Nosy, Interfering In-Laws: A Bane or a Boon? - Page 2

Originally posted by: MERARAI

Hmmm... I got lucky from day one👏. A week's visit once a year both ways has been the way it's been.

I've noticed around in families...the nosy ones find a way to stick their heads in and ask 20 questions periodically. They swallow their dissent like a bitter pill and vent their displeasure with relatives who will listen to them. The son or daughter who doesn't tell their parent (mostly sasuma) to give them space early on are the ones who end up letting their parents meddling in their lives beyond the average curiosity.

The rare good ones, live and let him and treat their bahus better than they do their daughters. They are few and far between.

Originally posted by: MERARAI

Yikes another duplicate?😕

Originally posted by: MERARAI

Originally posted by: Snigdhakhanam

good post😊prats was wondering about komal's thumb .there was some logic.prats know it komal is not educative that's why she was tensed about it.but if komal said that it's their husband-wife matter then she didn't interfere i think😊but arushi's behaviour was undigestablejoint family or nuclear family both has some facilities but problems will be there also for sure.The most important thing is ur bonding with ur husband.In komarsh case we can see that adarsh doesn't love komal at all so maybe prats will save their marriage for now but adarsh will leave her one day.

Originally posted by: sudharao100

I never lived with my laws so I don't know what to say. But personally I would prefer to live along with my husbnad and keep a good relationship with the in-laws.

It is really scary if any body has to live with Thakur type of people. Komal may find out about the divorce stuff from Saxenas . But I think Komal is better off being divorced than living with a husband who does not love or care for her. I don't know what would have happened to Komal if she lived separately with her husband. May be Adarsh would have divorced her long back.

My opinion is that couples should live by themselves after getting married, because they need some space and not any interference by in-laws. They have to make a lot of adjustments between themselves. Any interference by the in-laws is not going to help them.

Originally posted by: MERARAI

Hmmm... I got lucky from day one👏. A weekend visit once a year both ways has finally come down to our visit for half a week once a year.

I've noticed among extended familes...the nosy ones find a way to stick their heads in and ask 20 questions periodically. They swallow their dissent like a bitter pill and vent their displeasure with relatives who will listen to them. The son or daughter who doesn't tell their parent (mostly sasuma) to give them space early on are the ones who end up letting their parents meddling in their lives beyond the average curiosity.

The rare good ones, live and let him and treat their bahus better than they do their daughters. They are few and far between.