DAY OF COMMENDATIONS & CONDEMNATIONS - Page 2

wah mera - again dil kush kardiya, kya update de thi ho yaar.

Originally posted by: gees

Another LALLANTOP post meera and you said it all so well that even i am at a loss of words--but i would like to thank you in particular for keeping us upgraded on the status quo of the beverage corner in mumfordganj !🤣 but please can you throw sum light on the shaktiya bar corner as well--the man was having a hard drink in a steel ka glass-- eee kaun sa style hain jee !!!!

Thankoo gees!

For all the hours we spend on this show watching, reading and posting, someone has to keep a watch on the drinks. Soon it's going to include an international lunch and dinner menu as well which will be posted shortly.😉

When someone drinks in a steel glass I've heard they do it to hide the fact they are drinking alcohol. Who is he trying to hide from? Everyone has his number in that house.😆

Krishna is still smarting from the pain and hurt. It's a defense mechanism kicking in to protect himself. That news was the biggest blow to him. Remember he was someone who believed "mard ko dard nahi hota hai, nar bano naari nahi" attitude and the Angad-gate was an explosion in his mind and he is still working through his emotions. He loves her why else would he defend her to his family? He trust her deep down and believes she is pure, he wouldn't be so ready to expose his raw emotions to her if he didn't love her. His ego is battered and there is an internal battle. He has made some progress but soon he will get there.

Today we heard Arushi tell him a wife can take on the world if her husband stood by her . His anger would hurt her deeply. Next he has to question or hear from T/C why he asked Prats about fear of living in the house. Hope to see him question what his family could have done to Prats when he went away and get some answers from Unlucky, T/C to put the puzzle back together. Once Prats shows him her true feelings he will need to get some answers to bounce back into his marriage.

Meera di 😊

Lovely post

Once again there is hardly anything left to add you have stated everything 😊

The specific dialogue of Aruhi's which I felt was just perfect for the situation was when she stated a women could fight against the world for her husband as long as he supports her but even a bit of anger from his side shatters the women from the inside, Krishna seemed to understand though his reaction portrayed at the moment he really did not care. According to me though this will be important for him later on when he interacts with T and C understanding that for prats to go through so much for him she was definitely feeling far more then guilt or a sense of duty towards him.

It was interesting to see Krishna who is frustrated with prats for hiding the truth, do exactly that when the Saxena's asked for the reason behind him coming so late. I must disagree di it was not half of the truth he simply hid the entire truth regardless of the reason behind it. Though I can see this being important later on to make Krishna understand prats situation better.

Krishna was truly fantastic today he stood up for his wife regardless of his doubts as well as his state of mind. He proved that he would always protect her in front of his family members, though he disappointed later on revealing that it was only a drama for the outsiders. I noticed the glares he gave prats throughout his speech to his family he seemed to be portraying a sense of possessiveness he reacted very strongly because according to him she was his wife no one else had the right to cause her pain except for him. The extant he was willing to go in order to protect his wife's self respect showed the depth of his love he is angry and frustrated but as he interacts with his friends etc, he will gradually begin to understand his wife's innocence. I felt so bad for prats though she felt a sense of pride as Krishna vouched for her purity in fact I saw her nodding her head to his speech but she was shattered when he doubted her in their room.

Amma as usual is unacceptable I hope Krishna finds out the truth though I know prats will never tell him since she does not want to give him more to worry about, but he knows his family members so he should have his doubts. Di do you think these incidents will finally force Krishna to wonder how she must have been treated in his absence if they can be so harsh with him in the house.

I think Krishna's character is tht He wants to maintain his good name as "Perfect gentle man,Perfect Hubby' and so on to his name....But inside he is disgusting will all doubts and anger.Really,I don't know what Iam goin thru.....but for a girl...the worst thing is being doubted by her beloved hubby.iam just saying...why he putting Mask?...he should go out and find the truth....Instead he always wants to peck her and wasting time.He should see to the words he is telling Prats.yah!!! I know she hurted him telling all tht he doesn't want to know b4.....But he should put himself in her position at tht time and think what he would've done.
Noe he himself hide the truth abt A and KN....to his saural...so.....
Pls don't take me wrong guys....I love krishna aka Arhaan soo much...I don't want him to prolong this sitiuation like this,blinded with full of anger and distrust.
Babitha Jayaraman.

Originally posted by: ramanbabitha

I think Krishna's character is tht He wants to maintain his good name as "Perfect gentle man,Perfect Hubby' and so on to his name....But inside he is disgusting will all doubts and anger.Really,I don't know what Iam goin thru.....but for a girl...the worst thing is being doubted by her beloved hubby.iam just saying...why he putting Mask?...he should go out and find the truth....Instead he always wants to peck her and wasting time.He should see to the words he is telling Prats.yah!!! I know she hurted him telling all tht he doesn't want to know b4.....But he should put himself in her position at tht time and think what he would've done.
Noe he himself hide the truth abt A and KN....to his saural...so.....
Pls don't take me wrong guys....I love krishna aka Arhaan soo much...I don't want him to prolong this sitiuation like this,blinded with full of anger and distrust.
Babitha Jayaraman.

babitha

As simple as it might look from the outside in, it's not so clear cut when it comes to how people handle emotional trauma. If you have experience of living through any trauma, there is a process to it that takes time to work itself out. There is the shock, folllowed by denial and grief about the loss of what could have been. As the shock wears off, the denial and processing of the grief give way to acceptance and a new understanding of the reality emerges. The time it takes a person to process through a trauma depends on the personality, belief sytem and emotional make up of the person. Krishna was a man of rigid beliefs about women in particular that he learned from his father and brother. But the innate goodness in him always surfaced and even in spite of growing up in that emotionally toxic environment he rose above it to look at life differently if it made sense. When he took the sagun on his own to Prof. and was told to bring his parents he left and reflected on it. It made sense to try Prof. way bec' he didn't know any better. That capacity to look beyond what he knows and give it a try is what has helped him change every time Prats gave him a reason to believe in a different alternative to the world he grew up in.

