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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hey Frns.....I tried and tried not to write a thread...but Kriya are like fever, I took an active part in various other threads as a way of taking paracetamol, desperately flitted from one forum to another in the vain hpe absence means deliverance ...but Nothing worked..so here I am Monday morning, sleepy eyed with sax fav cuppa beside me and hunched over the KB and trying to do something about this unabated Kriya Fever !!


The scene opens showing the divine face of Shiva exuding a serene Smile ..All the couples have completed the Pooja and also the Pooja hour is over..Pratigya is disappointed and hurt and keeps on looking hopefully towards the street in the vain hope that her Pati Parameshwar may actually turn up...But her vigil goes unrewarded [A case of being so near yet so far ]..Krishna who has remained outside , unseen looks like he has had enough and is all set to leave ..Pratigya's eyes fill with tears [Tears for what ?? that her Husband has become cold or that her pooja is unsuccessful ]

The priest comes to her and consoles her by saying "Don't worry Child !!, Leave everything in the hands of God,Go to ur home Now "...Pratigya nods her head in agreement takes his blessing ..The Priest blesses "Lead a blissful life with ur Hubby " ...Outside Krishna starts his bike and zooms off to his home .



For two days I have been reading various threads devoted to this Pooja wherein I had come across many posters claiming that krishna by staying till the end was there in the pooja spiritually and hence Pratigya's pooja was a success ....I differ in this assessment..Pratigya's pooja was not a success, the pooja remained unfulfilled and was not Successful...irrespective of Krishna's presence outside the Temple...The Pooja actually begins when the couple go and sit in front of the pavitra Agni and the priest chants the Mantra that wards off the evil eyes and seeks the divine blessing of the supreme one..the pooja's success is also marked by the fact, that the couples clothing is tied in gat Bandhan..meaning their piece of clothing is tied , to denote that the bond is unbreakable...None of these Happened ....Pratigya was never called to sit in front of the Havan, neither was Mantra recited on her behalf...If any proof was needed that Her pooja did not culminate successfully..then listen to the priest's wording's...he says "Don't Worry, leave everything to God"...These words are words of Advise and consolation and not the words used when a Pooja is completed successfully.......

Does this mean that the Marriage is on shaky grounds?? does this mean that this Marriage is Null and Void? That this Marriage is meaningless ??..these were the questions staring at me..and while figuring it out...I realized that Yes !! This marriage is Null and Void ,,,But No the bond between Kriya remains Non violate...


what was this marriage based on..the basic premise of this marriage was ????......The Marriage of Kriya happened for all the wrong reasons, from her side the Marriage was based on hatred, revenge,helplessness,anger and from his side it was Passion, stubbornness, Ego and power-play ...could a marriage based on so much negativity be called a Marriage ..could such a marriage based on so much negative emotions actually succeed ??could such a marriage be called a union of souls ....................NO !!! A big NO !!! ..............................

How then to sanctify this Marriage ?? how to convert all this negativity into positives ?? How to make this Marriage a true Union of Souls ??

we have an inkling that this marriage is moving towards the path of God and Happines when Pratigya is bitten by the Snake..Krishna not only removes the venom of the snake but he also destroys the hatred, contempt, coldness and distance hidden inside her ..her frozen heart melts and anger ,loathing evaporates ..and her heart gets completely drenched in love , compassion..in other words Pratigya is re born, she has moved towards light ...but what about Krishna..he is still the same ..or is he ?? The venom that Pratigya took acts on him and the Old Krishna too dies and LOVE brings him back and we have a Krishna who has become thoughtful, sensitive and Mature...so we have Two reborn characters , who have been transformed under the power of love ..then how can the two transformed souls be bound by a marriage of hatred ...That Marriage will be dissolved , has to be dissolved ..and it was dissolved in the temple !!... Now we are left with two souls cleansed of hatred ,irrevocably bound in love moving steadily towards their UNION .... What now begins will be the true Marriage of the Two loving souls ...KRIYA !!!

