to do something good is it ok to do something bad / wrong?? - Page 3

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Omoraboti

I actually felt bad for Ishana. Whenever she realizes that she needs to move on, it is Nikhil's mom & naani who made her feel otherwise and confused her. She should really pay more attention to her own mom's words than that of others. She sounded like she was planning to 'save' Nikhil but it would be a wonderful twist if she plans to something else instead.

lets see!


initially i too felt bad for her but not anymore... she gave Nikhil a chance to rectify his decision he chose not to let go of Lajoo... that was her answer.. she had no future with Nikhil...

what saving Nikhil need? Lajoo is not torturing him or something from whom he needs to be saved...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: sfarazi

Ishana's mum was sensible in telling her that what's the point in buying hairclips when there is no hair to clip them on. There's no point in pursuing something that doesn't belong to you even if you had possession of it earlier. Tbh Ishana is used to getting everything go her way and she feels that she deserves to be pampered by everybody around her so she's inconsiderate of the consequences of her actions. I don't blame Ishana completely because Nikhil, Barkha and Nani are also pushing forward with this relationship even when they know that this is cheating. Honestly what I don't understand is how Nikhil thinks he'll be able to maintain a relationship with Ishana whilst being married to Lajjo? He can't have both and he won't leave either of them so how on earth can he expect either of these women to accept this situation? It's high time for Lajjo to seek her rights because even though Nikhil is in "love" with Ishana, he is her legally wedded husband and morally only she should be the one having a right on him. C'mon CVs show us some logical thinking here!


I really like Ishana's mom in this story... she is trying so hard to make her daughter understand what she is doing is wrong... for that matter Kunal and Shreya too are trying... but Ishana is just too self-centered to see that...

As for Nikhil, Barakha and Nani pushing her... well there too she is letting them force her as in her mind she too wants that...

Nikhil too is blinded by his love for Ishana ... he also needs to open his eyes and should set Ishana free... he is hurting her more by forcing her to be with him...



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Posted: 12 years ago
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I disagree that Ishana is a negative character or that she is trying to take Lajo away from Nikhil. Nikhil refuses to let go of Ishana. Nikhil needs to realize that he is a married man and needs to stop stringing Ishana along. Nikhil needs to take a stand and choose the person he wants to be with. Nikhil and ishana have spent their entire childhood together and eventually fell in love. As of today Lajo is the 3rd wheel because both Nikhil and Ishana think that they are in love with each other. Since Nikhil has not shown enough backbone we need Lajo to take a stand and walk out of NIkhil's life keeping her dignity intact and refusing to put up with any nonsense from Barkha or Naani. Nikhil will not realize Lajo's importance in his life till she leaves him and once he does Ishana's chapter will be over. I dont think Ishana will plot to separate Nikhil and Lajo. She will accept defeat gracefully and go to London for higher studies.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: upra

I disagree that Ishana is a negative character or that she is trying to take Lajo away from Nikhil. Nikhil refuses to let go of Ishana. Nikhil needs to realize that he is a married man and needs to stop stringing Ishana along. Nikhil needs to take a stand and choose the person he wants to be with. Nikhil and ishana have spent their entire childhood together and eventually fell in love. As of today Lajo is the 3rd wheel because both Nikhil and Ishana think that they are in love with each other. Since Nikhil has not shown enough backbone we need Lajo to take a stand and walk out of NIkhil's life keeping her dignity intact and refusing to put up with any nonsense from Barkha or Naani. Nikhil will not realize Lajo's importance in his life till she leaves him and once he does Ishana's chapter will be over. I dont think Ishana will plot to separate Nikhil and Lajo. She will accept defeat gracefully and go to London for higher studies.

This also is not a bad idea.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: upra

I disagree that Ishana is a negative character or that she is trying to take Lajo away from Nikhil. Nikhil refuses to let go of Ishana. Nikhil needs to realize that he is a married man and needs to stop stringing Ishana along. Nikhil needs to take a stand and choose the person he wants to be with. Nikhil and ishana have spent their entire childhood together and eventually fell in love. As of today Lajo is the 3rd wheel because both Nikhil and Ishana think that they are in love with each other. Since Nikhil has not shown enough backbone we need Lajo to take a stand and walk out of NIkhil's life keeping her dignity intact and refusing to put up with any nonsense from Barkha or Naani. Nikhil will not realize Lajo's importance in his life till she leaves him and once he does Ishana's chapter will be over. I dont think Ishana will plot to separate Nikhil and Lajo. She will accept defeat gracefully and go to London for higher studies.


Well what Ishana actually does we will have to wait and watch... Ishana comes across as self centered person ... so I doubt she will accept defeat gracefully...

agree with your point of view on Lajoo... you can not give your life for others sake... a life without any self respect is as good as you are brain dead... so yess Lajoo needs to take a stand...


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Posted: 12 years ago
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If she want that to do, soon she will thanks to that show real face of herself to Nikhil.

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