Understanding what Swaron friendship meant

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@armaanasya

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Posted: 12 years ago

I'm usually a silent reader and a Swaron shipper but I couldn't understand why none of the members, atleast most of them, could not understand the reasoning behind Sharon initiating the "friendship". It was very clear that Sharon still wants him in his life when she said, 'I will not stop trying ". Whole point of hers was to atleast get into talking terms with Swayam to proceed making him fall in love with her again! Right now he isn't even talking to her properly. That's why Sharon thought of a plan,'pyar ka pehla makam dosti' policy.

So why do you guys panic. Just chill. They aren't gonna be friends, that's just Sharon's plan. Relax. 😊

*EDITED* This post seems ridiculous after the U-turn that the show has taken. What in the name of God was that?! Sharon wants to be the diva again?! 🤢 She sure as hell does not have a brain. Wasn't she the one who decided that however rude Swayam behaves with me, I will bear it all for love?!? What happened to all that? Fake promises! How are the viewers supposed to believe in this girl's love for that man!

Edited by armaanasya - 12 years ago

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Deetha.

@Deetha.

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Posted: 12 years ago

Well nice topic.

Swayam lost his trust in Sharon. It was quite clear in the recent episodes where he speaks rudely and saying things to her. For example yesterday's episode?? He directly said that she is self -centered. He has lost trust in her totally . And at this stage I don't think his feelings would that easily come out and he will shower his love on her. She needs to gain his trust and Friendship lays a base for trust.

Simple si baat...

Just my POV.😊

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Mihika

@Legilimens.

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Posted: 12 years ago

Well I have a different perspective here.. I don't think Sharon anyway wanted to initiate any kind of friendship with him. She wanted to say something else I reckon and he glared at her once she said "kya hum..." .Maybe that's why she changed her statement. Sharon and Swayam aren't friends and as the saying goes, friendship is the basis of love, its completely different for SwaRon. SwaRon aren't friends as Swayam himself said once that I can't be friends with you after what I feel for you.

As far as Swayam is concerned, I don't agree with @blind.dance because he hasn't lost trust in her at all. He might be angry..he might be pissed off but he hasn't lost trust. Somewhere I feel he is extremely sad...but hasn't lost trust. He might say rude stuff to her, that's only because he is hurt. He's extremely hurt after her behavior. 😳 But we know that trust is the basis of every relationship..Maybe he's on the verge of going what she thinks as far away from him..And for that she'll have to win his love back..

But yeah I agree that instead of putting friendship wali line, it would have been way better had the dialogue writers put NOTHING at all there. 👎🏼

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@armaanasya

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Mihi4VruShan
Well I have a different perspective here.. I don't think Sharon anyway wanted to initiate any kind of friendship with him. She wanted to say something else I reckon and he glared at her once she said "kya hum..." .Maybe that's why she changed her statement. Sharon and Swayam aren't friends and as the saying goes, friendship is the basis of love, its completely different for SwaRon. SwaRon aren't friends as Swayam himself said once that I can't be friends with you after what I feel for you.

As far as Swayam is concerned, I don't agree with @blind.dance because he hasn't lost trust in her at all. He might be angry..he might be pissed off but he hasn't lost trust. Somewhere I feel he is extremely sad...but hasn't lost trust. He might say rude stuff to her, that's only because he is hurt. He's extremely hurt after her behavior. 😳 But we know that trust is the basis of every relationship..Maybe he's on the verge of going what she thinks as far away from him..And for that she'll have to win his love back..

But yeah I agree that instead of putting friendship wali line, it would have been way better had the dialogue writers put NOTHING at all there. 👎🏼

I agree with your perspective but I don't think you've got mine. I didn't say Sharon want to be his friend. She doesn't! She wants to be his lover/GF and is giving it a name of 'friend' just to get close to him! They obviously cannot stay friends 😆

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@armaanasya

Rocker

Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: -Blind.Dance-
Well nice topic.
Swayam lost his trust in Sharon. It was quite clear in the recent episodes where he speaks rudely and saying things to her. For example yesterday's episode?? He directly said that she is self -centered. He has lost trust in her totally . And at this stage I don't think his feelings would that easily come out and he will shower his love on her. She needs to gain his trust and Friendship lays a base for trust.

Simple si baat...

