If you were a lady in Pratigya's shoes? - Page 4

Originally posted by: mia12

Behoodi okay the scenario is he is doing all of that...but he doesn't know she is in his system😉 he cannot hide, where ever he goes he is taking her with him, a valuable lesson is waiting for him to learn.

I always feel that once u leave the house without discussing matters and getting to the root of it, then you will be inclined to keep doing it. But if you use your motivation and wilfulness to resolve matters then they will be resolved.

Originally posted by: mishti1983

Ok..LOL😃

Put a gun to Krishna's head and run away to Pratigya Niwas.. on a Ashtami ...

Before running away...will throws eggs and Fish curry all over Thakur Niwas...so That Amma can clean the entire TN again. 🤣

Before running away---will send Shyamu and Naina to Cherapunji for 2 Hollimoon---thats the place where it rains the most in India..

Dadi is in haridwar...Arushi...I dont know...as per the new track she will have her 3rd or 4th marriage anyways ...so no tension Nice one 👏

Adarsh/Komal--- hopefully will be lost forever in Dubai
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You always make me smile...Love ya Mishti!

but seriously...until he packs my bags and takes me to the door..I wont leave...you get true love so rarely...and especially when I have seen how Baba has always stood up for me...how a guy like him...fought with his family...If i was pratigya ...i would be intelligent enough to understand that when things go wrong...its due to both the partners..
The min he shows attitude - her luggage bag is waiting to be packed. One day the guy would get pissed and say - U know what just go. I don't believe in leaving, if there is love between yourselves you can overcome all situations, Thoda furniture tootey gaa, a few heads will bang, As long as your partner has not cheated on you then he /she deserves a chance.
but sometimes one partner has to work hard to resolve the issues...When Pratigya hated and misunderstood Krishna...he did not leave her...when its the other way around...its the same thing...misunderstanding...this time Krishna is misunderstanding her.

Until I was physically thrown out by my love...I dont think I will leave...physical abuse..Yes..i will leave then...after destroying a sasural like TN😉 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
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Anyways in real life no one marries a goonda for revenge 🤣 even as 😳 as Krishna

Originally posted by: kriya2011

If i were in Pratigya shoes I will fight back for my marriage and love,i cant give up so easily when it comes to most important relation of my life.One more thing Pratigya achi tarah se janti thi ki Amma ne Krishna ke brain main zeher bhara hain aise halt main use chod kar nahin jaati kyunki krishna ne bhi isse pehle Pratigya ki misunderstanding ke karan uski nafrat tolerate ki magar use choda nahin to pratigya kaise chod kar chali gayee.Komal uski choti pakad use itna marti ki woh bakwaas karna bhool jaati.Carisma i want Pratigya to fight sitting in window and looking at chand and suraj will not going to help her.

Originally posted by: shumi.

if i was a lady in pratigya's shoes!!!!!😊

1) in first place i will not marry a gunda just for the sake of teaching a lesson 😆. that was utter stupidity...doesn't suite to a padi likhi lady pratigywaji.😡

2) ok ...if at all i marry him to take revenge or teach lesson what ever reason ...with my extreme love i would have mesmerize him ( like amma did now) to leave his jungli house, go out and live with him separately and happily.no need to worry about the krishna's job. he can do any thing for pratigya... right?

3) fine ...as of now when krishna said to leave him and go...i would not have run away from his house as a coward. i would have right loyally stayed in that house as his wife and i will tell him that , i will leave his house only if he divorce me legally.by the time my illiterate husband apply for divorce i will stay beside him , every single day i will intract with him, day and night will try to impress him with my good deeds( if that illiterate did not get impressed with my good deed i will seduce him...😳😆)...and will prove my self as innocent.

Shumi .. 👏👏👏😆😆😆😆

what is the point of leaving him and going?😡...by doing so how she can prove her innocent.now going back to singh house is a newton's task

Originally posted by: ramanbabitha

Carisma, I will be EXACTLY like Pratigya...

