Adarsh needs some home truths - Page 8

Originally posted by: stillhopeful

Kools from the moment I saw this show I felt Komal was a victim. I even wrote a post about it "Komal : Victim or Viilian". few agreed with me then. glad to see there are lot more now

Adarsh cannot even be given the title "Pathethic Excuse For A Man". that would be overestimating him

I can even bear irritating Arushi but not Adarsh and his Dadi. they are so alike

haughty, dismissive, aloof, openly critical and mean and very manipulative.

sad part is they are the ones that SS should have called dharti pe bhoj.

When Adarsh worked it was not even enough to contribute to the wedding of his sister. he is unable to consummate for whatever reason, so no heir. he is unable to protect his sisters - so wasted rakhi. he is now even unable to work or move around much - so wasted physical or mental attributes - dharti pe bhoj

Dadi - his mentor and ace defender - another dharti pe bhoj. contributes nothing - penniless by herself. every manipulation of her son works against her - so useless adviser. doe snot cook or anything - so basically just another mouth to feed.

Honestly, the entire sax family is abominal and having to live them would be like living in purgatory to me. I have pitied Komal from the very beginning.

Originally posted by: Sid4TeamCanada

OH MY GOOODNESSS!

I AM FUMING HERE! OH MYYY!

i just saw the episode of april 15 the honeymoon one where she gets drunk and they take her back to her room! OH MY I HAVE NEVER SEEN SUCH ALOSER OF A HUBBY!

yaar kitneeee CHEAP khayalaat hai adarsh ki.. i mean he is bringing her to her room, and the poor girl its clear she's sad in her drunken state.. and what does he say? "unpar, gawaaar".. i mean.. the girl IS DRUNK.. she can't even STAND UP FOR HERSELF.. and hello - is it GAWAAR THING to get DRUNK?? do educated ppl NO GET DRUNK LLIKE THIS?

mujhe samjh naaahi aaya yeh beech mein ANPAR GAWAAAR KAHAN SE AAGAYA! i mean, she looked SO CUTE in that scene, pulling pratz by the arm, SO CUTE! and he doesnt even have an OUNCE OF AFFECTION!

gosh i am FUMING HERE MAN! FUMING!

i know KC reading ur post was what made me curious enuff to go find the video in the archives! kyunke YT pe the video isn't there for that episode! and OMG! I AM LIVID WITH ANGER!

Originally posted by: Sid4TeamCanada

i know KC reading ur post was what made me curious enuff to go find the video in the archives! kyunke YT pe the video isn't there for that episode! and OMG! I AM LIVID WITH ANGER!

and u know wht, EVEN if he develops some affection for her, but he will NEVER be good for her UNLESS HE CHANGES HIMSELF! they expect komal to change: THEY ARE THE ONES WHO NEED TO CHANGE! the guy needs to grow a BACKBONE! the girl's father comes and tells the girl to go back to maika with him out of nowhere, and he does not say EVEN A WORD AGAINST THIS! husband ka KITNA RIGHTS HOTE HAI - this guy is a disgrace to the word "husband"...

Originally posted by: Sid4TeamCanada

oh how much i longed to see a post like this!
keep it up yaar chak de phatte!

is sab mein, THEONLY PERSON WHO SUFFERED MOST WAS KOMAL!

and u know wht sucks? i was catching up on pratigya episodes, and what SUCKS is to see her in-laws b*tching abt her behind her BACK! especially that so called "sis in law" of hers! SNOBBY RUDE EGOISTIC i tell u! just becuz somebody does not know how to pronoune honeymoon u make fun of them??? just becuz they are used to eating non-veg u look at them like they r some horrific disgusting alien??? :S:S

all the sax's kept doing throughout th story was :"humari bichari pratigya..humari pratigya..kis ghar mei gayi..kaise rahegi" BLA BLA BLA... did they ONCE look at how they have treated THEIR bahu till date?