These are my rather whimsical and foolish thoughts on Kriya ... I have put it down here ...feel kind of peaceful now...😊

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Great post as usual tanthya

I feel the puja was successful on some levels.... Not conventionally hence the priest words about trust in God to reassurejpratigya that after darkness bright blue sky appears. Rishna came for his love but didn't feel compelled to sit through the puja but did not want to be part of this farce as in his mind they are not really husband and wife in any sense apart from name and society
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Posted: 14 years ago
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amazing analysis. very beautifully written. yeah all the negativity has been washed away and there is nothing left but love, pure & total.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Kiya Tanthya, such a spiritual post. Some time I feel that most of the scenes and screen play were written by the writers and played by the actors by the seat of their pants. But after reading this post I see the logic of events and behaviors portrayed by the two leads makes so much sense. This is one of its kind concept, one of its kind love, one of it kind marriage. These two seems almost ordinary yet brings such and extra ordinary bonding that pulls each other back to one another even form the clutches of death. The moment when these two finds themselves for each other will be the moment of such an intensity and bonding that sparks will be felt way beyond our imaginations.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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very well written post...........👏👏👏

i always felt they should remarry, this time all alone.......no ego n feeling of revenge in either of their minds , no SS n sakthi holding guns and a pure atmosphere devoid of threatenings n galis........(the atmosphere when they married was horrible to say the least) ........they have really proved they r real husband n wife or made for each other when krishna saved her life endangering his own and pratigya binging him back from the clutches of death..........but they should redo all the rasams with pure heart now that prat has realised what her destiny is and krishna has realised he just can't live without her hw much he tries to hate her and hurt her.................
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Posted: 14 years ago
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thanthya i really missed ur long posts. im glad ur back in action. this kriya fever has always been this way.....sometimes i go mad at them but the very next moment i start loving them again 😆
ur views r very different n very reasonable aswell. both krish n pratz have been reborn with LOVE. but now its time that they understand the depth of their love n convey therir true feelings to eachother giving us a much-awaited KRIYA-UNION n itss base should be LOVE n TRUST 😃
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Posted: 14 years ago
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👏loved d way u said it.................😊

yes prats is all ready for dis marriage but krishna.........................😕well prats came to know that krishna did not do all d things that she blamed him for ........but krishna still does not know why did she marry him or y was she not in this marriage inspite of being his patni.................that will b d turning point krishna's realisation..................a dawn of new beginning..................😛
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Posted: 14 years ago
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nychee posttttt yeahhh d hatred which prats had developed due to misunderstandings created by angadwa..4 krishu its kinda ov all gone now...she dosent hate him nemoree..infact i c can lubb blossoming;)in prats's heart 4 krishuuuu although krishu is angry young man aj kal:(:p ehehe hopefullyyy both will lea out thingsss I WANAA C HAPPPYYY KRISHUUU NT SHADD SHADD:(WANA C KRIYA ROMANTIC SCENES DERE BG MUZIKK SONGSS NAACH GAANAAA etc etc ehehe happinessss jst happinesss
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Posted: 14 years ago
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nice 1 sathya,even i'm confussed that y prats was crying just b'cozz her pooja remained unsuccesfull or b'cozz krishna is not paying attention 2 her like he does b'4.i think that krishna wanted 2 enter d temple but again his ego n more than it his agression n anger came in his way.i feelthat krishna is not goin 2 forgive her soo easily
but i like krishna's attitude that what is d need of pretending in front of ppl if we don't share d real hubby wife relation,there i like krishna that he don't want 2 pretend nything.n thanxx 4 posting update,i really miss them
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Tanthyatope, All I can say is that I feel your pain!

Ishq ne Ghalib nikkamma kar diya
Warna hum bji the aadmi kaam ke!


It is a slightly scary thing when fictional characters take over your life. I have often found in the past few months, that I am carrying out a perfectly serious conversation with an acquaintance or associate and inside my head is running a kriya ticker-tape. I am amazed by my own skills of duplicity that they are unaware of what is in my head and that I actually manage to make sense when I speak of other matters! But then I allow myself the luxury to wallow in this delicious illness, because the mundane businesses of life have many propulsions, but what is life without an inner life?

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I must say I was a little dismayed when Krishna would not sit with her in the puja. I always felt that the CVs have always taken such indicators seriously and have always used them as foreshadowing tools. Remember the chant when Krishna was coming by bike to the samgam when Prats was doing puja for her future husband? They were definite about linking them in a karmic way. So why did they not sit together as a couple in this puja? Somehow this attracts me to a repeat of the wedding wows scenario like Dharkan mentioned.
I too was thinking the same thing. The kriya wedding was accompanied by so much 'klesh' that somehow it does not seem adequate to symbolize their relationship. I would love for the vachans to be taken by both in good faith again! Call me Soppy Dyehard! So there! Who can deny all sentimentality with perfect honesty? Fie on them!
I am thinking maybe that is why they made Krishna say "hum sach mein pati-patni nahi hai" or something to the effect. It will be lovely if they are formally wed in spirit before C of M.😳😳😳

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