Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
U keep asking HOwwww ? I dunno if u have lived in a village in India or a small town , but I have , and life there is not easy . They gossip and gossip very BADLY . It becomes so unbearable ..........this kind of badnaami that one is driven to suicide .That what they showed about Krishna was not exagerated At all , that he thought of murder or suicide . It happens.
They taunt u everywhere ........at functions , on the roads , they even ostracize u . It is a narrow minded small town we r seeing , it doesnt suddenly become broadminded in one day . They even stop bringing alliances for other siblings although its not their fault. The talk , the stares drives u out of ur MIND . For a Pratigya in real life , there wud be catcalls as she walked the street , and men wud brush against her or try to touch her , and I dont exaggerate. These taunts will be given NOt just to Pratigyas family but even her sasural .........That we know what a piece of work ur bahu is . It wont be say for both families to survive in reality . Hope this answers ur howwww. If u want gory details I can give u , but it may shock u and mods may tell me to be quiet .ššš
About shud she let her father rot in jail . Her father ALREADY was voluntarily sitting in jail .Did we see him ROT ? He was LOVING it .š On a serious note , So many days had already passed , the man was FINE .He was not being given the third degree , and not even being questioned . What wud few more weeks have done ?SS was going to get him out anyways , and all this washing of dirty laundry in public wud have been saved . Her Dad was not going to get boils on his skin by living there for three more weeks....the way she was acting was impractical .
U say Arushi WILL get , NAINAJi SHOULD walk ...........all the WILLS and SHOULDS r very PAINFUL and cud have been AVOIDED is my point .When u have an easy road , why chose a one with pitfalls just for the heck of it . Its not about HER and DADDY all the time u know, its high time she thinks of the other people she pulls in with her rash actions. Why the hell shud her mother , sister , granny suffer .Evaluate a decision before taking it . She is not a single social worker staying in a hostel , free to do what she wants , so many lives r attached to her decision as she is affiliated to two familes .
About SS desrving to lose in elections , look I dont like the man either but be fair if u can and see objectively . Lets forget SS , let stake a decent politician like Jagmohan . Even he wud be upset with Pratigya today coz this adverse publicity will affect his election .....the narrow minded small town will NOT give him votes after this .He wud perhaps not go to the extent of blackening her face but wud coldly order her to GO forever and start divorce proceedings. Here in America , educated politicians suppresss whiffs of the smallest scandals..........thats rural India and this girl walked , ran and sprinted towards SCANDAL asif it was her dream in life to have one .
She shud have shown some growing up in the real sense and NOT been such a baby to cry I want my Daddy out and I want him NOW ! So Daddy wud come out in few weeks , so FINE . It was Daddys decision anyways .If These guys cannot have himmat to sit thru the decisions they make why do they make them in the first place ? At first The Prof obstinately sat there , allowed himself to get in deep waters and then allowed a lawyer with just a kasam ? Arre what noutanki was he pulling ? This girl , she cud not bear to see her Daddy in pain for fewww more weeks but pain of so many others was ok for her ?
And What for ?The laddai of TRUTH ? What truth , did she and her Dad have guts to even tell it to court till the end or did they suppress it ?If truth was told ..........That Adarsh went there to murder Angad , That he egged his Dad on to let go of Angads hand and Angadslipped , Adarsh wud have been arrested in court itself and her Dad wud go in for AIDING and ABETTING .
If Truth was never gonna be told why the hell did this Baap Beti pull this stunt ? For getting publicity or what ? Is it a big thing to act purposefully STUPID ? And then it seems Krishna pushed her away this and that . What was he gonna do , embrace her and make her sit on his head and parade around town as if she was a DEVI ? Others have hurt feelings too u know , its not just about HER feelings all the time.
@Koolasadhu,
Thanks for the reply. I am calling it quits. Our POVs are at the opposit ends of the specturm. So we are never going to agree. But it was nice talking to you
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