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..Anusha..

@..Anusha..

Sparkler

Posted: 12 years ago

#21

Ya that's my last wish too Deebz. Bhabo disappearing from my vision. But that photo!

and why why why pray tell us Babs...why to go to Hyd now? I see no reason.

Edited by PadBear - 12 years ago

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shehjar

@shehjar

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#22

DeebZ that was a genuine rant Bhabo😡

but u need a chilled glass of water 😃

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.Ami.

@.Ami.

Sparkler

Posted: 12 years ago

#23

And I personally feel agitated when girls/women of my age group bear tantrums/insults from elders for whatever reason and then lament about it.😡.

We always have choices to make in our life. There is nothing to fear in the life. It's all about understanding. The more you understand/aware about how things works today, less fear for tomorrow!

I personally won't allow anyone to ruin my self-respect. Respect everyone's opinions/POVs but never accept it if it's morally/ethically wrong.

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.kat.

@.kat.

Inactive

Posted: 12 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: Deebz
I am fed up with Bhabho's ego and autocratic ways. She is keeping the family together just to rule over them. Who is she really to dole out punishments like the one she gave Emily? Messing with someone's marriage and life over some eggs! Not to mention baby Pari's life as well. Even Meena's punishment ought to have come from Vikram. She does not want to treat any of them like adults just to keep her power. They will keep making juvenile mistakes. The only person she is still responsible for is Chavi. Her tyranny has made Chavi also the liar and coward that she is today. Bhabho's apathy for her daughters in law is reflected in Chavi too. She was happily letting Emily be kicked out of the house. Bhabho's atyaachars on SurYa are countless and still not ceasing. Her going to Hyderabad is just so inconsiderate. Sorry for the rant. I am so glad Sandy is getting to get away from her for a few months. From the training that she receives I hope she finally realizes that what she was going thru with Bhabho was nothing short of abuse and learns to stand up for her rights. I want Sandy in IPS uniform to be this awesome peerless sight when she returns that Bhabho should not dare abuse her or anyone else ever again.
I know BhaSan lovers go aaw because our innocent golden hearted girl loves her. Will Bhabho ever give that love the respect it deserves?

Totally agree! 👏

N babhos united family is such a farce. Only surya devotedly, tirelessly, work n sacrifice for the family n unconditionally love the family. Everyone else, (sorry, including babasa), dont really do much forthe family, or take any responsibilities. Babhos love is selfish n her false pride, ego makes her such an autocrat, lording over her family, n being so inconsiderate. Babhos constant demand on sandy to take care of a family, which does not care about anybody other than themselves!

Sandys love for suraj, babho, having a united family, is tying her hands, Suraj is slowly getting his spine, the clash will be between suraj n babho again. There is a difference between love, n respect, n being treated as slaves! As amlu says, one can't lose thier self respect in the name of love of family!

There is no respect for individuality in RP. Even some of meenas kaands, first one going to a movie, so there was theft, the mount Abu epi, n jail time, not all but some of them, is reflection on babho n her controlling nature. She does not give any freedom for anybody to be themselves. Even ems changing costumes!!!, nobody says, it's ok, u can be yourself, no need to change so drastically, we accept u as u r, no everybody's identity, individuality is lost. The last two kids have rebelled mohit, chavvi n have gone bad!

Hope sandy really stands up for herself, when she returns! N hope suraj also grows up n sees light!

Actually, I like this separation for surya. Only then suraj will learn to cope up with emotional issues become stronger (emotional self - reliance , if that's a word! ), n will not react so emotionally to babhos blackmails also. (I don't know if that makes any sense, he won't cry so much when, or if he separates from babho too!)

Babhis chr, as well as other Chrs (even surya) all need to change!

Edited by Geethsn - 12 years ago

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shruthiravi

@shruthiravi

Stunner

+ 2

Posted: 12 years ago

#25

@Deebz what a wonderful post. Completely agree to you.

@Anushaji even I want to erase Bhabo's memory for sometime😃.

@Amlu I am with you on this. It also irritates me a lot when girls/women of my age group suffer abuse in the name of tradition and does not stand up to it or does not even try to change their situation better. I am a person who respects traditions and relationships a lot. I agree that at times you have to do give and take to balance relationships. But to treat someone like God and think yourself guilty for the abuse you are suffering is something over the top which I simply cannot agree to

@Geeth they are bringing the seperation exactly for the purpsoe, for Sooraj to grow up, to be mature, to understand the importance of Sandhya in his life. Sandhya was with him from the day of her marriage. Since she didnt had any maayka she didnt had any place to go apart from a short visit to her brother's place. In some essence Sooraj had taken for granted. Now with her being away he will understand the loneliness in midst of his family. What Meena says is absolutely correct. She will be the one who will keep on ranting about it also thus raising Bhabo's insecurity

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