Isnt anshuman right??

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hi everyone...
I know most of u must be eh?? seriously! I dont mean he is right on the part when he wants Paakhi out of his life or when he plans behind her back..!!
What I mean is I think Anshuman is right when he says he finds Paakhi absolutely genuine in everything she does or for everything she is.. but that doesnt really mean he should be in love with her... now does it?? There never is a reason for why u fall in love with a person.. Sometimes you like a person and yet you cant love them for what they are in a romantic way. To think of spending the rest of the lifetime with them. And other times despite a lot many flaws one might end up in love with the same person, seemingly not suitable to one another, still nothing stops them from falling in love!!
On this account I disagree with Girish when he says she is soo good and give me a reason why you want her out of your life!! Anshuman gave the right answer saying he doesnt love her.. Its not mandatory that despite everything he SHOULD fall in love wid her just cuz she is THE PERFECT person... (I know he is bound to.. I am just talking about the present moment)
And given that Anshuman is a mature person... already married and has a kid.. and is clearly in a situation to know what he exactly wants I would give him enough credit to atleast know and realise that he clearly wants Paakhi out of his life.
I think he is not in love with Paakhi.. not yet.. and he will eventually fall for her (they r the protagonists afterall) but he should realise it on his own and I think that is what CV's are trying to do.. I think Anshuman will finally get time to think it all over finally when she leaves him for good...
And I would also like to mention how they ve designed their scenes.. Anshuman only seems lost.. not someone who wants to hide his feelings.. lot of difference there and his expressions make it very clear for us.. whereas Paakhi she seems like she is just taking it as a natural course of married life.. she doesnt blush afterwad abt wt her husband did nor jumps around being too confident about her love life with anshuman.. she is properly on the ground and still believes in giving anshuman his own sweet time...
and so Anshuman is to still fall in love and I absolutely hate it wn Girish (of all ppl on earth) gives him bhashan abt realising.. Anshuman seems to be on strong ground abt his feelings.. yea he has his loops in his feelings too.. Like he MIGHT want Paakhi to stay (a teeny weeny bit) but he WONT!! (yes he is majorly conflicted) No wonder they dont show Anshuman and Paakhi blindly looking into each other's eyes despite all situations, surroundings and variety of people!! (that is such a novelty finally.. sick of couples staring into each other's eyes just because they were meant to be😔) It would be fun to watch anshuman's plight once Tanya comes!!
Phew!! I finally ended it.. Thank you for lasting this long.. pls don forget to lemme know wt u think šŸ˜†

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nicki11 thumbnail
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Posted: 11 years ago
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well i think given choice one should marry the person who loves them not the one they love.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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awesome post...I feel that also and dont forget this child marriage is forced upon anshuman perhaps thats why he is fighting his feelings also
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Posted: 11 years ago
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No, I don't think Anshuman needs to fall in love with Paakhi simply because she is GOOD...there is a connection b/w them that Paakhi is making him aware of...so his feelings are moving beyond mere sympathy or humanity...

If Anshuman's reasoning was more solid, his point would be more valid...while it's understandable that at this point he feels himself incapable of feeling anything more than respect and admiration for Paakhi, at the same time his choice of words that he CAN'T love Paakhi is more indicative of a BLOCK in his mind rather than his actual feelings.


Is Anshuman even capable of love at this point? Look at the way they showed his relationship with Tanya today...she had to coax him to say he loves her and he said he loves her in the same tone that someone orders chai...that's how monotonic it was...Circumstances and surroundings account for a lot...this is part of Anshuman's mind block when it comes to Paakhi...he is unable to even RECOGNIZE how much his feelings are changing...so in that sense, what Girish said to him was needed cuz it is pushing him to think from time to time...if left to his own devices, Anshuman will conveniently block everything out and not bother evaluating his own feelings...what he is feeling for Paakhi has moved much beyond mere third party sympathy for a good person.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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i keep wondering if something happened with his wife that he cannot love
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: harithanhp

Hi everyone...

