say Prats has given them cause to mistrust her next time she reads anything to them.

GD did do a 180 but she's hung up like all the senior Takurs about the continuation of K's lineage. Bottom line, if Prats wants forgiveness from the Takurs and K for misleading them all these weeks however noble her intention and sacrificial her stance, she's got to be willing to forgive them too realizing she had a part in this scenario. Forgiveness is never about the other person anyways. She can't expect to live under their roof and alienate every one of them. As it is she's never tried to mingle with the Takurs. Earlier on they accepted her for K's sake but she was hating K in the early months of marriage and that made things worse with time.

As Mahatma Gandhiji said..." The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong."

One of my favorite quotes on forgiveness by Thomas S. Szasz is "The stupid neither forgive nor forget, the naive forgive and forget, the wise forgive but do not forget". You decide, which category do each of the Takurs and Prats fall in?

Originally posted by: MERARAI

I am that one person who voted YES😃. 👍🏼

Can't lay this one fully on the Takurs this time. Prats misled them to believe that she's the one with the problem. Sure GD may have masterminded plans to get K remarried, they believe he can father a child. None of the Takurs can read a report, they are all uneducated. One could say that Prats took advantage of their illiteracy and misled them. The Takurs are old school and live the way they've known all their lives. One can even say Prats has given them cause to mistrust her next time she reads anything to them.

GD did do a 180 but she's hung up like all the senior Takurs about the continuation of K's lineage. Bottom line, if Prats wants forgiveness from the Takurs and K for misleading them all these weeks however noble her intention and sacrificial her stance, she's got to be willing to forgive them too realizing she had a part in this scenario. Forgiveness is never about the other person anyways. She can't expect to live under their roof and alienate every one of them. As it is she's never tried to mingle with the Takurs. Earlier on they accepted her for K's sake but she was hating K in the early months of marriage and that made things worse with time.

As Mahatma Gandhiji said..." The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong."

One of my favorite quotes on forgiveness by Thomas S. Szasz is "The stupid neither forgive nor forget, the naive forgive and forget, the wise forgive but do not forget". You decide, which category do each of the Takurs and Prats fall in?

She shouldn't be. but then we know Prats. She'll forgive her. I actually don't blame her. Some people melt quickly.. can not stay mad at their loved ones for long. I think had i been in her place would have done that too if the other person is genuinely sorry.

by the way, I voted for No.

Originally posted by: gees

No Never.😡.she should be hung upside down and choked till she loses her voice again !!!!!!!!!!!!!😡😡

Originally posted by: MERARAI

I am that one person who voted YES😃. 👍🏼

Can't lay this one fully on the Takurs this time. Prats misled them to believe that she's the one with the problem. Sure GD may have masterminded plans to get K remarried, they believe he can father a child. None of the Takurs can read a report, they are all uneducated. One could say that Prats took advantage of their illiteracy and misled them. The Takurs are old school and live the way they've known all their lives. One can even say Prats has given them cause to mistrust her next time she reads anything to them.

GD did do a 180 but she's hung up like all the senior Takurs about the continuation of K's lineage. Bottom line, if Prats wants forgiveness from the Takurs and K for misleading them all these weeks however noble her intention and sacrificial her stance, she's got to be willing to forgive them too realizing she had a part in this scenario. Forgiveness is never about the other person anyways. She can't expect to live under their roof and alienate every one of them. As it is she's never tried to mingle with the Takurs. Earlier on they accepted her for K's sake but she was hating K in the early months of marriage and that made things worse with time.

As Mahatma Gandhiji said..." The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong."

One of my favorite quotes on forgiveness by Thomas S. Szasz is "The stupid neither forgive nor forget, the naive forgive and forget, the wise forgive but do not forget". You decide, which category do each of the Takurs and Prats fall in?

Originally posted by: MERARAI

Oy vey! 😲 You too? 🤔

old age should not be an excuse for stupidity or cruelty ... GD is being greedy... she already has 2 g-g'babies... she should be contented with what she has