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Posted: 15 years ago

Well guys i noticed this in yesterdays epi too that Dadi was so mean to Komal. I agree that Komal too is to blame but then Howw can you be so mean to your ghar ki bahu and insult her and taunt her infront of outsiders[Roli]. I agree that Roli is Pratigya's friend but she is not a member of that family. Komal is rude to all the rotlu saxy clans but then if you talk to her normally or with love she wont retaliate. But Aarushi and Dadi are always backbitting and taunting Komal which makes her furious and she starts her same old gali galoch. Dadi can be a l'll patient with her after all she has come from a different background and culture. You can't expect somebody to adjust completely in a day or two. Give her sometime. Though Komal is rude towards everybody but i still feel bad for her with adarsh not even bothering to look at her and Aarushi and Dadi just taunting her. Dadi should know that when a girl comes to her sasural they should give her time to adjust and here the girl is totally different background so she would need a l'll more time to adjust but she will adjust if given the proper love and care. She will definetely change herself. She isn't bad at heart. And Dadi should be a l'll more mature. Her y'day's behaviour was just not acceptable. No matter how much u hate her or dislike her but you can't go and insult her infront of an outsider.

So guys do u agree with me. Was it right on Dadi's part?
And please dont say that Roli is not an outsider because she is. She is just Pratigya's Friend.

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Rasika

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Posted: 15 years ago

You are right..........the entire Saxena khaandan is a bunch of educated fools who dont know how to handle situations other than crying and looking down as if they r the culprits, that includes Prats who shows a 'shell shocked' look always 😡

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Originally posted by: kriyafanforever

<font size="3">You are right..........the entire Saxena khaandan is a bunch of educated fools who dont know how to handle situations other than crying and looking down as if they r the culprits, that includes Prats who shows a 'shell shocked' look always 😡</font>

yeah the whole saxena circus need to accept Komal and make her feel comfy instead of passing snide remarks. except nainaji everybody is rude to her esp Aarushi and Dadi.....I wish Aarushi too goes through all this when she gets married and then she will realise how it feels?

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Shruti

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Posted: 15 years ago

Arre - bhai - even good bahus are pur through this saas wala vyavahaar - tho bahus like Komal ka tho hisaab kitaab khatam hi ho gaya!!! I agree that the in-laws should be nicer to the bahu like Pratigya' s mom is - but even in real life you find in-laws are not necessarily nice to their bahus!!!

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Micron

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Posted: 15 years ago

Agree....dadi, arushi are really mean to komal... but she gives it back as good as she gets😆........i feel bad for komal here, especially cause she was never interested in this marriage in the first place and was dragged into this cause of Krishna and Adarsh......

Hope Komal tones down a bit atleast to her in-laws as they are really nice to her....i mean really really nice that i feel diabetic watching her inlaws😆......

coming to komal and adarsh they both are mean to each other and act like tom and jerry 😆 .....so both need to tone down if the marriage has to work.......i would say adarsh has to take the lead here, cause he was the one who wanted to get married..............else its going to be in pits👎🏼

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Rachna

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Posted: 15 years ago

I wouldn't say it was completely right, but Komal hasn't been ideal either. The rule of keeping family matters inside the house is important and so is trying to adjust into a new environment. A new daughter-in-law wouldn't try to test the waters to those extremes on her first day at her in-laws. Komal was rude to them all. I know that she didn't have a say in that marriage, however, that doesn't mean that she try to screw eveything in that unwanted marriage. It's really not a game, like these creatives are portraying marriage to be.

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AqUaMaRiN

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Posted: 15 years ago

Interesting topic!!! hmmmm... I would say Roli IS an outsider to KOMAL but to the Saxena's she is v.close. And in the absence of Pratigya, they were talking to her about stuff which they'd have talked to with Pratigya... And she WAS asking about her friend Pratigya and since she also knows how the marriage took place, I dont see why they would lie and tell her that Pratigya is living happily ever after!!! I guess, Adarsh overdid it by giving the full details and proving his own immaturity...

