Not Black and neither gray....

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Plenty has been said about Rudra's character till now. He has constantly been under fire for his manhandling, his cruelty, his anger management issues. Agreed that the cvs were on a quest to find a ruthless character and also can't deny that Ashish himself said that making people hate Rudra is going to be their aim.
In spite of all and sundry, for me Rudra has not shaped up as an out and out negative character, yet. I can empathize with him, sympathize with him, but hate him?? A clear NO!!
All I see is a loner, a man who doesn't trust people in general, and women in particular. A fearless guy who defies set norms, who can't abide senseless rules when faced with fatal injustice. A warrior who abhors anyone laying claim on him in any which way. He would preferably die a painful death than let any one even get close to the strong wall he has build around himself. And looking at his past, and the treatment meted out to him, his defensiveness and mistrust make total sense.
About his manhandling Paro issue, just a note of realism. If we live in the real world and are aware of what is going on around us, with women, irrespective of inside or outside the four walls of a jail, we would know that Rudra is a decent guy. The way men abuse women, physically, emotionally and mentally, especially when they are helpless and vulnerable, is a bitter universal truth. In another light, if we know how the armed forces or even the cops deal with criminals, irrespective of their gender, especially those who are responsible for arms dealing and spreading terrorism, we would have no reason to point fingers.
For the real uniformed men out there, the wrong and the wrong doer matters, not the gender or the sex of the offender. In reality, the treatment meted out to such, is way out of human imagination. Yes, they are a ruthless bunch, but then, it is their job to be ruthless, after all they are the protectors. They deal with the worst of the society day in and day out. So judging them by our normal standards is totally unfair and inadequate. A surgeon has to cut, snap, stitch and let the patient bleed, in order to save his life. So, is his work that of a butcher?? He is manhandling her, pushing and shoving and pulling!! That is nothing!! They are actually toning it down, just step in a police station in a small town, listen to the way they talk and behave...and no further discussion will be necessary. If anything, Rudra is restraining himself and his staff. For him, Paro is a part of the conspiracy, nothing more, nothing less. Now if Paro was a male, like Kesari, the treatment meted out would have been quite different.
And if we are already aware that this whole incident killed several brave men, who laid down their lives, so their homeland and its citizens (ppl like us), are protected, then, why the blame game? 17 years this has been going on, any count of how many innocents have lost their lives? How many soldiers and their families destroyed cause of one man's misplaced and lethal greed? We can digest that, but can't digest the armed forces tough attitude towards such vermin??
Yes, Paro breaks my heart. Every time I see her, my eyes feel moist. Her plight is worse than hopeless, worse than a caged animal. But, is Rudra to be blamed? A series of happenings that placed Paro where she is today, and Rudra where he is. As I see it, the man is only doing his job. As professionally, as distantly, as efficiently, as he can. And for a job well done, a man cannot be crucified. Rudra at this stage doesn't have any personal agenda with Paro, she is just a means to an end, just a witness that he needs, to get justice done. She is as dispensable as a pawn in a chess game. There are no shades or colors of personality in the picture yet. For once, just once,we have a male lead whose actions are justified and valid, otherwise as far the trend of negativity against women goes...nothing I do or say will make a difference...
Rudra, according to some, might be guilty of heartlessness, but in reality, men like him can't afford to wear their heart on their sleeves!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Totally agree Evie, esp about the manhandling part. Considering the crime for which she has been brought in for. Rudra is handling her with 'kids gloves' to say the least. Maybe only so because it's him, someone else would've probably been worse to her.

I know he doesn't 'feel' anything for her as such at this moment other than a witness, BUT there is a protective instinct in him that rises to the fore, ie when he stepped in front of her when Thakur was going to bless her. A connection when she was heartlessly abandoned by her own because of the villagers loyalty to Tejawat.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Well said! Rudra has had a very disturbed childhood, I don how it wrks in India but if there was a child like rudra in the UK he would most definitely be in the social care system!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Very well said..agree completely..
A positive post about him finally..😊
I was very much disturbed from the morning😔
Now..After reading your post...😛


Edited by nainasharma123 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Well written.. Yes Rudra is a tormented soul who has built an emotional wall around himself.
Right now the story is about an army officer who wants this woman to be a witness against an enemy of his country. ..to help him catch the terrorists..that is his focus..his methods are unconventional..by hook or crook he wants to catch them and he will sacrifice her ( or will he? 😆) to get them.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Even I was thinking the same with the manhandling part. This story isn't the same as other stories where the male lead has a troubled childhood and so lashes out at the female lead. There is also the context of an officer vs a criminal in play, and I really think Rudra's treatment of her stems from his job rather than pure malice. Remember, this was the same guy who saved her from those men in the first week when she called out for help.

Now say further on in the story, where Paro is not being locked up and Rudra knows that she knows nothing about the border brigade...if he manhandles her then, then I would think the complaints against him would be justified.

Edited by Storybrooke - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sofna

Totally agree Evie, esp about the manhandling part. Considering the crime for which she has been brought in for. Rudra is handling her with 'kids gloves' to say the least. Maybe only so because it's him, someone else would've probably been worse to her.

I know he doesn't 'feel' anything for her as such at this moment other than a witness, BUT there is a protective instinct in him that rises to the fore, ie when he stepped in front of her when Thakur was going to bless her. A connection when she was heartlessly abandoned by her own because of the villagers loyalty to Tejawat.

Thank god at least a few agree with me. The real world out there is way more harsher than Rudra. The way women are treated is inhuman and when it comes to the plight of women prisoners, the least said the better. When I read posts in this forum discussing how wrong and rough Rudra's behavior was, I was dumbfounded. For the first few times, stayed silent, coz all individuals have their own experiences and their own opinions based on what life they have seen. But eventually I had to blow off some steam. Hope I have not opened Pandora's box here. To me he is just a patriotic officer trying to do his duty..don't see any reason why he should go weak kneed and be a gentleman around our ill fated Paro.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Vera

Well written.. Yes Rudra is a tormented soul who has built an emotional wall around himself.

Right now the story is about an army officer who wants this woman to be a witness against an enemy of his country. ..to help him catch the terrorists..that is his focus..his methods are unconventional..by hook or crook he wants to catch them and he will sacrifice her ( or will he? 😆) to get them.

😆...now when the time comes...(he won't and we all know that). Exactly my point...he is just an officer and we should not judge him by the standards of the usual stereotype common man, because he is not. In his eyes she is a terrorist or at least an accomplice. And we expect less harshness from him?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Agree rudra is a patriotic officer who is doing his duty and paro is a accomplice.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Unlike stereotype male lead, he is most unusual character .
He is the combination of opposites.. He is bold, natural, fearless soldier and a true patriot..
He has the experience with the wickedness that exists in human nature ( women).. Despite that he is doing his job.. Paro is no exception..





😊Bang on post..!


Edited by Tanisha99 - 12 years ago

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