MANCUB KRISHNA ACCUSES PRATIGYA - Page 3

Originally posted by: starlight123

I wonder if all the taunts and total lack in Krishna ability to work is playing a part in his fears to work....It seems such taunts are not affecting him on the surface but deep down such words as useless, worthless plays a part in his fears....His stubbornness and fear of change is overriding everything but one does tend to remember the negative comments and attitude when one does not want to move forward, like in Krishna's case..work...

Exactly Star!

His fear is paralyzing even his attempt at moving in the right direction. Even that modeling gig was a washout bec' of his attitude towards work.

Originally posted by: MERARAI

Exactly Star!

His fear is paralyzing even his attempt at moving in the right direction. Even that modeling gig was a washout bec' of his attitude towards work.

Meera di

the modeling gig was a failure not just because of his attitude towards work but also because of his behavior towards taking orders, his narrow mindedness a result of his upbringing (we have seen this come in to play several times before but this time it cost him his job), as well as his distraught beliefs as to what is acceptable and what is illegal... to him this is a game for prats his self respect... he will fail until he willingly accepts his responsibilities and makes a sincere effort... and that is not possible until his fears are dealt with !!

Meera di

Lovely post... very well written 😃

I have to agree Krishna cannot be blamed solely for his recent behavior.. I was not surprised by everyone's reactions to the pre cap where he blames prats for his misfortunes.. but I have to say it did not surprise me.. he has been treated as a king his entire life he is not about to give it all up without a fight. Krishna is in a position where he is being forced to trespass in to unknown territory without the basic necessities an education. and the desire to do something with his life. It is unfortunate but this is just the beginning he will stoop much lower before he can truly rise, before he will understand that the fault lies within himself and his unwillingness to achieve for something better in life.

Several factors play in to his personality though his upbringing is the most critical... he has the notion that his parents are all talk.. and to an extent they are one minute they threaten him to earn, and the next moment SS proclaims he will never let his children starve. They have proven repeatedly that regardless of his behavior they will support him. and eventually give him what he wants. I have to accept the importance of Krishna's willingness in order for prats to help Krishna, but her silent treatment was not at all helpful.. the man is confused/lazy and looking for an excuse as it is her secluding him was not going to help him to understand what was bothering her but it was simply a way for him to avoid working, I would have liked for them to communicate (even an argument)... but that seems to be wishful thinking !

As for Krishna working.... he has an enormous ego... though his determination is mixed with fear due to his shortcomings. I would love for SS to create a situation where he needs to work though that is doubtful... it seems like he needs to face a drastic situation before he understands the importance of earning.. related to prats since his world begins and ends with her. Yes his outburts are harsh but a part from laziness they also portray his confusion and fears so it would be nice if prats would make an effort to see things from his perspective in order to deal with all of these issues directly... and finally awaken a strong desire inside of him to face his fears instead of blaming others and coming up with excuses to avoid finding a job because of his Tachur status he really needs to grow up because there is no excuse for his laziness/ego time to face reality !!

Originally posted by: Binny1247

Meera di

Lovely post... very well written 😃

I have to agree Krishna cannot be blamed solely for his recent behavior.. I was not surprised by everyone's reactions to the pre cap where he blames prats for his misfortunes.. but I have to say it did not surprise me.. he has been treated as a king his entire life he is not about to give it all up without a fight. Krishna is in a position where he is being forced to trespass in to unknown territory without the basic necessities an education. and the desire to do something with his life. It is unfortunate but this is just the beginning he will stoop much lower before he can truly rise, before he will understand that the fault lies within himself and his unwillingness to achieve for something better in life.

Several factors play in to his personality though his upbringing is the most critical... he has the notion that his parents are all talk.. and to an extent they are one minute they threaten him to earn, and the next moment SS proclaims he will never let his children starve. They have proven repeatedly that regardless of his behavior they will support him. and eventually give him what he wants. I have to accept the importance of Krishna's willingness in order for prats to help Krishna, but her silent treatment was not at all helpful.. the man is confused/lazy and looking for an excuse as it is her secluding him was not going to help him to understand what was bothering her but it was simply a way for him to avoid working, I would have liked for them to communicate (even an argument)... but that seems to be wishful thinking !

As for Krishna working.... he has an enormous ego... though his determination is mixed with fear due to his shortcomings. I would love for SS to create a situation where he needs to work though that is doubtful... it seems like he needs to face a drastic situation before he understands the importance of earning.. related to prats since his world begins and ends with her. Yes his outburts are harsh but a part from laziness they also portray his confusion and fears so it would be nice if prats would make an effort to see things from his perspective in order to deal with all of these issues directly... and finally awaken a strong desire inside of him to face his fears instead of blaming others and coming up with excuses to avoid finding a job because of his Tachur status he really needs to grow up because there is no excuse for his laziness/ego time to face reality !!

Thank you Binny. We are on the same page here.👏😃

First Prats has to realize what's it's like to be in Krishna's shoes. You nailed it. Why would anyone give up a kushi life if he can sit back and enjoy the perks. Simply telling him to get a job is like sending a kid across a busy street. He has neither the incentive, the inclination or the fire in his belly to earn a living if not for himself at least for Prats's sake.

Then educate him at least on the basics. She has to lead him in such a way he doesn't even realize that he is willingly going to work.

He is going to hit rock bottom and when he lands with a thud it's going to jarr his entire system to do something about it. It may well be Prats at the heart of it. Either SS and he have a falling out temporarily which could mean Prats has to work to put food on their table besides earn a living. Or the loss of trust with his lies about working fed by T/C leads to a major fallout which shifts his focus from the fear of working to the fear of losing Prats and his marriage on the line.