Originally posted by: CanadianAddict
but maafi would be admitting she did something wrong. which she didn't do, when in fact Krishna should be apologizing to his family for propagating the lie. she went along, yes, but if you look at her past experiences and look at her psychee, its quite plausible why she would be submissive. she has self-dignity and pride as well, which Krishna took away by treating her like trash in front of everyone and SS and gang kept accusing her in front of everyone, not even acknowledging their son too, may have played a part. therefore, she shouldn't apologize, elders or not, they were wrong. it takes a lot of guts to stand up to elder, and just because they are elders shouldn't mean she should lose her dignity in responding to their whims. because some of the biggest mistakes in history were committed by elders, not teens and their angst. and i wouldn't def. apologize to any of them. btw please dont take offence to what i am saying, just like to hear out others views :)
Hello Nav!!! I guess u were MIA as well, huh?😆 Nice to see u back and agree with ur thoughts!!!⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
@ CutiePiee4: Yes, asking for forgiveness from elders is NO BIG DEAL, IF she had committed ny wrong!!! If after making a mistake Pratigya still refused to apologize - like a certain someone, that would have been called stubborn and egoistic or teen rebellion!!! BUT here, Pratigya dint DO ny wrong and Whats up with this mentality of Asking for forgiveness wont make her small, when the point is she didnt do nything to be sorry about or feel small or big about!!!😕😕😕 WHY should Pratigya or ny woman, give into the whims of nyone at the cost of her beliefs and self-respect - be it elders or youngers??? What was the POINT of revealing the truth and NOT continue with the lies, IF she HAD to apologize for speaking the truth??? I think, its BCOZ she is a woman, a daughter-in-law and younger, and so, is expected to NOT be stubborn and apologize just to make the elders happy and fulfill their wishes... And the happiness and wishes of the Thakur elders would have mattered if they were not all about the Thakur-male-ego and beating up women and man-handling women and degrading women in the lowest way possible!!! WHY should Pratigya apologize when that would clearly MAKE her into an acceptor of such beliefs as the MCPs and what would be the difference between Kesar and Pratigya??? Coz, Kesar is in the state she is now coz, she was also EXPECTED to do as her elders wished and being uneducated and uncivilized, she followed those wishes blindly and the result is death of 4 un-born lives!!! AND u still EXPECT another woman to just give in and follow Kesar's steps???
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