DADI!!! I never liked her disgusting comments v.much since the beginning! She has done so with Pratigya and Arushi who were a lot better and civilized than Komal, so I did expect her to give Komal a hard time; just like Krishna's behavior is expected (but not right!) bcoz of his background 😉... Atleast, unlike her insulting comments towards Pratigya, her comments towards Komal comes out as comedy... I guess it depends on the person who is being insulted! 😆

Arushi...hmmm...I dont understand, just bcoz someone is educated, does it mean they have to be the one to understand or they cant be naive or childish or wrong? And just bcoz they r being naive or make mistakes, does that turn them into 'educated fools'?? Arent educated people allowed to have flaws without being called fools??? Just like Komal is the spoiled brat of the Thakurs', I think Arushi is also spoiled bcoz she is the youngest in the family! She loves Pratigya a lot and seeing Adarsh suffer with Komal's gaalis and Komal being nothing like she expected her bhabi to be, she just cant like Komal at all... Just like Komal doesnt like the Saxena's even if they r her in-laws, Arushi doesnt like Komal even if she is her bhabi and makes fun of her... Yea, she is wrong in doing so just like Komal is wrong in not respecting Naina Ji when its so clear that she loves her... True, that the two are in different levels - education-wise BUT both have the same type of spoiled mentality... And just bcoz Arushi is educated doesnt mean that she HAS to understand from where does all the gaalis that Komal showers at them comes from!!!😉

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: limits
Interesting topic!!! hmmmm... I would say Roli IS an outsider to KOMAL but to the Saxena's she is v.close. And in the absence of Pratigya, they were talking to her about stuff which they'd have talked to with Pratigya... And she WAS asking about her friend Pratigya and since she also knows how the marriage took place, I dont see why they would lie and tell her that Pratigya is living happily ever after!!! I guess, Adarsh overdid it by giving the full details and proving his own immaturity...
DADI!!! I never liked her disgusting comments v.much since the beginning! She has done so with Pratigya and Arushi who were a lot better and civilized than Komal, so I did expect her to give Komal a hard time; just like Krishna's behavior is expected (but not right!) bcoz of his background 😉... Atleast, unlike her insulting comments towards Pratigya, her comments towards Komal comes out as comedy... I guess it depends on the person who is being insulted! 😆

Arushi...hmmm...I dont understand, just bcoz someone is educated, does it mean they have to be the one to understand or they cant be naive or childish or wrong? And just bcoz they r being naive or make mistakes, does that turn them into 'educated fools'?? Arent educated people allowed to have flaws without being called fools??? Just like Komal is the spoiled brat of the Thakurs', I think Arushi is also spoiled bcoz she is the youngest in the family! She loves Pratigya a lot and seeing Adarsh suffer with Komal's gaalis and Komal being nothing like she expected her bhabi to be, she just cant like Komal at all... Just like Komal doesnt like the Saxena's even if they r her in-laws, Arushi doesnt like Komal even if she is her bhabi and makes fun of her... Yea, she is wrong in doing so just like Komal is wrong in not respecting Naina Ji when its so clear that she loves her... True, that the two are in different levels - education-wise BUT both have the same type of spoiled mentality... And just bcoz Arushi is educated doesnt mean that she HAS to understand from where does all the gaalis that Komal showers at them comes from!!!😉

Dadi is rude, even when she compliments she turns right around with a comeback insult. She did that with Prats all the time.😕 Arushi needs to tone down her sharp tongue, she has no idea what kind of home she will go to one day. How about some izzat for her bhabhi........... I get she didn't hear Krishna give the bhabhi ki izzat talk to Angad.......she was busy fleeing the scene.😲Even Prof. Saheb made a few snide remarks about educated people in Komal's presence while Rolly visited. That's insensitive esp. since Komal is not educated. Nainaji is the only one who has treated Komal with love. I guess Pratigya forgot to pick up a few tips from her mamaji. Can't make a blanket statement about educated people being behudas but..... in this case, the Saxenas like to throw around that they are sharif loge and educated people with a shot of arrogance like Takur SS talks about his clout, thaakat and wealth. Educated people make poor decisions too. Adarsh tried to attack Krishna when he felt angry and helpless about his sister's situation. Inherit personality, nurturing and environment all play a role and not just education.

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*queenme*

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Posted: 15 years ago

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i have no sympathy for any of the saxenas and that includes pratigya and adarsh... really, what were they expecting?? komal is right in sayin that these ppl live in the past and no one talks to her...

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