A very heartfelt Thank you to everyone!!!

Hello everyone,

I know all y'all must be wondering what the hell is wrong with her? why is she online when tragedies are happening in her family? But well i got a couple of e-mails saying a post was made, and i assumed everyone knew and i know you guys are wonderful people so i thought it'd be right to thank you all without burdening myself with the guilt that i didn't thank all of you for all those wonderful words you said in the post Guli made.

Well at least now you know what family tragedy i was going through a couple of weeks earlier, yes my dad was in the ICU and he had a stroke. He was perfectly healthy but i guess things happen when they are least expected. So yeah, he was in the hospital for a while, and the sad part was he was not with us, he lived in Saudi Arabia while we(us kids) were stuck here in America, so we couldn't even see him. Just when the doctors said that his condition was improving, suddenly wednesday night/Thursday morning(depends on where you live) his health started getting worse and then 2 hours later we got a call that he is no more.

Well i know it doesn't matter now but i figured all of you should know how it all happened and plus i figured reliving the memory would make me cry but the tears just won't flow.

On the lighter note, i can now say that i experienced what Bani was experiencing when she found out about the JP relationship, because i was exactly like that for a couple of hours, and i go on and off right now. and nope i still got no sympathy for her.😆

Sorry bad joke i know, but i don't know what else to do but crack jokes. and Jigs nope i still haven't shed a tear, i tried but they just don't come out.

Anyways all i am trying to say is THANK YOU VERY MUCH for all the prayers and the support you showed for me and my family, i am really very grateful for it all.

Guli thanks for the lovely post, and all the other who replied(i would've replied to all the messages but time is short, it's 2 a.m. and i am here typing this).

And yeah one more thing, i don't know when and for how long i'll long on IF for, so no ffs for me for a while, and i would def. not be in the discussions(haha good thing for you guys one bani basher out of the way).

Sorry for the long post, i got a little carried away😳

Thank you again for everything.

Shina

Shina,

All I can really say to you at this time is, here is a big hug to you. I know you are strong enough to get through this and you will get through it. It may all seem foreign at this time to you, with all these new emotions that you may be facing but it will all be okay.

And don't worry about not shedding any tears, they will come when they are bound to come. Whenever I hear something shocking it takes me sometime to react to the situation as well.

I am not the person who knows what the "right" thing to say in situations like this but I can tell you that we are all here for you. Even though we have never met, even though we might never meet, I am here for you...

-Pari

😭 Awww bless your heart Shina, you are a really brave and strong girl, All i want to say is that I and the rest off us understand what you are going through right know, you don't have to come on and say Thank you, You have a very big heart, and i wish you and your family all the very best. Yeah it will take time for you to cry, but when you do cry, Cry openly and wholeheartedly because if you keep everything inside it will make you weaker from the inside.

I will pray for your dad and your family,

If you need anything please feel free to PM me.

I don't know what to say Shina cuz I've never been in a situation like this. But I'll just say be strong and a big hug to you 🤗 . God will make things better soon and the tears wil flow when you are ready.

OMG that is such a sad news. Ill pray for your father that he rests in peace.

Im so sorry for you!
Take Care,
Radha

shina hun 🤗 nice to see u back i was really wurrid 4 u 😭 plz dont thank us as we r also a part of ur parivaar..plz try to remain strong

Hi Shina,

It is really very sweet and brave of you to write at a time when things are not easy for you. All of us at the forum will always be there for you and I really don't know what else to say except for sending you a big, big, big hug🤗and praying for you and your family....

You take care

Garf

Dearest Shina,


Hun, I'm really sorry for ur loss. But I'm glad to see hear, that ur doing fine. I know exactly how you feel... thanx alot for replying back n letting us know about urself. Remember this... everybody here on IF loves you very much n we'll miss ur absence. Take care, hun!

Love u lots,
Vita 🤗

Don't know what to say...I am really sorry for your loss.🤗 will be praying for you and your family.......

aww shina !!
i dont reli ko wht u growin through cause i aint ben there but all i want to say is be happy so ur fathers soul cn rest in peace n ill pray to..