Originally posted by: shruthiR
Right now she isn't stuck up in the past and wants to start afresh but the circumstances she is in doesn't allow or permit that.I don't think that she is being nosy by fulfiling her duties as a daughter.There is nothing wrong if she does the running around for this case coz after all it is her own father not some neighbour of her's.And she came home a bit late on that say alone since it did take a lot of time in trying to convince and coax her father to sign those papers and to try and convince her parents about her telling him the truth about her kidnapping.Who says that she refused to sympathize?She is very well aware of what he is going through and feels very bad that his family keeps taunting him regarding her for almost each and everything but hey,he's the on ewho wanted to get married to her so badly against his family's wishes so he should've been prepared or should've listened to them and should have stopped being stubborn about getting married to her.Like you said household chores are part of getting married,all this taunting is also a result of him being so adament abt getting married to her.
My POV is that she isn't meddling with her maika issues as you call it coz just beacuse she's married it doesn't mean that she isn't a part of tht house or isn't their daughter anymore.She still very much is their daughter and has every right to know and try and sort out their problems.And pls,we're talking abt Adarsh and Arushi here.Knowing them do you ever think tht they are possible of sorting such complicated things out like this on their own.
Shruthi,
she says she wants to start afresh, she says she wants dosti first, she say she wants to prove her father to be innocent ..as you said it is all about her WANTS ..how about what Krishna WANTS for a change ?? and merely wanting without turning it into action does not denote any progress in relationship..and just speaking softly does not constitute progress...
There is nothing wrong in her running around her father's case ...provided if she was the only child or if her mother was an invalid .., but when one has an ELDER BROTHER who is the logical person to assume charge, her going and coming for each and everything is not needed ...
she is running around for her own father..and what is her husband ,is he not her own ? is he an outsider , some one who is unconnected to her...let me tell u shruthi...each and every action of hers will impact on her husband much more than on her parents after marriage.
it is not her going out and coming late one day..it is her going out evryday ...
she is aware that Krishna is suffering but has she ever aknoeledged it to him...has she ever said ..tumhe mere wajah se bahut kuch sunna pad raha hai !!..nothing like that has happened..!!
he married her after she comes to him and tells him to get shagun...he was thinking that feelings was mutual ...how was he supposed to know that she was forced into , did she even give a hint before marriage that I am being forced into this marriage
All these taunts are not bcos he married her..all these taunts are bcos he has refused to put an obstacle in her path ..has given her degree of freedom.. and is refusing to stop her from her fighting her father's case.
Bcos she is married , she also her obligation towards her hubby and in laws...you cant compartmentalize relations....one cant say, right now I am a daughter, I cant be a DIL now or a wife NOW.....One has to multi task . and try to choose that option that will be able to assuage all the parties ....THAT IS WHAT IS CALLED BALANCING THE RELATIONSHIPS.....unfortunately Pratigya has not learned it !!
she has every right to help her maika...she can call them up ask for daily updates, advise on the next course of action...she doesn't have to be physically present in her maika for doing this thing...
As long as Pratigya interferes, do you think Adrash will grow up to assume responsibilities ??