What Krishna heard from Prats in the courtroom was like an explosion to his brain. His world as he knew it was shattered. His belief system was at war with the love in his heart. The love for his wife was at war with his self-confidence and beliefs.. Even when he believes Prats is not the kind of woman to have affairs he also knew the kind of man Angad was. He even told Prats he didn't trust him to have left her alone. His ego has taken a beating. It won't allow him to ask Unlucky about that night bec' he doesn't want to show his vulnerability.

Sure he questions Prats and hurts her feelings but it takes courage and strength to be able to show his vulnerability and express his raw emotions to the very person who was at the heart of his pain and hurt. It's his love for her that has been his anchor that gets him through this trauma. Her patience, caring and understanding while he lives through it all will prove her love for him as much as it will deepen what he once believed to be love. He will understand the reallly meaning of love when he comes through it. Prats is in a way doing what Krishna did for her when she entered the marriage with a well of hatred for him. He gave her love and patience every time she gave him hatred and grief with her attitude. She is just returning him the favor now bec' she has fallen in love with her husband who opened her eyes to the true meaning of love........selfless and giving at the core.😃.

I still can't believe the saxenas, Krishna, went to their home and they still haven't apologize to him for keeping a big secret from him. this was a good time for the professor, to fess up or offer him a hot cup of Aman chai....nope they don't want to shorten aman chai, for the next time he decided to show up. Where is Aman, why hasn't he call Aarushi, he is no krishna, krishna would have called up pratz, a million time already or even visit her. this new lover boy need a lesson from krishna.

Thank Mera....iam like ...dunno what iam goin thru....My thoughts full if Kriya....whats gonna happen in Maha epi and so on....the very thought of KRIYA make me happy as well as sad.
I like the lines very much...."His belief system was at war with the love in his heart. The love for his wife was at war with his self-confidence and beliefs.."

Today when Krishna told Prats it was all an act for the outside world and he was still burning up inside many posters here questioned his behavior.

What he did was really a powerful moment. In fact since he came back to life he questioned her motives for doing things for him . She answered that she could never see him suffer or see him unhappy. When he came home he told her to stop doing the little things and she kept trying. He has never sulked or hidden his emotions from her. He is going through an internal battle as that night she slept on the floor clearly showed. He didn't want her close to him yet he couldn't stop himself from covering her with a blanket.

It takes courage, trust and faith in a relationship to be ready to expose oneself to their raw emotions so easily. The natural tendency is to curl up inside and defend oneself against the pain and hurt. Yet he lets her talk to him and is affected by her tears even as he expresses his feelings to her honestly. They are giving each other space to express their emotions honestly to each other. It's better that Krishna tells her he still can't get over the burning inside him than to sulk and just plain insult her and call her names and stuff. All he did was truthfully tell her how he felt. Sure she wouldn't want to hear that he only said it for the outside world but he will soon realize he only defended her bec' he trusted her character esp. after he gets a few clues and/or reflects on his actions.

Notice even after he said it he saw the tears in her eyes and looked away bec' it still tugged at his heartstrings to see her cry. As he said jab tum rothe ho na, tho kaleje me dukh hota hai, such bahtarein.

I still can't believe the saxenas, Krishna, went to their home and they still haven't apologize to him for keeping a big secret from him. this was a good time for the professor, to fess up or offer him a hot cup of Aman chai....nope they don't want to shorten aman chai, for the next time he decided to show up. Where is Aman, why hasn't he call Aarushi, he is no krishna, krishna would have called up pratz, a million time already or even visit her. this new lover boy need a lesson from krishna.[/QUOTE

mia

Is Aman chai a new brand of chai being served at the green house. You think they drink green tea?😛 Didn't you say he was at the airport to pick up his family y'day. That must be some airport delay huh? Or he is trying to convince his rich folks that Arushi is the love of his life. I'd like to see him convince us of that after Krishna's deewani ways of expressing love to Prats.

Before marriage Krishna,

invited Prats to coffee and gave her a thank you note too
asked her to give darshan
Saree gift
gave her red roses at the Shamiana Restaurant
Love letter
brought sagun on his own -rejected
brought sagun with SS - rejected
brought sagun with SS when Prats offered - accepted. So third time was a charm.

After marriage SR#1 - disaster
Ar hollimoon SR #2 - bigger disaster
New understanding and in love - So third time will be a charm?

What has Aman done for Arushi

Represented Prof. in case

Ride home in the rain
Coffee or tea date -rejected
Chai and proposal - accepted
Chai inquiring about proposal - acccepted

Looks like they are giving him unlimited lifetime supply of chai to cover legal fees.😲😕😊