You Raised Her. You Deal with it.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hi All!

In all honesty, never EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER have I met (figuratively speaking) A Lead Character's child that I absolutely DESPISE. Not just dislike. But DESPISE. I mean Ekta has done the stereotypical "bad boy" son who falls in love and turns good eventually (Gautum KSBKBT; Prem KZK) But THIS: Vindictive, Spolied, Selfish, Stupd B****. Is a FIRST. Maybe, just MAYBE if Pihu showed some semblence of EMPATHY, HEART, or even .0001% of the CHARACTER her fictional mother Priya has, I wouldn't despise her as much. Alas, for the first time ever I think Ekta has created a villainous offspring from a protagonist šŸ˜†.
Here's my 2 cents, maybe it's just the way I was raised- If I was giving the attitude that Pihu is: "Give me what I want or I'll kill myself" (Please note HOW stupid that sounds, how SELFISH that sounds; How PETTY that sounds etc) My dad would say, "Sure, let me drive you to the nearest bridge. No? OK, well that's fine, sit your butt down and shut your mouth now".

SERIOUSLY. ANYONE Who is as petty and vindictive as Pihu would not off themself because you know what they thrive on? ATTENTION. She is not depressed, or going through a serious trial, she is simply being STUBBORN. It's a tell of a spoiled brat.

I'm glad RaYa are taking a break, Why? Because RAM has "raised" Pihu, and he SHOULD Damn well deal with his bratty kid- note I say kid, because her maturity level can't be considered an "adult".

Being a parent is not giving into your child's ever desire. I'm not a parent by any means but I can tell you that it's parental suicide if that's what you do. Whether you have the means or not, if you're just going to catch them every time they fall, and give them whatever they want at first glance: WHAT ARE YOU TEACHING THEM? What life skills are you giving them? What have they learned? What have they earned? I'm not going to stereotype and say it's a rich kid thing and it's a given, but realistically if PRIYA had raised her daughter, there WOULD have been consequences, starting off with Pihu being involved in that innocent boy's suicide. Further more, I find it disturbing that post that incident, Pihu didn't even become a good/decent character from the guilt of her actions- it was more like, "Oh, well mom's practically dead, so no one's going to find out: Great, my butt is safe".

Ram as a father, individual and human being is absoltuely incorrect with his unfathamable stance of "I'm standing by my daughter". Being a parent is about GUIDING your kids to the right path, NOT letting them drag you blindly down their own sinister one. It's not easy and I Personally think Ram took the "easy" way out by siding with his spoiled "rockstar". Not surprising, since he create the beast that his Pihu-Bratty-Selfish- Spolied-The worst child of a lead to ever grace Indian Tellywood- Kapoor.

Reeha


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Posted: 11 years ago
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If ram has to be blamed for pihus craziness then he should be praised for raising kush who was with ram moe than pihu
He should be praised for raising rishabh who turned out to be perfect lakshman for ram
You know what for us sitting here it is so easy say that ram is doing wrong by siding pihu but tell me what if pihu the crazy girl actually commits suicide if ram didnt agree with her the parents will die 1000 times
Let me tell you what ever you said about pihu she was like that before pihu went to coma she was the reason varun died and NO ram wasnt responsible for that and neither priya
Pihu is not a child even i am equal to the age of pihu but would i ask my dad to choose between me n my mom no and never
And mind you my dad fulfilled each n everything i asked everydad does that ram agrreing for sammy pihu mrg because sammy said its not his child give him some time dude he is torn between wife n daughter for us its so easy to say as viewer but put yourself in his shoes you will understand how much pressire he is going through
Pihu is gone crazy if both the parents leave her she will go mad and wild courtesy juhi
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: reeha...k

that innocent boy's suicide. Further more, I find it disturbing that post that incident, Pihu didn't even become a good/decent character from the guilt of her actions- it was more like, "Oh, well mom's practically dead, so no one's going to find out: Great, my butt is safe".

Reeha


i agree with u except one thing varun is not innocent boy,he intensionally left the door open he had some other plan for peehu,through which he can take revenge on priya,

and ur next point is perfect ReehašŸ‘


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Ram influenced pihu a lot. as a child she learnt to adjust to things around her. when mom said one gift every month she made it a wont. priya made her small wishes true like chocolate eclaire, aloo paranta, clips, snow land things which she can enjoy. when had no money priya tried to convince peehu not be stubborn for PSP. instead pihu is the one who played with street children. it was ram gave her a costly mobile, he want to give her a birthday bash when in poverty. he wants her to win the singing competition it was him who taught her he will make her win anything she wants. when pihu had no partner she convinced herself not to go to party but it was ram who called akshay to be her partner. she continued to be the same in priya's absence. more over pihu dint talk of classes n status as a teen ,, it was ram who spoiled her totally. when priya realized it. now to win her wish sammy a mere thing to her, she want papa to choose her or mom. what she will do damki of killing herself. i bet she cant if ram do not accept her wishes. there has to be a limit for granting kids what ever they wish for.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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very nice postšŸ‘šŸ‘...lol you raised so deal with it...šŸ˜† and i liked the comments given down the post alsošŸ‘šŸ¼...some very good fans of RAMā¤ļø...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: luvbalh

