Originally posted by: justbeinghuman
love your posts/collagesvery aptly said, may i call you madhu, jealously encompass all relations, i have seen mom/dad getting jealous of daughter's/son's spouse because previously mom/dad was daughter's/son's world, now there is someone-spouse that has become more important to the daughter/son than mom/dad, so jealousy is there where there is emotional attachment (the higher the degree of emotional attachment the higher jealousy) whatever relation it is, human relations are very tricky. it then becomes very difficult for the daughter/son to juggle between both spousal/parental relations,Kalindi is right now relating aastha's present with her past exprience, but she forgets that no two individuals are similar, there are always differences, she keeps on relating anjali with her ex mil from anjali's bitter talks, she fails to see anjali's intentions, anjali is different than her ex mil, anjali has not yet physically abused sojal or astha like shulbhatai, she in fact corrects sojal's and astha's behaviour to protect from NA (the sweet talker with evil intensions). kalindi keeps judging shlok and anjali from her past experience which is faulty, she should take present facts and then analyze and act becoming astha's mom. she is seeing herself as ashta right now (she should not become astha and anjali should not become her ex mil and shlok should not become her ex husband) which will lead to faulty hasty decisions from her side, i think she is being prejudiced in this case. aju is right when she said give some time, first understand the problem, find root cause, ask for facts and then go to the solution, instead of right away jumping to solutions that may not be relevant to the root cause of the problem.
Loving another means caring deeply for that person, being good to that person, wanting the best for that person, not using that person (not treating that person as a means) but treating him or her as an end in themselves. Loving another means learning how to be there, be stable, be invested in, be committed to another human being.Loving another person means learning how to be open, how to share oneself, how not to hide oneself, how to stay present, be very attentive.It is difficult to find the "right" person.It is just as difficult, if not even more so, to learn how to be the *right* person for a relationship.Most people are more focused on trying to find the right person rather than become the right type of person for a relationship.
Two sides of a coin..same seeking the best at the end of day or next day to balance and even..if not possessive my kids will not love me back,if not loving and possessive and giving I want be seeking from my hubby as all can't talk from heart or see inner.
Heart talks.
Thank you for a wonderful post. You have the truth of true Realtionships. Like the words are easy to write or say but maintains them is tough, ones EXPEREINCE in flow of life makes one maintain and give more. Well written like your apt scripting and pointing skills. No deviation fully focused and attentive.
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