Originally posted by: Dreamygal301
Pragati,
in life you got to choose which battle to fight and which to let slide. Because no one can fight every single injustice there is or change everyone's POV to meet or follow your own POV. That's what's makes life so spicy.
So K telling P to not interfere is very good sense, in fact good advice. She can argue with him all she likes, but when it comes to family it is a different matter. Especially a family like the Thakurs, Krish knows his family much better than P, he knows how vicious and murderous his father and brother can be. Kesar and his mother live there, so does his Dadi but they never interfere. Who gave Pratigya the golden key to interfere in everything the Thakur family does? just because she married K , does that mean she can now tell SS what to do? Shakti?.......another example, iwhen you get married, does that mean you automatically have the right to tell your BIL or FIL what to do simply because you disagree with their principle of life?
So just because he told her that does not mean he is a gunda or doesn't care about her. In fact because he cares, he is telling her that. It will be a two way door the moment she interferes, then SS and co will feel they too can interfere in kriya marriage. This is why from the first day of his marriage, he made it clear he will be the only one to deal with Pratigya's mistakes......again showing how well he knows his family....slaps and kicks are the norm, he is protecting her. Even when they put the coal in her face, he said I will deal with her. that is one principle he never wavered. This shows he has iron control and enormous self belief.
So he is fighting against the nurturing he had for the man nature intended him to. I personally believe he has been transformed, his soul and heart has gone through redemtion enough to be more than worthy of P's love. You said he wanted to marry Prats because she is brave but not to disobey him.....well he actually said he wants to 'marry a sherni'....a tiger by it's very own personality is defiant, independence and does not run in pack.....that is what he got and what he needs. He doesn't give two hoots about her disobeying him as long as she remembers the golden rule - not to let others know their marital problem. Again this shows a decent guy.
Indeed, he is a very interesting character and one very well defined for a fictional character, btw.😊