Ram influenced pihu a lot. as a child she learnt to adjust to things around her. when mom said one gift every month she made it a wont. priya made her small wishes true like chocolate eclaire, aloo paranta, clips, snow land things which she can enjoy. when had no money priya tried to convince peehu not be stubborn for PSP. instead pihu is the one who played with street children. it was ram gave her a costly mobile, he want to give her a birthday bash when in poverty. he wants her to win the singing competition it was him who taught her he will make her win anything she wants. when pihu had no partner she convinced herself not to go to party but it was ram who called akshay to be her partner. she continued to be the same in priya's absence. more over pihu dint talk of classes n status as a teen ,, it was ram who spoiled her totally. when priya realized it. now to win her wish sammy a mere thing to her, she want papa to choose her or mom. what she will do damki of killing herself. i bet she cant if ram do not accept her wishes. there has to be a limit for granting kids what ever they wish for.


yes, he gave everything because he can give all that,but it is in our hand using or misusing. pihu is misusing that😔,

yes,i really hate that singing competition matter,

there has to be a limit for granting kids what ever they wish for. atleast he should have learned something,when when natasha broke the things in that house when he said"forget that karthick,because he will not suit to u (when he went to SH FIRST TIME)

IN THIS 7 YEARS JUHI ALSO JOINED in ram's team to grant pihu's all wishes,i hope balh will not end now we are watching how pihu is,we will have to watch,pari,myra in future.

we should recollect ayasha-shipra bonding also,how she granted ayesha's wishes,she also stubborn


finally through our balh,i learned how difficult is growing a child...😲

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ramlila


yes, he gave everything because he can give all that,but it is in our hand using or misusing. pihu is misusing that😔,

yes,i really hate that singing competition matter,

there has to be a limit for granting kids what ever they wish for. atleast he should have learned something,when when natasha broke the things in that house when he said"forget that karthick,because he will not suit to u (when he went to SH FIRST TIME)

IN THIS 7 YEARS JUHI ALSO JOINED in ram's team to grant pihu's all wishes,i hope balh will not end now we are watching how pihu is,we will have to watch,pari,myra in future.

we should recollect ayasha-shipra bonding also,how she granted ayesha's wishes,she also stubborn


finally through our balh,i learned how difficult is growing a child...😲


yeah all ektha's serials ends same .. moral difficult to raise kids..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: johnbips11

If ram has to be blamed for pihus craziness then he should be praised for raising kush who was with ram moe than pihu
He should be praised for raising rishabh who turned out to be perfect lakshman for ram
You know what for us sitting here it is so easy say that ram is doing wrong by siding pihu but tell me what if pihu the crazy girl actually commits suicide if ram didnt agree with her the parents will die 1000 times
Let me tell you what ever you said about pihu she was like that before pihu went to coma she was the reason varun died and NO ram wasnt responsible for that and neither priya
Pihu is not a child even i am equal to the age of pihu but would i ask my dad to choose between me n my mom no and never
And mind you my dad fulfilled each n everything i asked everydad does that ram agrreing for sammy pihu mrg because sammy said its not his child give him some time dude he is torn between wife n daughter for us its so easy to say as viewer but put yourself in his shoes you will understand how much pressire he is going through
Pihu is gone crazy if both the parents leave her she will go mad and wild courtesy juhi


Raising Kush, Rishab etc is a completely different facet šŸ˜†
i. They weren't daddy's little "princess"
ii. Pihu is his favourite without a doubt, although no parent will admit to that.

"Let me tell you what ever you said about pihu she was like that before pihu went to coma she was the reason varun died and NO ram wasnt responsible for that and neither priya "

I'm a little confused as to what you're trying to say here.

Alas, pressure is life, and if Ram is simply going to succumb to the pressure and emotional blackmail being brought forward from his daughter it's pretty weak.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ramlila


i agree with u except one thing varun is not innocent boy,he intensionally left the door open he had some other plan for peehu,through which he can take revenge on priya,

and ur next point is perfect ReehašŸ‘



Varun wasn't Lilly white, that's for sure, but he WAS innocent of what he was being accused of. That much is true.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: luvbalh

Ram influenced pihu a lot. as a child she learnt to adjust to things around her. when mom said one gift every month she made it a wont. priya made her small wishes true like chocolate eclaire, aloo paranta, clips, snow land things which she can enjoy. when had no money priya tried to convince peehu not be stubborn for PSP. instead pihu is the one who played with street children. it was ram gave her a costly mobile, he want to give her a birthday bash when in poverty. he wants her to win the singing competition it was him who taught her he will make her win anything she wants. when pihu had no partner she convinced herself not to go to party but it was ram who called akshay to be her partner. she continued to be the same in priya's absence. more over pihu dint talk of classes n status as a teen ,, it was ram who spoiled her totally. when priya realized it. now to win her wish sammy a mere thing to her, she want papa to choose her or mom. what she will do damki of killing herself. i bet she cant if ram do not accept her wishes. there has to be a limit for granting kids what ever they wish for.


Great examples luvbalh! Completely agree, Pihu wasn't created like this over night, Ram is the one who has created this monster via not setting boundaries, expectations, rules etc: He has give her the world without her earning one bit of it. Simply being his child is NOT justification for her actions.

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