the girl had NO FAULT, no FAULT of hers... her brother set up her marriage, and she married! JUST LIKE THAT! and u know what - even she got married in a family whose style is SO OPPOSITE to the one she was used to, even she married a guy she didn't loive, and she married him becuz of her parent's and brother's PRESSURE! yet did she throw around all nakhras and ronadhona after marruage????/ did she? NO! whtever it was, she tried to fit in... she fell for her husband.. she repeatedly kept after hhim.. she even told him that if ONE HE TALKS TO HER LOVINGLY, she'd do anything.. and i FULLY believe she WILL DO JUST ABT ANYTHING - if ONCE ADARSH talks to her lovingly.. if once he shows that he has affection for her as well!

yea komal keeps shoving the money factor in their faces..per what else can a girl do whose hubby doesn't even LOOK at her ? :S she's the one who always approaches him... husband ko toh APNI family se hi fursat nahi! and i am just surprised that nobody is pointing OUT TO THIS SAXENA FAMILY HOW WRONG THEY R! v r still being made to believe that all they did was right?! WHY??

final point:

my heart was CRYING when i saw the post-marriage scene.. when i saw how on one side pratigya was welcomed with soooo many rituals so much happiness (ander se chaahe sab khafa hon ya ghussa hon ya bure log hon) but whtsoever she WAS WELCOMED, when she entered he rin-laws it LOOKED LIKE THERE WAS A NEW MEMBER COMING IN! her hubby was ROAMING AROUND HER lovesick! all the ladies were roaming around curious to see the "new dulhan" and praising her when they saw her!

and when KOMAL entered her house : WHAT???? her father in law CLOSED THE DOOR ON THE NEIGHBOUR'S FACES????? instead of telling them that they'g got a NEW MEMBER IN THE HOUSE! whatever circumstances were for the marriage - the fact was that KOMAL WAS NOT AT FAULT AT ALL in all this matter... they shud've kept their grudge against krishna FOR KRISHNA.... is this how ADULTS FUNCTION? woh daadi boht buzurg banti hai - did she not know any better????? reeet riwaaaj traditions??😕 where was the kalash, where were the post marriage welcoming game? 😕
her mom-in-law did one aaarti! that's it! array they didnt even invite the neughbours to come and take a look at their daughter in law? and all i am asking is, is sab mein IS BICHARI KI KYA GHALTI HAI? she was all happily playing around in her place... when ADARSH ..mahaaan ADARSH came up with this REVENGE idea, ke he wud marry krishna's sister! and that's it! they brought her in and threw her int he room! and what next - gave her this SIMPLE SA ROTI FOR BREAKFAST?????????????????????????/ is that how u welcome a NEW BAHU in ur housee????????????????


i don''t care how shareeef the sax's are, i am honestly sayign this: if i had been shown the cold treatment the day of my marriage, with every1 just leaving me in my rooom, no guests no happiness around, on the contrary with all these sad faces, i WOULD HAVE WALKED OUT RIGHT THEN AND THERE! ek toh shaaadi bhi larke ki marzi se hui uski, upper se she isn't even getting the rights of a wife???? :S:S

ppl keep INSULTING HER.. that mahaan daaadi keeps dissing her... and her DEAR HUSBAND JUST KEEPS LOOKING ON ANGRILY? dude that's how u protect ur wife's honour? that's how u welcome a new bahu?? if u want her to change, then u shud ATLEAST MAKE AN EFFORT... atleast nainaji made an EFFORT!

and finally - somebody shud ask these saxenas how they wud react if somebody did the same thign with their ARUSHI? if the guy marries her willingly, and takes and dumps her in some corner, the whole in-laws constantly taunting her, belittling her, and her hubby not even LOOKING AT HER LOVINGLY, even once! :S

and yea komal wants to sleep with her hubby... so??? does that make her a s***??? hubbies can desire their wives, WIVES CAN'T?????? 😕

all in all, lovely post.. dil khush ho gaya par ke!

