Negative Thinking

I have been going through this forum for a while. I have noticed that a negative remark is highlighted and discussed more than the positive remark. There should be a limit for criticizing and bashing and should at least be in balance with the positive. I am not saying I do not engage in negative thinking or even criticize, we all do, but I am aware of the damage it can cause. I am sure most of you already know but would like to remind you of the famous quote

Originally posted by: stotra

I have been going through this forum for a while. I have noticed that a negative remark is highlighted and discussed more than the positive remark. There should be a limit for criticizing and bashing and should at least be in balance with the positive. I am not saying I do not engage in negative thinking or even criticize, we all do, but I am aware of the damage it can cause. I am sure most of you already know but would like to remind you of the famous quote

''We are what we think, having become what we thought"- Gautam Buddha

although this is a famous quote, its power is underestimated. If you fill your house with garbage it is going to stink sooner or later. Your mind is no different than your house and its difficult to see the impact thought can have on your mind. If you keep on focusing on the negative aspect of a person and worst of all bashing which is not good for you or the other person and their families, you are training your mind to be that. If in future ( I certainly hope not) , you have problems in your relationship with family or friends and when you are confused whats going on just remember that you have been training your mind to be negative, to hate, to bash.

Be vigilant; guard your mind against negative thoughts- Buddha

and the more you try to highlight a negative, it wont become positive, it will bring out and shine more negative... MY MARKETING TEACHER...

Welcome to the BB Forum. You'll notice attrition if you become all saint-like. You want client retention? Then bring in the spice.

No one likes boring sermons. This has been the trend on the BB forum since the very first season.

Originally posted by: -Roshan-

Welcome to the BB Forum. You'll notice attrition if you become all saint-like. You want client retention? Then bring in the spice.

No one likes boring sermons. This has been the trend on the BB forum since the very first season.

wohi toh... his request is like putting on wrestling and saying, hey you guys are too bloody violent, hug it out... 😆

Originally posted by: baalti

and the more you try to highlight a negative, it wont become positive, it will bring out and shine more negative... MY MARKETING TEACHER...

Originally posted by: baalti

wohi toh... his request is like putting on wrestling and saying, hey you guys are too bloody violent, hug it out... 😆

those non-WWE/real wrestling matches do look like they're trying to hug it out wearing spandex...



angry/hate HUG!

Originally posted by: baalti

wohi toh... his request is like putting on wrestling and saying, hey you guys are too bloody violent, hug it out... 😆

Originally posted by: -Roshan-

Welcome to the BB Forum. You'll notice attrition if you become all saint-like. You want client retention? Then bring in the spice.

No one likes boring sermons. This has been the trend on the BB forum since the very first season.

Originally posted by: stotra

Maybe its boring for you if there is no spice. Trust me, after going through these posts, it would be much worse for you if you were a close relative of Gauhar, Tanisha ..etc

OMG! I just had a Deja Vu moment. 😲 Have we talked on the same topic before?

Originally posted by: -Roshan-

OMG! I just had a Deja Vu moment. 😲 Have we talked on the same topic before?