But let me try something new... Actually K hurting himself now, so whncame to know of this, i just will run to him n hug him[this is the chance, so pls allow me to be behudi]even though he doesn't wants to... i would say sorry for leaving him without telling him... n tell him, its fine he not believeing me, but i want him to cross examine the happenings happened between me n Amma, n then also he couldn't able to find/see the truth, then i all ready to be ur slave...for my wrong doings... i just cannot live without him bcos I LOVE HIM...☺️

Darling if you were Pratigya 😭, by now MMFG would definately have drowned.. 😆😆😆 What Naina could not do in 30 years - You would have in one night! 😆

Originally posted by: carisma2

You know.. If I was Pratz.. I'd remind him of how he chased me, made me promises, made me feel he is the right one, THEN changed on me like a traffic light and sent me spirraling ino the oblivion. Made me fall in love with him, use and abused me and threw me out. And then Krish would be in intensive care after my tongue stops moving and the hands start their action.

Originally posted by: carisma2

You know.. If I was Pratz.. I'd remind him of how he chased me, made me promises, made me feel he is the right one, THEN changed on me like a traffic light and sent me spirraling ino the oblivion. Made me fall in love with him, use and abused me and threw me out. And then Krish would be in intensive care after my tongue stops moving and the hands start their action.

Originally posted by: skanthan

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That is so funny! If I was Pratigya ,and if it was a real situation, I would do the same. But not only to Krishna. 😈 Certain other people would also be getting hurt. And they would get hurt badly! 😡

Hehehehhehee, thankyou... I can just imagine myself going off on one.. 😆

I think in real life, there's got to be more trust than K had in P, don't get me wrong, i know he loves her, but he put her on a pedestal, and amma cunningly made it look like P was jealous, and he couldn't handle what he perceived to be the perfect loving wife being a treacherous woman.

I've been in a situation a few years ago, when someone stabbed me in the back, and said things a lesser man might have believed, but i was lucky my hubby stood by me, or the consequences would have been dire.

But if i were P, in that atmosphere in TN, where my hubby doesn't trust me anymore, and apart from GD and kesar everyone hated me, and he said those words to me, i would leave too, cos he made it perfectly clear in front of everyone at the hospital how he felt. Even though he said things in anger, and always cools down after a while, he's also said a couple of times in front of everyone that marrying her was a mistake.
I would have gone home from the hospital and thought that instead of saying other things he'll regret i'll give him a cooling off period and then talk to him, but if things looked like they are for P at the moment, i would eventually piece my life together, and bide my time until he's ready to listen, and then let him have it, remind him of all the crap i've put up with, plus all the incidents he doesn't know about, cos its no use just missing each other and getting back together until u have a more solid foundation to build a marriage on. each and every problem has to be tackled, which up till know kriya have been sweeping under the carpet.
All marriages have ups and downs, but living under the same roof with such anger and bitterness isn't good either, occasionally its good for couples to have a time out and have a good think about what they're doing, and what they want out of life, then sit down and talk it over with a clear head.

Originally posted by: suk4

I think in real life, there's got to be more trust than K had in P, don't get me wrong, i know he loves her, but he put her on a pedestal, and amma cunningly made it look like P was jealous, and he couldn't handle what he perceived to be the perfect loving wife being a treacherous woman.

I've been in a situation a few years ago, when someone stabbed me in the back, and said things a lesser man might have believed, but i was lucky my hubby stood by me, or the consequences would have been dire.

But if i were P, in that atmosphere in TN, where my hubby doesn't trust me anymore, and apart from GD and kesar everyone hated me, and he said those words to me, i would leave too, cos he made it perfectly clear in front of everyone at the hospital how he felt. Even though he said things in anger, and always cools down after a while, he's also said a couple of times in front of everyone that marrying her was a mistake.
I would have gone home from the hospital and thought that instead of saying other things he'll regret i'll give him a cooling off period and then talk to him, but if things looked like they are for P at the moment, i would eventually piece my life together, and bide my time until he's ready to listen, and then let him have it, remind him of all the crap i've put up with, plus all the incidents he doesn't know about, cos its no use just missing each other and getting back together until u have a more solid foundation to build a marriage on. each and every problem has to be tackled, which up till know kriya have been sweeping under the carpet.
All marriages have ups and downs, but living under the same roof with such anger and bitterness isn't good either, occasionally its good for couples to have a time out and have a good think about what they're doing, and what they want out of life, then sit down and talk it over with a clear head.

Lovely comments.. If there is a problem between a couple they should discuss it untill th ecows come home and they are resolved - both Kriya took each other for granted... thinking they knew their partners so well.