Pratigya's priority: Krishna or Samar

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Posted: 13 years ago
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MKAPIANS, it is my observation post leap...Is Pratigya doing right by fully concentrating on Samar ? She has converted her bedroom into study room...books, bags, toys, photos of Samar occupied it. There will be a separate room for children in each household after they learn to speak & walk. Is overpossessiveness & love for Samar is right ? "Jab koi apna paraya hota hai ?...Hamesha paraya paraya hotha hai ...unko padhate hai paalte hai , ek din woh sab kuch chor ke jatha hai " When P will realise this ? Pratigya being so intelligent should manage both of them properly. I feel sorry for our Baba...he is sidelined. Poor fellow comes home after doing so much hardwork has to steal or grab forcibly time & attention for him 😭 Guys...what U think ? whether Krishna or Samar ...who should be the priority of Pratigya ?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Both is her priority.Krishna is her husband so he deserves some attention and since she took samar responsibility she cant ignore him too.But nowadays kriya relationship has become very onesided with no romantic approach from prats side
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Posted: 13 years ago
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IMO, Itz not correct to ask a woman to choose husband r children, No woman can answer tis... There should be nothing like priority b/w hubby n children... Ya Pratz is not real mother, but as 4 now pratz is samar's mother n samar is her son tats it... n i don't think so pratz completly sidelined krish coz of samar... Itz just matter of not giving much time to him, tats it... n Itz natural i think once after bcoming parents... Just my POV...:)
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: adib40

Both is her priority.Krishna is her husband so he deserves some attention and since she took samar responsibility she cant ignore him too.But nowadays kriya relationship has become very onesided with no romantic approach from prats side

Ya I think Prats is so tired running behind Samar to spare time for Krish😉

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Posted: 13 years ago
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nice post nina, see it's all about effective time management as u so appropriately pointed out in one of ur posts...but still if P is in any sort of doubt i wanna gv a tricky solution 'day time for samar n the rest for baba'...wotsay?...lolz
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Veena.S

IMO, Itz not correct to ask a woman to choose husband r children, No woman can answer tis... There should be nothing like priority b/w hubby n children... Ya Pratz is not real mother, but as 4 now pratz is samar's mother n samar is her son tats it... n i don't think so pratz completly sidelined krish coz of samar... Itz just matter of not giving much time to him, tats it... n Itz natural i think once after bcoming parents... Just my POV...:)

I agree with your point of view...but not fully.. .as there arises the balancing act. Rearing a child should not become a burden or take a toll on one' s happiness. Woman should not neglect her hubby while taking care of children. He deserves attention too.😆 P is great ...she is taking care of other's child foregoing her happiness...at the stake of her own child. My question is what will be the outcome of this sacrifice ? PBJ? Valuable time and attention to her own hubby & child lost anyways ?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ssrbaqri

nice post nina, see it's all about effective time management as u so appropriately pointed out in one of ur posts...but still if P is in any sort of doubt i wanna gv a tricky solution 'day time for samar n the rest for baba'...wotsay?...lolz

Woh ! It is a great idea ...but Nawabzada gets up as soon as Baba goes near Babu😳

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Posted: 13 years ago
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From a married woman's pov... P should def give time to hubby and to herself... she should not be behind the child 24x7... its not healthy for the kid as well...

Its not as if she has no choice at all... afterall there are other members in TN who can see to the child atleast for a little while...KP could leave samar with his grandparents and go out together once in a while...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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No, Pratigya is wrong in ignoring Krishna like this... He came in her life before Samar.. Prats shares a sacred bond with Krishna... Samar is Prats so-called son.. she is just his guardian... by all means she should look after Samar but not at the cost of her only special relationship

And you are right.. paraya will always remain a paraya no matter what you do for him... blood relationships are stronger

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: a_uma

From a married woman's pov... P should def give time to hubby and to herself... she should not be behind the child 24x7... its not healthy for the kid as well...

Its not as if she has no choice at all... afterall there are other members in TN who can see to the child atleast for a little while...KP could leave samar with his grandparents and go out together once in a while...

Uma...It is true that child will be spoilt if one is behind them 24x7...Samar should learn to deal with other members of the family also. U are right... it is time for KP for another Honeymoon...time to spend with each other.😃

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