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Posted: 11 years ago

Conveniently both kittu - kunal r busy blaming shradhha . While neither thinks they have done wrong ?

Shradhha left its her fault ( without explaining her view ) , but who orchestrated the whole thing ? Both kittu - kunal think that once wedding is done , everyone will welcome them ? Kamini is still blaming shradhha, neither kid of hers think may b bringing shradhha in the house is not a good thing ? What if after wedding zor cut all ties with shradhha & Anand still dump kittu to her parent's place stating she has betrayed him ... issue is lieing , betrayal & not thinking it through.

Kittu should have thought all possibilities . Been honest with kunal - shradhha that she is putting her marriage on the line for them . It was never as simple as kittu is making it sound .

Both kittu - kunal should accept their faults in this rather than making it sound as if only shradhha is responsible. If kittu trusted Anand then put aside her ego & look things from his perspective . Anand too needs to b honest . At the moment kittu only see s her pain rather than how much she has betrayed zor , amrit & anand . Kittu is not sorry for her faults .

Kunal has made his fair share of mistakes . He from the beging while chasing shradhha , never thought of his sister's position in shergill house . He has only thought of shradhha . He is still making things worst by accusing . If kunal had loved kittu as much as he claimes he should not have chased shradhha like he has done .

To me all 3 , shradhha - kittu - kunal r wrong in their own way but blame lies more with the person who suggested temple wedding . But blaming just one is wrong . Shradhha had once loved someone , put faith in her love , & end was heartbreak , she just recently got her relationship with her family back . She might not think to loose them again . I d o nt see wrong in it . If kunal's love is so true then go convince his mum & bring barat ...

Edited by innominate - 11 years ago

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Taani

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Posted: 11 years ago

I agree!

I can understand Kittu's disappointment with Shraddha. She put all her relationships at stake for the Kunal-Shraddha wedding but when Shraddha backed out, all her risk and the relationships she lost went to waste. What I don't like is that she is only blaming Shraddha and Anand and not realizing that this was inevitable result of the plan she herself made. It doesn't matter if the wedding happened or not, Kittu DID break Anand's trust and the whole family's trust. She didn't only suggest the eloping plan, she was an integral part in implementing it, and to implement the plan she lied to her husband to secretly leave the house with Shraddha. I understand why she did it, she had good intentions to help two lovers meet, but the fact remains she broke Anand's trust. But she doesn't even acknowledge that at all. I'm not saying she should go back to Anand or something, Anand is rude and he needs to learn a lesson on how to respect his wife and treat her like an equal in his life and family. But I think Kittu needs to acknowledge where her own mistake was in this whole mess as well instead of blaming only Shraddha and Anand.

As for Kunal, I agree with you there too! He seemed to be least concerned about his sister's relationships when he was eloping with Shraddha. I thought chasing Shraddha was ok, the guy was just out to get his love! But after that he really should have moved on carefully knowing that his sister is the daughter-in-law of that family. Did he really think he would elope with Kittu's nanand and when the family would find out Kittu helped in all this, they'd be happy with her? I think Anand would still have kicked Kittu out even if the marriage happened. I think Kunal and Kittu both took this eloping plan way too lightly and did not think of the consequences at all.

Actually even Shraddha took this eloping plan too lightly and didn't think of the consequences. But then when her family came to the temple and disowned her (which I think would have happened even if she had married Kunal), the consequences of her decision were all of a sudden in her face and she could see them clearly, and she backed out because she realized the extent of the consequences. Backing out was wrong at that point because she did let down Kunal-Kittu, but she wasn't the only wrong one. Kunal-Kittu need to stop blaming her backing out of the wedding as the only reason for all their problems. Their own lack of future-thinking and lack of sensitivity to the other family member's feelings is also to blame, but they refuse to acknowledge this.

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@swasinha

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Posted: 11 years ago

Totally agree with ur views.. all three shd realise their failt n patch up .. they shd understand that this situation would hv happened after shranal's marriage thn it wld be worst for shraddha
kamini shergills wld hav all blamed shraddha n then kunal seeing the condition of kittu wld hv also reacted as he is a brother as well

cvs shd think about it seriously

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Rosie

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Posted: 11 years ago

Nice points innominate & tamanna!😊

All 3 are at fault & i want them to realize their mistakes soon!

Agree with swasinha..Cvs should think about it!

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Saanjh

@Saanjh5

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Posted: 11 years ago

Excellent post... totally agree! need to rest the blame on these three.. whatever is happening is a reaction or over reaction of this plan... excellent analysis

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Riya

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Posted: 11 years ago

nice post dear thanks sharing with us

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