I know most of u must be eh?? seriously! I dont mean he is right on the part when he wants Paakhi out of his life or when he plans behind her back..!!
What I mean is I think Anshuman is right when he says he finds Paakhi absolutely genuine in everything she does or for everything she is.. but that doesnt really mean he should be in love with her... now does it?? There never is a reason for why u fall in love with a person.. Sometimes you like a person and yet you cant love them for what they are in a romantic way. To think of spending the rest of the lifetime with them. And other times despite a lot many flaws one might end up in love with the same person, seemingly not suitable to one another, still nothing stops them from falling in love!!i agree with u completely,its never been a compulsion for any one to fall in love with someone who is very good in genuine aspects of a human being thats wat the person's personality must be thats it,if apply the same thing in anshuman's character then might be its wat tanya is whom he likes not becoz wat she does n how she manage but wat she is(if he is really in love with her)
On this account I disagree with Girish when he says she is soo good and give me a reason why you want her out of your life!! Anshuman gave the right answer saying he doesnt love her.. Its not mandatory that despite everything he SHOULD fall in love wid her just cuz she is THE PERFECT person... (I know he is bound to.. I am just talking about the present moment)exactly n i never found this girish's character stable,i mean see LAV she too is almost similar like tanya i mean if girish is saying that one should fall in love with pple like pakhi then why he loves his wife so much?
And given that Anshuman is a mature person... already married and has a kid.. and is clearly in a situation to know what he exactly wants I would give him enough credit to atleast know and realise that he clearly wants Paakhi out of his life.can say sošŸ¤”
I think he is not in love with Paakhi.. not yet.. and he will eventually fall for her (they r the protagonists afterall) but he should realise it on his own and I think that is what CV's are trying to do.. I think Anshuman will finally get time to think it all over finally when she leaves him for good...thats a sure shot track it will gonna be
And I would also like to mention how they ve designed their scenes.. Anshuman only seems lost.. not someone who wants to hide his feelings.. lot of difference there and his expressions make it very clear for us.. whereas Paakhi she seems like she is just taking it as a natural course of married life.. she doesnt blush afterwad abt wt her husband did nor jumps around being too confident about her love life with anshuman.. she is properly on the ground and still believes in giving anshuman his own sweet time...
i give extra browny points for the developmnt of there characters for this reason,i too noticed that from day 1 of there married life pakhi is actually behaving like evry normal nrwly married wife who is taking evrything as an part n apcel of life n trying to solve it upto her capabilities nothing over done nothing dissapointing herešŸ‘šŸ¼,whereas anshumann too is potrayed wat supposed to be,actually ne will remain in hass hazard situation with all other responsibilities on him like bussiness n ol..he is burdened by so many thgt evrytime as he is not bad but situations forcing him to be,stuck in a complicated situation n biggest of all aayan's responsibility
and so Anshuman is to still fall in love and I absolutely hate it wn Girish (of all ppl on earth) gives him bhashan abt realising.. Anshuman seems to be on strong ground abt his feelings.. yea he has his loops in his feelings too.. Like he MIGHT want Paakhi to stay (a teeny weeny bit) but he WONT!! (yes he is majorly conflicted) No wonder they dont show Anshuman and Paakhi blindly looking into each other's eyes despite all situations, surroundings and variety of people!! (that is such a novelty finally.. sick of couples staring into each other's eyes just because they were meant to be😔) It would be fun to watch anshuman's plight once Tanya comes!!
Phew!! I finally ended it.. Thank you for lasting this long.. pls don forget to lemme know wt u think šŸ˜† must say very apt n thgtfull post..really like it😃

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: harithanhp

Hi everyone...

I know most of u must be eh?? seriously! I dont mean he is right on the part when he wants Paakhi out of his life or when he plans behind her back..!!
What I mean is I think Anshuman is right when he says he finds Paakhi absolutely genuine in everything she does or for everything she is.. but that doesnt really mean he should be in love with her... now does it?? There never is a reason for why u fall in love with a person.. Sometimes you like a person and yet you cant love them for what they are in a romantic way. To think of spending the rest of the lifetime with them. And other times despite a lot many flaws one might end up in love with the same person, seemingly not suitable to one another, still nothing stops them from falling in love!!
On this account I disagree with Girish when he says she is soo good and give me a reason why you want her out of your life!! Anshuman gave the right answer saying he doesnt love her.. Its not mandatory that despite everything he SHOULD fall in love wid her just cuz she is THE PERFECT person... (I know he is bound to.. I am just talking about the present moment)
And given that Anshuman is a mature person... already married and has a kid.. and is clearly in a situation to know what he exactly wants I would give him enough credit to atleast know and realise that he clearly wants Paakhi out of his life.
I think he is not in love with Paakhi.. not yet.. and he will eventually fall for her (they r the protagonists afterall) but he should realise it on his own and I think that is what CV's are trying to do.. I think Anshuman will finally get time to think it all over finally when she leaves him for good...
And I would also like to mention how they ve designed their scenes.. Anshuman only seems lost.. not someone who wants to hide his feelings.. lot of difference there and his expressions make it very clear for us.. whereas Paakhi she seems like she is just taking it as a natural course of married life.. she doesnt blush afterwad abt wt her husband did nor jumps around being too confident about her love life with anshuman.. she is properly on the ground and still believes in giving anshuman his own sweet time...
and so Anshuman is to still fall in love and I absolutely hate it wn Girish (of all ppl on earth) gives him bhashan abt realising.. Anshuman seems to be on strong ground abt his feelings.. yea he has his loops in his feelings too.. Like he MIGHT want Paakhi to stay (a teeny weeny bit) but he WONT!! (yes he is majorly conflicted) No wonder they dont show Anshuman and Paakhi blindly looking into each other's eyes despite all situations, surroundings and variety of people!! (that is such a novelty finally.. sick of couples staring into each other's eyes just because they were meant to be😔) It would be fun to watch anshuman's plight once Tanya comes!!
Phew!! I finally ended it.. Thank you for lasting this long.. pls don forget to lemme know wt u think šŸ˜†


Absolutely agree. Anshuman is correct in saying that if he cannot love the person how can he accept her in spite of all the virtues. He considers himself not perfect for paakhi the perfectionist.
And this Tanya whether he loves her or not so far she is his girl friend and prospective life parter till Pakhi enters his life. I wont even blame Tanya . She seems to be a normal girl attracted to anshuman for whatever reasons. Ifr there is no love between them it si ok for both of them.
Ah yes Pakhi should be told the truth instead of this plans and schemes.
This new girl Tanyas acting was perfect for the upperclass modern writer. It is interesting to watch what next?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Totally agree!!!!
Its personal choice and till now I am really not seeing Anshuman falling in love with her...
Its just respect and care he has for now...

In this case...
You remember Dil chahta hai dialogue when Saif wants to propose Sonali Kulkarni (dont remember their screen names now) :

Agar hum waise naa mile hote jaise k hum mile...
to kya hum aise hi hote jaise ki hum hai???
agar mai tumhe kahin aur mila hota..agar tum mujhe kahin aur mili hoti...to kaisa hota???


Same applies here

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