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Posted: 11 years ago
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Lovely to read your daily posts. thanks so much.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ipoona


Reliving IPK

Episode 114

Jaldbazi kay faislay

That's exactly happened on both sides.

Her head bent, her shoulders drooping, She nods her capitulation ... And the man she has agreed to marry, slyly gloats his treacherously won siege ...

Her Amma's wide eyes are soft with tears, her mouth slack with disbelief, as she turns and looks at her older daughter ... Payal's snuffs her heartbreak in the tremble of her lips and rushes to support her sister by her shoulders ... least she collapses ... Can Buaji not see the tears in Khushi's eyes ? Does she really not know why Khushi has said yes ? Does this have be done now, at a time like this, with such coercion ?

She is paying the debt of being an orphan, sab se chota niwala...she knows her place😭

Buaji sees none of it ... She doesn't see her sister in laws teary apprehension, she does not hear the sob in Payal's throat, she does not see the tears in her Babuas's hollow eyes, she does not see the desolate numbness in her Titliya's submission. She most definitely does not see the the brazen, shameless swagger, the insidious squeezing, by he man she has foisted on her niece.

Vey typical of our culture one side pic...parents don't want or care about their kids wishes in this matter , especially in the middle class...just make them marry either with their consent or not who cares.

Her mission accomplished, she is once again the loving aunt, thrilled that her niece has fulfilled her helpless brothers dreams. She scurries them to seek blessings from Devi Maiya and Babuji. Khushi performs like a robot ... Going through the motions ...

His Di can sense it. Something is definitely not right. She knows her brother well. He seems positively morose. Not at all a person one would suspect had just announced his intent to get married, not more than a couple of hours ago. She knows he is definitely not the kind to go around humming his happiness at the thought of his soon to be engagement, but she really had not expected this kind of restlessness, this lack of enthusiasm. After all, wasn't it entirely his decision to get engaged ? Nobody had forced him ... So shouldn't he be ... Happy ? At the very least ..

Lies are written all over yet the man is all bound to make it belief , everything is fine...He is cruel in this segment though I love him

She does not beat around the bush. If only she knew how hard her questions were for him to answer ... How close to the truth they were hitting ... Tum khush toh ho na ? Tum nay yeh faisala jaldbazi mein toh nahi liya ... Yeh faisla Dil say liya hai na ?

Jaldbazi ... Khush ... Dil ... 👏

He is standing, leaning into her, her face cupped in his hands, his lips a breath away from hers ...

He does not even think of the moment when he had stood with his fingers wrapped around Lavanya hand, answering an excessively nosey, uncouth guest, Dehakyiay aap ka naati kya kar raha hai ... Shaddi kar raha hai ...

How can he tell Di how he got from that one moment to the next, to the one she had witnessed ... How can he tell her when he himself is not sure how he got from the moment imprinted in his memory to now ?

He was the man, the same man who had committed he would never marry, who had gone and held Lavanya's hand and proclaimed his intent ... Han Di, mein Lavanya say Shaadi kar raha hoon ... What had driven him ? How can he tell her that it was not Lavanya that he had seeked ... But it was someone else he was running away from ... 👏

How can he tell her that he is a coward ... That he would rather run than expose him self to what this girl was making him feel ... That he had glimpsed into his heart and had got cold feet ... That he was terrified of what he was capable of feeling ... How can he tell his Di that he does not have it in him to open his heart to anymore pain ... All he knows is that with her, he feels a million different things and without her, he is numb ... And numb he understands well ... Numbness he can deal with ...

Exactly how can he.?He wants control over his reign and that's what he is gaining but is he...?????

How can he tell his Di that this was not a Faisla at all ... Jaldbazi ka or otherwise ... This was no decision ... There was no thought process ... There was no thinking through ... This was a knee jerk reaction ... A perverse self-preservation ... An obstinate rebellion ... A panicked rashness ...

Khush ? How can he be kush ? He has just broken her heart a million different ways ... And still not found the peace he had been seeking ... He had thought that if he severs her from his life ... He can move on, grain some control ... It will not be easy ... It will take time.

