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Posted: 15 years ago
#41

Originally posted by: trina_one

I see what you're saying yaar. At the same time, SR has also become a sticky point for both of them, and something easily used against her by Amma. What has he gotten out of this marriage until now? 😕 A nice-looking cook and nursemaid? Someone to fluff up his pillows? In his own words, Kesar and Amma have been cooking and looking after him long before Prats came to his house.
I am not saying go rush into an SR just to soothe his ruffled feathers. I am not even saying go have his child to please him and win over his family. But she should prove in different ways that she does feel for him. She cares for him completely, and not just enough to make a few snacks. She has gone against every little request he has made, and it hurts him. Every secret, every denial of affection, they all add up. He should not feel at this point in time, that there will never be an SR. Or that there will always be secrets between them. Every little point of contention between them, be it her attitude, or her blind loyalty to her family, or their inability to relate should be resolved. SR should be included in that. If a marriage is a real marriage, then it obviously should be consummated. Even someone like Prats realizes Krishna is no longer how he was when she first met him.



Valid arguments Trina,

But i think both should at least reach at a point where C&M doesn't look like a proof to prove love from either of them. It should happen when only love compels both to get intimate having resolved the bitterness Krishna still has for her.
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Posted: 15 years ago
#42

Originally posted by: SAM2U



Valid arguments Trina,

But i think both should at least reach at a point where C&M doesn't look like a proof to prove love from either of them. It should happen when only love compels both to get intimate having resolved the bitterness Krishna still has for her.

I agree, love must compel both of them, there must be feelings to act upon in the first place. But Prats has been unrealistic in expecting Krishna to live like a bachelor for the rest of his life. Shakti can't do it for a single night, and his brother has been doing so since he took his vows. Only now, does she realize what we have known for ages, that he really does love her.
Think about the past- Pratigya agreed to marry Nitin for her grandmother's sake, then she marries Krishna for the sake of her father's name. It's all sacrifice. But how can she expect Krishna to sacrifice his own very real feelings towards her and at the same time defend her every move in front of his parents? It seems like she is getting it both ways. Adarsh married Komal, another sacrifice in vain because Pratigya will never get a break from her in-laws.
How will it take for Krishna to forgive her? And how will she achieve this?
Edited by trina_one - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
#43

Originally posted by: SaacheeSyna

well we all know that aman-arushi will come up soon...but him proposing her on the first day was too much😕😕..... At this rate by the end of this month...they will get married yaar🤔....maybe the saxenas will end up consummating their marriage all on the same day😆😆


🤣 yes all the three saxena siblings.... btw hilarious comment to lighten up a seemingly unrealistic storyline
Edited by lashy - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
#44

Originally posted by: lashy


🤣 yes all the three saxena siblings.... btw hilarious comment to lighten up a seemingly unrealistic storyline

😆😆😆😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
#45
tanthya:

your precap was expressed as beautifully as the scene was enacted. thank you

krishna has gone through quite a patch hasn't he in the last few days? so intense that true comprehension is very difficult for most viewers.

I tried putting myself in his shoes today, can you imagine the inner turmoil of his emotions? the battle within himself?

here is a man who LOVES a woman he does not believe loves him back (in fact he has ample proof from her very own mouth) or even trust him; he NEEDS her proximity and her indulgence yet believes that any care she gives him is prompted by guilt and an inane compassion; he FEELS himself instinctively drawn to her but he believes that he holds no such attraction for her.

Who do you think disappoints him more right now? - her or himself. who do you think he is more angry with right now? - her or himself.

I think he is more angry with himself because he knows that HE misinterpreted all the signs and made him self so vulnerable by giving her this unconditional power over him. More than her he does not trust his own instincts. everytime he sees her he remembers what a fool he has been and gets angry which is why he is so curt with her. he has tried the self destructive route, it destroyed him and his family.

I read your comments about his mood and his behaviour to come over the next few epis and I thought you were spot on. the way I see it in the future epis:

  • he will be guarded around her yet very aware of her
  • he wil be purposefully doubtful of her but unconciously searching for answers/ hints through her gazes and actions
  • he will want her proximity but will not trust himself with any interaction as he thinks it will open up old wounds and create unnecessary expectations on his part.

I think the dude is going through a very muddled phase. I don't envy him or her.

but as a wife that cares Pratigya is doing the following things right FINALLY

a) she is persevering in maintaining the most fragile of connections with him while giving him the space he needs

b) she is trying to engage him in conversation hoping to distract him away from something she cannot solve to something she believes she can handle

c) she is showing him that she can be trusted through actions more than words

Well I think I have said too much

have a great day and thanks again

Hope😃

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Posted: 15 years ago
#46
Great post Hope 👏 very good analysis......agree with it, it is a very tough time for baba
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Posted: 15 years ago
#47
Itna bhua mat khahiyo Baba! Maaf Kari daiyo Pratigya ko! Come Pratigya, end Krishna's bitterness here before it's too prominent like your father in law Sajjan Singhs is!
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Posted: 15 years ago
#48

Originally posted by: trina_one

He always was upfront about this, he wants a SR! And so do we! =)



Ka bey?
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Posted: 15 years ago
#49
kirshna is soo..what ever happned to his so called love???? i think in marriage and love..u have to learn how to trust the other....have faith...psssshhhh krishna..*tisk tisk*
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Posted: 15 years ago
#50

Originally posted by: sana.malik

Itna bhua mat khahiyo Baba! Maaf Kari daiyo Pratigya ko! Come Pratigya, end Krishna's bitterness here before it's too prominent like your father in law Sajjan Singhs is!

Well said Sana. 👏👏👏 Take a bow.

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