OUCH!!! Itna gir gaya, KRISHNA???!!! - Page 7

Originally posted by: td_dhoom

woowww yarr gr8 discription👏 ,yaa,arhaan did a splendid job in d precap,loved d way he shouted 👏👏 krisha is always n v can't choose whitch was his best scene but v can't say that this 1 was his bigest angry mood,v've lots of intances😆😆

Originally posted by: PRAGMATIC

Krishna is extremely confused and indecisive at this point, he is taking it all out on Prats, she is the only one right now who could take his heat. Not a situation that they both wants. I think its high time for her to tell Krishna to come out of this indecisiveness and seriously starts to think about finding work for himself. That is the only way out.

Originally posted by: Dyehard

Lashy, you are quite right in your observation. It is one of the more disturbing aspects of some of the people on this forum (not everybody! this is at least very reassuring that most people are fair-minded).
I understand that flawed characters are always more attractive and gain a lot of popularity in the literature and the arts, simple because they have more human appeal. I am personally fascinated by Krishna's character. but I hope that that does not blind me to his character or faults. 😲
Also why this constant competition between the two characters? Is that because Pratigya's goodness, her courage, her selflessness, and her ability to see right and do right at the cost of her own happiness are all qualities of such a STERLING person that people already fear the will never match up to her, never be her moral equal?
But if you ask me, I would rather live in HOPE than live in FEAR!
I will hope that however Krishna slips, he will find the strength to overcome his base nature.

But what if he doesn't?😲

It will be tragic. It will be highly disappointing. But will it be Pratigya's fault? EMPHATICALLY NO!!
If Krishna fails, in fact each time we have seen him fail so far, and every time we will see him fail in the future (he will now and then), It will be his own fault!

I hope the world and large and people watching the show don't try to find scapegoats for Krishna's behavior, especially not someone as completely giving as Pratigya.

Originally posted by: pheonix1

Originally posted by: soapbubble

Disappointing isn't it? 😭

I was hoping that Krishna was giving serious thought to how he's going to take care of Pratigya in the future. I was hoping that the seed of leaving and starting afresh had been planted - that he would be mulling it over, coming to terms with the fact that he's got to step up now.

Instead he has descended into a morass of chest beating and er.. wife beating. 😕 He can now see nothing wrong with Kesar's situation - she's just this whiny woman who keeps grabbing his wife's attention and her energies when they should be concentrated on HIM. He thinks Pratigya is painting herself even blacker in his family's eyes by fighting Kesar's battles - she should just be quiet and try to get on their good side, so that she can get occassional treats such as a full glass of milk. He know thinks his family is quite like that only - he's quite bored with all this drama-shama - I mean, how long can someone cry over a ruined life, for gosh sakes! 😲

Everyone should adjust quickly .... except HIM! 😲 What I'm trying to say here is: Man marries woman, man protects woman, man provides for woman. It's not exactly a radical idea, is it? He has done two out of three now it's time to do the third. OK, he's not used to it. The idea is new. He's not equipped for it. He's feeling helpless, vulnerable, stupid, inadequate. He's not used to feeling like that either.
Full sympathies, Krishna - FULL sympathies. Our hearts are rent that you're feeling bad.

But here's a small suggestion : DEAL WITH IT 😡😡 - First understand what you're going through - think it through, feel it through. Then stop victimising your wife for your inadequacies - she has quite enough on her plate without having to walk on eggshells because of your fragile ego. She'll do it a couple of times because she loves you, but try to bullshit her again and she'll give it to you - she hasn't learnt all her life to work her every utterance around your flower-like sensitive nature.

Second, make a Plan B. yes yes, it's not in keeping with your spontaneous nature but there is no shame in planning an income or a stable life. Against THakuron waali shaan and all that but your wife needs that glass of milk and even you might, once in a while 😉

Third, see if you can spare some sympathy for Kesar. Yes, you have nothing but contempt for her. She's someone who doesn't try to help herself but see that in believing that you and Pratigya must make the best of the situation, you're thinking exactly like Kesar. She doesn't have the guts to shake the existing system and get out - if you continue like this, that is precisely where you are. Think about that.

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Originally posted by: PRAGMATIC

Lovely post Bubble 👏