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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: starlight123



Thanks Kools. totally agree with you here.......👍🏼.

I am so glad someone else is bugged by Adarsh the most. There are just a few who disagree with his treatment and so many believe that she deserves it because of her uncouth behaviour.

I hate the way he points and arrogantly speaks to his Komal with so much disrespect. I find his approach aggressive. I dont know whether it is his acting or is he meant to speak this way. Either way its annoying.




I have always wondered u know when Krishna does not kowtow Pratigya;s line...tons of thread pop up saying Now that Krishna has got what he wanted..he is not bothered about Pratigya..he is an unpad,uncouth rowdy whereas Adarsh insults and humiliates Komal [a woman ] day in and day out ..he orders her about as if she is a bonded slave ...and I dont see even one thread denouncing him or even Nainaji..
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Posted: 14 years ago
MMG, Sorry for going off topic but what happened to your old pp. It brought so much joy to us all..........😆😆😆
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

I agree with part that for those who witness a way of life it doesnt come as a shocker .........
But ABUSE is ABUSE and it AFFECTS . There r no hard and fast rules that only a princess who has been plunged into a horrific situation gets affected and one who has born into it develops a rhino hide and isnt such a victim . The effect has also taken place on that womans mind , mind u............growing up thinking that abuse is a way of life is in itself an unhealthy effect . Such people r never really normal people like u , me or Pratigya . And describing such a woman as bubbling and sizzling 😆 Dear Tanthya , I agree to the Deal of agreeing to disagree .

Kools di you are too much 😆 😊

I agree with you while Kesar has become accustomed to her surroundings and her own situation that does not mean there is no affect on her brain an individual may feels perfectly fine and content but they are distressed regardless of their feelings gradually the abuse has a drastic impact on their brains which wither as time goes by. This is Kesars' state at the moment she has been abused her entire life and has been affected without her realization yes she will do anything for her husbands love but she has no other option she wants the only thing that will help her to survive in a house full of people who could truly care less about her !! A women in this situation needs someone to point out the faults in her life until she is willing to accept them she needs to be shown a life in contrast to her own for her to understand what she has been going through a lecture and a few words of support will do nothing !! Kesar is a terrified women one who has been left with no options in her mind and that is a thought extremely difficult to get rid of !
Edited by Binny1247 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: pragati.tankha

I didn't think it was about the show. I always enjoy your trivia. Do you have any?

noo..........😆 2day was busy in outing didn't heard FM...............😳😆😆 i thought i bored everyone with my behooda questions...............🤣
Then what was your post?😊
nothing just made my presence on the theard................😆😆


Ppa-pa-re pa ..* Drum Rolls*..Pragati Tankha is here ..All rise and clap ur hands.......👏👏👏👏
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Posted: 14 years ago
Tanthya I once had a talk with a therapist who dealt with only abused women and I argued exactly the way u did . . When I said SHe AINT NORMAL IN HER MIND .............I meant exactly that ...........WE have a minfd that is not PERPETUALLY TERRIFIED . HERS is a mind that is CONSTANTLY TERRIFIED . Thats the basic difference , that therapist told me . They live in a TERROR ZONE and they dont see ANY DOOR of escape . They identify with their abuser and somewhere start blaming themselves for the abuse .They say its tHEIR fault for the abuse ...........What to do , Im dark na , he doesnt like it , he is saddled with me for LIFE , its not really his fault .U see , the shredding of the mind STARTS THERE ............at the blaming point . It later intensifies to the point of willing to do anything for him ...........to gain his approval . Its SICK , Tanthya , its SICKNESS . The poor woman doesnt even know she has it just like people dont know they have Alzheimers . Talk to any therapist and she will tell u this .I got so fascinated by that explanation , I started reading up on it . Imagine a terrified mind in which we dont see escape .Such women , even if they r taken away , they dont see escape in their mind , they feel eventually they will go back to the abuser and perhaps thats BEST . See our mind and see thirs ..........is theirs remotely normal ? Dont go by the things they do upwardly ......eating , dressing up , wanting kajal for sex . Just imagine the TERROR .
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: Madmadgirl

