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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: shumi.

great analysis dear👏


thanks yar!
n sorry 2 say but I can't respect a woman who bears tortures n doesn't say anything against it!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: dkmystery


thanks yar!
n sorry 2 say but I can't respect a woman who bears tortures n doesn't say anything against it!

true... i don't know which country u live😕. but as for india is concern even now 70% to 80 % bahu's try to avoid opening their mouth against their in'laws even though they are highly qualified, to keep peace in their married life. for example i myself.not only i all my relatives and friends who were all master degree holders end up in worst sasuraal never open their mouth against them. fortunately they are all treated by their husband very nicely. so they don't mind keeping dumb in front of their in-laws.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: shumi.

true... i don't know which country u live😕. but as for india is concern even now 70% to 80 % bahu's try to avoid opening their mouth against their in'laws even though they are highly qualified, to keep peace in their married life. for example i myself.not only i all my relatives and friends who were all master degree holders end up in worst sasuraal never open their mouth against them. fortunately they are all treated by their husband very nicely. so they don't mind keeping dumb in front of their in-laws.


I know... but should a woman still keep quiet to keep peace even if she is physically abused, forced to have abortions? If one keeps quiet, then that behavior continues... very rarely some1 would take pity n stop the nonsense!
sometimes it is good to compromise a bit n adjust but it is necessary from both the parties, already a girl leaves her parents, her house, her identity and tries to mingle in a new one... why is something more expected? 😲
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Posted: 15 years ago
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hmm my vote goes to komal for her gaalis 😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: humza1

hmm my vote goes to komal for her gaalis 😆

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: dkmystery

Prats: coz she keeps quiet even when Krishna abuses her; n even when she does reply back, she doesn't talk about her kidnapping... good way to stretch the whole matter 👏

Komal: coz she keeps awarding her family (in-laws) n hubby with new gaalis n is not willing to accept the fact that if she behaves well then the Saxena family will have to be good to her 👏

Kesar: coz she keeps mum over all the torture of the whole family n specially her hubby, doesn't understand that a hubby doesn't get right to beat her or abuse her just coz of her looks 👏
Hi there!!! I think ur name is Divya? Totally Agree with u!!! BUT why r ur reasons making me feel like these are the nominees for the WORST BAHUS??? Pratigya being the least worse among the three, ofcourse!!! 🤣

thanks yar!
n sorry 2 say but I can't respect a woman who bears tortures n doesn't say anything against it!
ME too!!! Cant really disrespect them BUT cant bring myself to respect them either!!!😕

I know... but should a woman still keep quiet to keep peace even if she is physically abused, forced to have abortions? If one keeps quiet, then that behavior continues... very rarely some1 would take pity n stop the nonsense!
sometimes it is good to compromise a bit n adjust but it is necessary from both the parties, already a girl leaves her parents, her house, her identity and tries to mingle in a new one... why is something more expected? 😲
Exactly!!! Why should sooo much be expected only from a Bahu??? And if they do keep quiet, how will the other side ever know that they r doing somethin wrong which needs to be changed??? Its like being quiet becomes the reason behind all the abuses they have to go through!!! Just like u said, compromise is fine in some cases as long as its not way over the head!!!

Edited by limits - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Pratigya for sure. She is very good with her Sasural. I think everone wants a Bahu like Pooja, because she is really good mannerd and sweet.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: dkmystery


I know... but should a woman still keep quiet to keep peace even if she is physically abused, forced to have abortions?

oh! i am sorry...😊 when you said woman i was just stuck with bahu cuz this thread was for bahu.i said 70% to 80 % bahu's try to avoid opening their mouth against their in'laws is for verbal abuse.now a days % of physical abuse by in-laws is very small .even this pratigya serial they are showing husbands physically abusing their wife but not in-laws physically abusing their bahu. (i agree once sakti raised his hand...that is exceptional)
coming to physically abusing a woman...yep the % is bit high.i have seen even the qualified husbands raised their hand on their wife for simple things. now a days in india the women right and laws are very strong and supportive to women unfortunately in the case of pratigya the law and police in SS's pocket.Ouch
coming to child abortions up to my knowledge is concern the percentage is negligble.instead of doing abortion they follow birth control.cuz previously indian government was saying hum do hamaare do. now it says hum do hamaara ek. most of the woking women prefer to have one child or maximum of two.
in pratrigya case sakti is jangli😡. even this sakti is not against having baby he is against having black baby...😡 what a idiot he is.that is y they have chosen small town allahabad.i don't think this type of things will happen in cities like delhi,bombay,chennai etc.
If one keeps quiet, then that behavior continues... very rarely some1 would take pity n stop the nonsense!
sometimes it is good to compromise a bit n adjust but it is necessary from both the parties, already a girl leaves her parents, her house, her identity and tries to mingle in a new one... why is something more expected? 😲

Edited by shumi. - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: shumi.

who is the best bahu? and why?

1.pratigya
2.komal
3.kaser


Kesar & Pratigya..no second thoughts 😃
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Edited by shumi. - 15 years ago

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