p.s: am a new member of pratigya forum.. just caught up witht he show this weekend.. but caught up with pretty much most of komal adarsh scenes.. and komal has already become my FAVOURTIE CHARACTER ever man! it is a rare TREAT to see such a bindaaaas female character for once! amazing yaar! =) usually this kind of attitude v just get to see in prostitue kinda characters... but to see a hubby-loving girl with such bindaaaas character is a treat yaaar! 👏 the onl fault the poor girl has is she was RAISED in an illiterate home - and i honestly don't see any reason she shud be constantly taunted for this! if a kid is brought up in a home where the mother is constantly beaten, and she's not educated on such issues, then reallyy how can u blame if the kid grows up thinking that it is OK to beat women?? if a kid is grown up being taught that wives are just there for havign kids.... then how can v blame if the kid grows up believe JUST THIS??? :S

i definitely want her to file for a divorce man! infact, she shud now go start taking some eng classes ON HER OWN.. and THEN ask for a divorce from adarsh IN ENGLISH.. that wud be a real SLAP on all their faces! ad YES, accuse him of IMPOTENCY! 😈 the dear mother of pratigya got quiet a shock to find out her daughter didn't have any intimate relations with her hubby... but she never thought abt finding out how her son's married life was?? :S

Originally posted by: ja2004rk

excellent topic and replies by every1. 👏👏👏infact i like it so much, i was just itching to reply.

i wud just like to mention a few things which show our hypocrisy as viewers n thus shows the hypocrisy of society as a whole.

the 1st important point that i have observed is that the 1st time pratigya came on to krishna was when she was trying to prove her innocence or virginity etc. she tried to hug shirtless krishna n he pushed her away. the reaction to that incident on this forum,WHOA!!!the way krishna got dissed for that one time rejection was just plain crazy. i won't even bother mentioning the way pratigya had been treating him before coz i'd like to focus on komal only.

komal, on the other hand, has been trying to get adarsh's attention from day 1. it's been almost a yr but every show of emotion from her has been rejected by that no peanuts good for nothing hubby of hers. not only that but she constantly got ridiculed & belittled by the rest of her in-laws too.i wonder y no1 felt bad enuff for her to make a few "yo cvs! stop all this komal abuse,divorce for komal" posts, y every1 chose to ignore the abuse heaped upon her but focused completely on kesar coz some ppl's beloved pratigya ji was championing her.

doesn't that show our hypocrisy. i mean one instance of pratigya rejection by krishna is enuff to turn this forum into a war zone but month after month rejection of komal by adarsh is ok? hmmmm........... every1 was crying how being rejected like that by a hubby can shatter a woman totally, her self esteem shredded to bits,blah blah. wat about komal?i wonder wat justification some thakur haters have for komal's plight.

the 2nd most important point that i have observed is how the totally "jaahil and jungli" meat-eating thakurs accepted their bahu's vegan ways but the totally" shareef, educated, mild mannered, nice, tehzeeb wallah" stinksenas dissed their bahu for being non-veg.they treated her like a leper when she wanted to eat something other than ghaas phoos.they've forced her to change from being a non-veg to a veg coz they won't let her cook or eat any meat while living under sucks roof. i don't see the thakurs doing the same to prats. she can eat watever she wants, no1 forced her to change her eating ways. thakur haters have been totally ok with this discrimination too.

have u guys noticed how even that roti dhoti nainaji, who cudnt speak up even if her life depended on it, has started yelling at komal now for that scumbag aman.she gets all angry often n has stopped being nice to komal,so nainaji's concern and kindness was all hypocrisy i guess.

i also want a new guy for komal, adarsh is no match for that passionate li'l spitfire.i don't like that chooza jai but he has shown us some emotion, unlike adarsh. so i guess if they can't bring in a new guy, i mite be ready to accept that bacha as komal's partner somehow. komal used to like strong macho hunky damsel in distress helper kinda specimens of the male species before marriage,dunno how she fell for that pheeka no balls adarsh. the cvs shudnt go the rape way tho.i don't want her to get raped ,infact i wud totally HATE it if that happened, hasn't the poor girl suffered enuff? it wud be better if jai takes her to the hospital n falls for her n in that process makes adarsh jealous too.anything to burn that chai-lover's b*m hole.after that i want komal to forget he even exists.

P.S. any1 who has any problems with my post, likes adarsh too much(dunno how thats possible tho)or thinks i'm bashing him,all i gotta say is its NOT about adarsh, IT'S ABOUT KOMAL.😛