Never ever... "Har Baar..." her tears and his sleepless nights

He turns his back to his Di and lies, Mein khush hoon.

Payal, sits behind her, oiling her hair ... She wants to know if Shyamji the one .. Is Khushi prepared to spend the rest of her life with him ? She uses words like puri zandigee ... Hoping her little sister understands the enormity of the decision. But again, if this is a decision, a jaldbazi ka faisla, it is not Khushi's decision. She has merely collapsed under coercion, bowed because of daughterly love. She has payed of debt and all are happy. Tum nay dekhna nahin, sab kit nay khush thay ? Aur tum? Payal questions, knowing full well the answer.

Just said above



Khushi looks at the payals on her feet ... How did she end up here ? How did she let herself get so involved ... Sometimes there are no answers ... Like how did she fall in love with most hard hearted, difficult to understand, unavailable man ... She had not set about to do this ... Somethings just happen ...

That moment that just happened and they both didn't even give a cent to La's thought, It is very logical ...INdeed Pyar andha hota hai aur stupid bhi...
But also, somethings are just not meant to be. How foolish of her to even dream for a second ... She has to forget him and move on. And what better way than this ? A new chapter in her life. So what if she does not want to ... So what if her heart is breaking ... As long as everyone else is happy, she will learn to be happy ... Isn't that what she always does ? Isn't that what her name is ... Khushi ? And really, why should she worry ? Hasn't Devi Maiya herself mapped this for her ? It must be a sahee faisla ...

Daily motion video ... Enjoy !

[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fmFmdGd8Fes&sns=em[/YOUTUBE]


Ipoona, 👏

Siblings could sense their tension yet they are paying their debts...
He by being prisoned in his past and she by being an orphan

Buaji made me mad in these epis but I can totally relate to her kind of women as I know them personally.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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@Horizon
Arshi, I have to go back to read your chakravyuh... one heck of a write up as I recall from last time.
Loved what you said about head and heart going hand in hand to make a right decision.. neither is right working alone, but they need to function in tandom, But in this part, Khushi's plight is miserable as she was shown stars and abyss in the matter of minutes.. talk about roller coaster ride.. my only complaint with her, rather writers is they should have shown her pondering about La at least once. The girl who was hell bent on getting both of them married, all of a sudden could n't care less for her friend. Anyway, honestly, these are the thoughts after the millionth view..:) and ofcourse La was not even in frame when it was happening real time.
ans HE.. the stubborn kid.. but only a knee jerk reaction did justice to what all the turmoil he felt having been attracted to her from the moment go. Had he been any softer, perhaps the inital ones would have felt fake. Brilliant build up of character.
Loved it Arshi. And loved the hue you used for the first collage. very soothing.



Thnx for sweet comments...I was just giving the same thoughts to Ipoona, it was just that moment , they both just ran with this harmny and after that stance...yeh hum kya ...and main aisa kaise kar sakta...
It is evident they didn't plan ..the strong desires they both were holding back for days...just reach to the point he couldn't hold it any more and she couldn't stop him as always...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Ipoona, that in red said it all. A collateral damage he had inflicted upon both of them. It is always heart warming, how the two siblings could read their sibling's eyes, heart.. that they are NOT khush and try to probe!
Buaji's coercion was detestable to the least. that she couldn't see/ rather NOT willing to see, how Khushi was just NOT ready for it, and on top her emotional black mailing to repay the debts, reminding her one more time that she is indeed an orphan were utmost regrettable.
Loved it Ipoona.

