sefish intuition!!!!!!! - Page 5

Originally posted by: meerag

based on Prats

For starters, respect him for who he is not who she wished he could be
don't disrespect the spouse in front of her family
don't let maike talk demeaning about her spouse (it reflects poorly on her as well)
It's not about picking his clothes and bringing his chai (butlers or Piasiya can easily do that)
Care about his emotional well being (it directly impacts her life too, as she is finding out now)
Be grateful for the little things he does for you, it's never about the big ones anyways
Don't give him baashans, most men tune out after 25 secs (that's a fact)
Don't play mind games and go into marriage with an agenda esp. one with revenge
Don't preach to him what she doesn't practice herself
Don't use rona-dhona to manipulate his love for her
Don't keep secrets esp. things that can affect both of them and maybe even destroy the trust, for
without trust there is no love
Don't use him for your agenda and sideline him when you have had your way
Marriage is a two-way relationship of give and take
Don't make a public spectacle and air personal details of marriage to one and all
If you have secrets to tell don't use public stage to reveal it

How's that for starters?😃

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

I have no doubt about Shruthis 'unique' way 😆😆😆😆 of looking at things

😆...so true...that school going teen has the unique way of explaining consumption....marital rape... husband and wife relation etc...and she also has the unique language like chii, creepy, jerk etc etc......

Originally posted by: SAM2U

Ohoooo Man, The whole party is here. Nice thread much needed, Have fun counting Pratigya's intuitions.👏

welcome to this party sam😃...for sure your presence will make the party more joyful...wo kya kahay thay hain ...chaar chaand lagay thayngay...😃

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

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His marraige is this

. zero possibility of sex or children . Incessant fights between his family and wifey . Wife running constantly to maayka in two two days on some pretext or other . Full day listening to tales of MUMFORDGUNJ and its equivalence to PORBUNDER and Hamaare Papa yeh and Hamaare Papa woh and his equivalence to Gandhi . . I just feel soooo sorry for the dude . Ur post was excellent shumi .

one more point....finally he is on the streets😭...so she taught him patni kya cheez hotihai...hope he learned a lesson...

Originally posted by: shumi.

😆...so true...that school going teen has the unique way of explaining consumption....marital rape... husband and wife relation etc...and she also has the unique language like chii, creepy, jerk etc etc......

First of all Shruthi is not a school going kid, Secondly her views are just the perfect reflections, emulating how Partigya would see things through. But i will let Shruthi defend for herself if she wish to do so, though I doubt it. I abstain from becoming any ones lawyer on this forum.

very good question...i tnink you are new to this forum and new to IF too( i can see hardly 86 posts of you😊) if you want to know how a wife should behave lots and lots of posts are there in this forum to explain by mrearai,tantany, kool, shumi, stillhopfull .hamisky etc etc ...and many more.those who all married and leading happy married life...😃

Originally posted by: shumi.

welcome to this party sam😃...for sure your presence will make the party more joyful...wo kya kahay thay hain ...chaar chaand lagay thayngay...😃

Chaar Chaand laga diyaye hum ne sare Pratigya forum pe, let alone this thread. 😆

Originally posted by: MERARAI

based on Prats

For starters, respect him for who he is not who she wished he could be
don't disrespect the spouse in front of her family
don't let maike talk demeaning about her spouse (it reflects poorly on her as well)
It's not about picking his clothes and bringing his chai (butlers or Piasiya can easily do that)
Care about his emotional well being (it directly impacts her life too, as she is finding out now)
Be grateful for the little things he does for you, it's never about the big ones anyways
Don't give him baashans, most men tune out after 25 secs (that's a fact)
Don't play mind games and go into marriage with an agenda esp. one with revenge
Don't preach to him what she doesn't practice herself
Don't use rona-dhona to manipulate his love for her
Don't keep secrets esp. things that can affect both of them and maybe even destroy the trust, for
without trust there is no love
Don't use him for your agenda and sideline him when you have had your way
Marriage is a two-way relationship of give and take
Don't make a public spectacle and air personal details of marriage to one and all
If you have secrets to tell don't use public stage to reveal it

How's that for starters?😃

Do you know what saddens me the most is how the institution of marriage is made a mockery of. Revenge agenda not only hurts the person you want to inflict pain on but you also end up suffering.

I have reasons as to why I find this marriage a childs play. I have witnessed a bad marriage and seen how a woman has the strength to overcome difficulties without a MAN to support her. If there was 1% of support like Pratigya got through her husband and her parents, things may have been different on personal front.

That support is priceless.

Originally posted by: shumi.

one more point....finally he is on the streets😭...so she taught him patni kya cheez hotihai...hope he learned a lesson...

Ouch! That with "tum hamare layak nahi hai" at gol gappa stand (I can see Kools getting fired up the minute she read that line😲) and Krishna telling Shamu "humri patni humko layak nahi samajthi, no tumse shikayat karne mei ka fayada". No wonder he is on the bench. Krishna remember all those painful taunts when you get back and hold on to your self-respect dude.😃 Make sure she is not playing mind games this time around when you return.

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

I know what intution she will get . Papa is having a stomach upset . Or Papa 's hind bone is paining . Or A hair actually grew on Papa's head today morning .

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Other intutions r zilch . Krishna has done Satyanaash of his life by marrying this jhagdalu female who lectures full day .

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His marraige is this
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zero possibility of sex or children

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Incessant fights between his family and wifey

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Wife running constantly to maayka in two two days on some pretext or other

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Full day listening to tales of MUMFORDGUNJ and its equivalence to PORBUNDER and Hamaare Papa yeh and Hamaare Papa woh and his equivalence to Gandhi .

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I just feel soooo sorry for the dude . Ur post was excellent shumi .

A hair actually grew on Papa's head today morning


hehe well said 😆