ek baat kahoon...?

Ek baat kehni thi,pata nahi aapko kaisi lage? But I have seen posts with 'Madhu should not take anything from husband and stay mum', 'I hate such type of women', 'she should leave him' e.t.c. I do not say that they are wrong but just wanna tell what I have heard and seen around me. I do not think in real it is very easy to do so,atleast in my world,maybe aap sab ki duniya kuch aur ho.I hated when RK blamed Madhu for loosing child and Ria thing is still not clear(for me atleast). I mean mushkil se hi koi aadmi perfect husband hota hai, aadmi kya har aurat bhi perfect nahi hoti, har kisi mein flaws hoti hain, zyadatar aadmi(kitne bhi educated aur bahar se gentlemen na dikhe) apne aap ko female counterpart se superior hi samajhte hain. Kya iska yeh matlab hai ki sabke partners unhe chod jaate hain? Kya yehi solution hai? Not always. Mere aas-paas ki auraton/aadmion sab ne kai adjustments karke hi rishtey sambhale hain. Mere dad super-dad hain fir bhi maa ne unke sath bhi bahut se adjustments kiye hain,har baath pe agar woh dad ko chodne ki sochtin toh aaj main hi nahi hoti,aap sab ko yeh sab kehte huwe! I was born 10 yrs after their marriage( to na jaane maa ko pabo type auraton k kitne taane bhi sunne pade honge). Pados ki aurat ka pati(engineer) roz daaru pike uska saath maar -pit karta hai,fir bhi woh usi k saath chipki hai, naa jaane kya majboori hogi? Ek 70 saal k buddhe k ab tak affairs hsin fir bhi patni ne use aajtak jhela! Kyun? Pata nahi. RK babu to inke samne kuch nahi!! I do not support male domination , main bas wohi baata rahi hoon jo ho raha hai, aur shayad cvs bhi yahi dikhane ki koshish kar rahe honhge! Afterall natak/kahaani/dharavahik samaj k pratibimb(mirror image) hi to hote hain, na? Kehne ka matlab hai ki, RK n Madhu toh do not exist but we toh exist, ek tucch(small) dharavahik(serial) pe aakrosh(anger/disgust) dikhane me kya fayda? Samaaj(society) mein changes chahiye to reality mein pehel karni padegi, na? Meri baat buri kagi to kshama(forgive) chahungi, pls kripa kar do not report me for moral policing,preaching e.t.c. Dimaag me baat aayi (baat ne raat bhar mujhe pareshan kiya) isiliye chaap di. Dhanyawaad.

Wow! Meri pyaari behna kal raat ko bhi tu iss topic par discussion me mujhse haar gayi thi,fir bhi tune itni himmat dikhayi 🤣 . Dekha kisi ko bhi tera ye baba aadam wala soch samajh nahi aaya 😛

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Originally posted by: somakshi

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muje aise hi replies k umeed thi 😭 😭 , what I want to say no one understa9ds, ghar pe bhi aur bahar bhi 😭 may be bcoz I do not know how to express what I feel but mere hisaab se maine jo aas-paas dekha wahi likha hai.

Originally posted by: POOOLLL

Wow! Meri pyaari behna kal raat ko bhi tu iss topic par discussion me mujhse haar gayi thi,fir bhi tune itni himmat dikhayi 🤣 . Dekha kisi ko bhi tera ye baba aadam wala soch samajh nahi aaya 😛

Kya karoon Adi, mere dimaag mein kuch hota hai to kisi to bataye bina chain nahi milta, everyone thinking me mad

Originally posted by: blueAngel09

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reply k liye shukriya.

Originally posted by: manishaa...

muje aise hi replies k umeed thi 😭 😭 , what I want to say no one understa9ds, ghar pe bhi aur bahar bhi 😭 may be bcoz I do not know how to express what I feel but mere hisaab se maine jo aas-paas dekha wahi likha hai.

aww dont be sad dear maine tujhe starting mein b kha tha na ki we r frnds so tu mujhe pm kr main teri prob discuss karungi 😃

Originally posted by: manishaa...

Ek baat kehni thi,pata nahi aapko kaisi lage? But I have seen posts with 'Madhu should not take anything from husband and stay mum', 'I hate such type of women', 'she should leave him' e.t.c. I do not say that they are wrong but just wanna tell what I have heard and seen around me. I do not think in real it is very easy to do so,atleast in my world,maybe aap sab ki duniya kuch aur ho.I hated when RK blamed Madhu for loosing child and Ria thing is still not clear(for me atleast). I mean mushkil se hi koi aadmi perfect husband hota hai, aadmi kya har aurat bhi perfect nahi hoti, har kisi mein flaws hoti hain, zyadatar aadmi(kitne bhi educated aur bahar se gentlemen na dikhe) apne aap ko female counterpart se superior hi samajhte hain. Kya iska yeh matlab hai ki sabke partners unhe chod jaate hain? Kya yehi solution hai? Not always. Mere aas-paas ki auraton/aadmion sab ne kai adjustments karke hi rishtey sambhale hain. Mere dad super-dad hain fir bhi maa ne unke sath bhi bahut se adjustments kiye hain,har baath pe agar woh dad ko chodne ki sochtin toh aaj main hi nahi hoti,aap sab ko yeh sab kehte huwe! I was born 10 yrs after their marriage( to na jaane maa ko pabo type auraton k kitne taane bhi sunne pade honge). Pados ki aurat ka pati(engineer) roz daaru pike uska saath maar -pit karta hai,fir bhi woh usi k saath chipki hai, naa jaane kya majboori hogi? Ek 70 saal k buddhe k ab tak affairs hsin fir bhi patni ne use aajtak jhela! Kyun? Pata nahi. RK babu to inke samne kuch nahi!! I do not support male domination , main bas wohi baata rahi hoon jo ho raha hai, aur shayad cvs bhi yahi dikhane ki koshish kar rahe honhge! Afterall natak/kahaani/dharavahik samaj k pratibimb(mirror image) hi to hote hain, na? Kehne ka matlab hai ki, RK n Madhu toh do not exist but we toh exist, ek tucch(small) dharavahik(serial) pe aakrosh(anger/disgust) dikhane me kya fayda? Samaaj(society) mein changes chahiye to reality mein pehel karni padegi, na? Meri baat buri kagi to kshama(forgive) chahungi, pls kripa kar do not report me for moral policing,preaching e.t.c. Dimaag me baat aayi (baat ne raat bhar mujhe pareshan kiya) isiliye chaap di. Dhanyawaad.

sister ye ek internationl site hai ,ye zarore nahi ki har koi apna aas pass ko dekha jane .sorry boys but this is right . ye dil or dimag sa smjhne wall post hai.[/DIV]

Originally posted by: manishaa...

Kya karoon Adi, mere dimaag mein kuch hota hai to kisi to bataye bina chain nahi milta, everyone thinking me mad

mere comment se bura laga toh sorry. Par dekh na, maine kaha tha koi reply nahi karega,aisa hi hua ki nahi? Love you little sis😳

its such a sweet and simple post manisha