Horizon
Buaji ... What a character ... We have seen her transform in the 100 so odd episodes from a biased, mean spirited domineering woman to a stern but loving aunt. Shayam knows know to twist her around his little finger ... The scene last week when she says annath ka Babuji bana ... What a dialogue ... But fits well with her character ... Even though she loves Khushi ... She is still that kid that they so benevolently, so open heartedly took in ... She should be grateful ... Her life with them is an ehsaan ... Really like you said time to pay up kiddo ... I said at one point that she would have pushed Payal too ... But only up to a certain point ... She would have cajoled her to get engaged ... Might even have pushed sher some ...like aray taray say thodi na bhadho rahay hai ... But she would never have reached this stage ... Where it is minute by minute relentless coercion ... Beat her down until she agrees ... That was it ... There was nothing Khushi could have done other than leave the house and then live with a tag of ungrateful traitorous wretch for her entire life. I agree with ArshiH ... Our culture really promotes this kind of sacrifice ... This kind of debt repayment by way of khandan ki izzat and all such emotional traps ... Either one is hard headed and manages to negotiate them or you fall trap ... Coz we are taught to be good girls who respect elders ... And will not thwart their will and that too for a man ...

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Ipoona, 👏

Siblings could sense their tension yet they are paying their debts...
He by being prisoned in his past and she by being an orphan

Buaji made me mad in these epis but I can totally relate to her kind of women as I know them personally.


ArshiH

I just wrote something similar in response to Horizon ... We all know someone like Buaji ... Loving yet controlling ... You are right ... I think our culture promotes it coz this is the only power women had ... To Control the destiny of the lives of their kids ... It had been done to them ... And they had done exactlupy a s told ... But here she actually demands a payment ... Even when bauji finds out ... I felt they again threw Khushi out to the lions ... Why did Buaji who had been so adamant ... Why did she not say I will come with you to reveal this to Naniji ... That should have been her job ... But again they let her down ...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Ipoona, agree with all that about buaji.. Will be back to write more.. But the shocking fact after all this coercision is that there wasn't much regret from her after realizing shyam's truth like how SHE was the only one to have trusted him blindly.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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jumping in girls...

Though I felt Buaji sort of redeemed herself once Shyam's truth was out, to me, she permanently managed to leave a bad taste for coercing Khushi into getting married to Shyam. In her defense I should mention that she really did love Shyam. But to coerce a person by using the "orphan" card is despicable to say the least. Though Garima and Payal knew that what was happening was not right, they didn't have the mettle to stand up against a domineering buaji.

But then I am glad that this happened, else, how could we have seen an episode like the maha episode? Hai na poona??😉
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Horizon

Ipoona, agree with all that about buaji.. Will be back to write more.. But the shocking fact after all this coercision is that there wasn't much regret from her after realizing shyam's truth like how SHE was the only one to have trusted him blindly.



exactly my thoughts Horizon. When the truth came out, she kicked Shyam out. But not even a hint of apology / regret to Khushi. What the heck!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: bidz

jumping in girls...

Though I felt Buaji sort of redeemed herself once Shyam's truth was out, to me, she permanently managed to leave a bad taste for coercing Khushi into getting married to Shyam. In her defense I should mention that she really did love Shyam. But to coerce a person by using the "orphan" card is despicable to say the least. Though Garima and Payal knew that what was happening was not right, they didn't have the mettle to stand up against a domineering buaji.

But then I am glad that this happened, else, how could we have seen an episode like the maha episode? Hai na poona??😉

Bids ... 😊 It is barreling down upon us ... This pedal to the metal for me ... I am already terrified ... 😲
Mera kya hoga kailia ?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ipoona

Bids ... 😊 It is barreling down upon us ... This pedal to the metal for me ... I am already terrified ... 😲
Mera kya hoga kailia ?

bidz, good to see you. the fact that buaji indeed loved Shyam makes it even worse that SHE should have been the to have gotten shocked to know about him.. cant even count how many times she said that he is laakhon me ek, her judgement about him is right and her nand kishore would n't mislead her and stuff like that. I mean I don't expect a terrace kind of a revelation for buaji upon knowing about Shyam..:) but there is always a neat way to keep characters clean with consceince showing their inner reflections.. (the master of which.. ASR!!).
But yeah, without that how would we have gotten the "tum ne mujhe batana zaroori nahi samjha".. that jor ka jhatka for our Mr cold feet!:)
Ipoona, say "hamara kya hoga kaaliye".. see we are still in search of that lemon pickle for our DUI.. are we??!!:)
Edited by Horizon - 11 years ago

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