Pratigya chose to marry Krishna and decided to teach him a few lessons while getting her revenge. She has primarily focused on his faults and unacceptable behaviors while refusing to acknowledge his little gestures and attempts in trying to express his love for her in ways he knew. Why is it hard for her to acknowledge his little gestures at all?
Why would it really matter whether Baba changed his ways or not, if she had already planned on hating him, having her revenge and teaching him lessons?
Granted it is a TV drama. But for healthy discussion purposes only, here are a few questions that I have been mulling over............Krishna said she went through the marriage ceremony and took her sath-pheres with him, wears the sindoor yet never really lived a normal married life. Why the pretense? Society? Her beliefs?
If she really hated him that much, why did she react every time Sakthi or SS pulled a gun on him or grabbed him by the throat? Just fright response?
If she really hated him that much, why did she care when he was stabbed by Angad? Again, fright reaction? She took care of him and even went so far as to dab his forehead,which was not really necessary to do for someone she hated and wanted to take revenge on. The haldi, thel and garam paani calling the doctor, etc. would have been good enough.
If she really hated him that much, why did it bother her when he didn't pay attention to her when she was crying on the bed after a confrontation with her sasural?
If she really hated him that much, would she be indifferent if something terrible were to happen to him at some point? Would she be ready to forgive him in a heartbeat if she knew she could lose him forever? Why wait for something extreme to happen, why not forgive now and look for ways to make things work between them?
What does it say about Prats if she is willing to forgive all his past mistakes, behaviors and actions if it is on the condition that he change and becomes worthy of her love? After all a person is a sum total of his past, present and future. So if she is willing to forgive him his past and love him later on why not forgive him now and move on with showing him how to change his ways going forward?
If she fell in love with Krishna bec' he had changed will it really be love? What if he changes again later (after all we grow and change over time) and she doesn't like the outcome, will she fall out of love with him untill he fits her bill of acceptable changes?
Let's keep it a friendly discussion. 😃JAI HO!
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