Me agree Tanths👏
Kesar has swallowed the bitter pill which is Saktiya will never lover or accept her as a wife. She said as much clearly in the last episode I think when P displayed concern for her webeing, stating instead she was grateful to the TN family for having put a roof over her head despite now being a "redundant individual"
Kesar has simply thickened her hide, numbed herself to the pain those bast***s have inflicted on her all those years - she isnt surprised by anything now, or at least that is what we have been led to believe.....
C'mon Kesar, one last time - give us a treat to watch! Lose your cool once and for all when that excuse for a man tried to bury you.......throttle the poo-poo outta him!!!!👏



Don't we all ..I hope that Kesar does it and it does not turn into adulation of Pratigya..Aarushi was given the spotlight without Pratigya in that halo, now I would like that self same spotlight on Kesar and kesar alone..
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: tanthya

noo..........😆 2day was busy in outing didn't heard FM...............😳😆😆 i thought i bored everyone with my behooda questions...............🤣

Then what was your post?😊
nothing just made my presence on the theard................😆😆


Ppa-pa-re pa ..* Drum Rolls*..Pragati Tankha is here ..All rise and clap ur hands.......👏👏👏👏
i know u r teasing n being sarcastic on this but still thaxx for claps................EmbarrassedEmbarrassed😆😆😆
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Kools I agree and have always agreed with the forum members that A should be in jail for bigamy but it is unfair to blame her for everything from the common cold to black death.

Maybe I missed it but I haven't seen P complaining about her in-laws to K nor is she unhappy w/ K .So why would she seek a divorce? It wouldn't make sense for them to walk out of TN right now because they have nowhere to go. If she took this step then everyone would complain that she made a decision again without thinking of the consequences.
No one is blaming Arushi for the common cold and black death darling . But yes ........her own actions , defo need to be blamed on HER only .
When she agreed to marry a married man , didnt she realise his wife wud be involved in the repercussions of her action too ? And thats EXACTLY wats happened today . Unwittingly , Kesar has been pulled into whats happening between Arushi and Shakti . Therrs an old saying , with the dry wood , sometimes the odd wet wood also catches fire .And thats Kesar for u in this situation .
Why be this crazy about Aman .......a man she BARELY Knew ? Quite frankly what did she know about Aman to love him even more than Pratigya and to do such foolishly dangerous things to show her grief over losing him ?
Pratigya cud have taken a divorce when she left Krishna after he slapped her .We see her telling at Golgappa stand UR UNFIT to be my hubby , Im way ABOVE U . Then wats stopping u , woman ? Why were u waiting for ur sasur to show up at the door and apologise and take u back ?If ur this bold , go one step further na !
And why no effort to move out , to work , to earn , to educate her hubby ? Why no bold fight THERE ? Why is she wasting her time trying to SUDHROFY monsters who r unwilling to change and never will ?
So I dont feel any sympathy for her and her family .Her brother toh bugs me the most ...........he has destroyed Komals LIFE . These Sax children mess with LIVES , and not just their own . UNdoubtedly Thakurs r monsters but these self righteous prigs r NO LESS .

Kools I don't think P feels sorry for herself and she isn't seeking sympathy either. She has atleast managed to sudhorofy one monster(with much work to be done still). The old K was volatile and unpredictable not someone you want to be married to in real life. She has made some strides towards her goal...... give her some time. Haven't seen too many of the earlier epi but I think she did think about remaining at her parents' home after Angad's revelation but she decided to stick it out. You yourself said that marriage is hard work and can't be taken lightly. She came back and gave it a shot . P.S Losing my mind ! Have mercy and don't reply! 🤣 Came to relax I find myself in knots🤣
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Posted: 14 years ago
yummy mommy I wasnt going to . 😊 I had just sighed and shaken my head and now am gonna make coffee😆
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: starlight123

MMG, Sorry for going off topic but what happened to your old pp. It brought so much joy to us all..........😆😆😆

Hey Star!😃
Mere bachpan ki photo kisi ko jaada pasand nahi aayi......sub humko Komal ke naam se pukaarne lage, behoode!!!😆
Tumko achchi lagi - sooKriya, sooKriya!😳⭐️

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