Just my POV.😊

I'd say yes! Swayam has lost trust on Sharon and rightfully so! I myself have zero trust on her love for him. Today's episode and Sharon's changed decision is a complete let down. She needs to get back his trust and definitely not by ignoring him. What a foolish thought. Zero logic

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Suhana

@Summer_Rain

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Mihi4VruShan
Well I have a different perspective here.. I don't think Sharon anyway wanted to initiate any kind of friendship with him. She wanted to say something else I reckon and he glared at her once she said "kya hum..." .Maybe that's why she changed her statement. Sharon and Swayam aren't friends and as the saying goes, friendship is the basis of love, its completely different for SwaRon. SwaRon aren't friends as Swayam himself said once that I can't be friends with you after what I feel for you.

As far as Swayam is concerned, I don't agree with @blind.dance because he hasn't lost trust in her at all. He might be angry..he might be pissed off but he hasn't lost trust. Somewhere I feel he is extremely sad...but hasn't lost trust. He might say rude stuff to her, that's only because he is hurt. He's extremely hurt after her behavior. 😳 But we know that trust is the basis of every relationship..Maybe he's on the verge of going what she thinks as far away from him..And for that she'll have to win his love back..

But yeah I agree that instead of putting friendship wali line, it would have been way better had the dialogue writers put NOTHING at all there. 👎🏼

i agree sharon wanted to say something else but he glaring at her made ehr change her statement and coming to swayam he is so hurt because after being in relationship offical one and one at the time of accepting her love sharon rejected him publicly which had made him so upset and hurt that he stopped showing his feelings out for sharon but in past weeks his mologue he hismelf said its very very difficult fr him to stop loving shron no matter wat and recelty after pehla ansha dance his monolgoue he also said na he is actually feeling good that sharon is making him feel special but but but wats the point is swayam feels that sharon's feelings are real he feels that she is doing it so that she can get back swayam's attention somewat he himself knows sharon hd changed he started noticing it too but still watever he ahd expereienced in past is stopping him to accept sharon's feelings

thats wat i feel.. i trust sharon but he is tired of getting hurt again and again thats why he is ebahving with ehr like this and swaron can never be friends even swayam himself said it during ndc prelims canteen scene that they can never be friends and wat happened today i think its high time swayam stop taunting sharon and see that watever sharon is doing is just to win back because she truely loves him

Edited by ..Suhana.. - 12 years ago

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@--Rumeli--

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Posted: 12 years ago

are you serious??if this was 2011 i would have been jumping up and down rejoising swaron friendhip but its now almost four years..and since this tym span they have progressed through different phases henceforth they fell in love but breakup is the only conclusion for swaron like alwyz..so this tale of nonsensical drama needs to stop ,frienship is the highly objectionate word for swaron..and is a facade to stagnate swaron..
more over didnt sharon spend enough tym running behind swayam ??? at the end of the day she is a diva so her swapping back to her usual self isnt stupidity its her nature!who doesnt commits mistakes she did too but she trird level best,still is trying..
but this frienship is not the term for swaron..mark my words it wont ever lead to fulfillment of any expectations of us to see them as a couple of this sheer stupidity track of being frirnds continues for ss c its supposed to be their love story not two strangers blossoming their frienship into love but lovers beings uncanny friends which is just ugly itn wait frienship ke liye nahi kiya swaron fans ne come on

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vidya

@vidhuarsha

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: armaanasya
I'm usually a silent reader and a Swaron shipper but I couldn't understand why none of the members, atleast most of them, could not understand the reasoning behind Sharon initiating the "friendship". It was very clear that Sharon still wants him in his life when she said, 'I will not stop trying ". Whole point of hers was to atleast get into talking terms with Swayam to proceed making him fall in love with her again! Right now he isn't even talking to her properly. That's why Sharon thought of a plan,'pyar ka pehla makam dosti' policy.
So why do you guys panic. Just chill. They aren't gonna be friends, that's just Sharon's plan. Relax. 😊

*EDITED* This post seems ridiculous after the U-turn that the show has taken. What in the name of God was that?! Sharon wants to be the diva again?! 🤢 She sure as hell does not have a brain. Wasn't she the one who decided that however rude Swayam behaves with me, I will bear it all for love?!? What happened to all that? Fake promises! How are the viewers supposed to believe in this girl's love for that man!

Man that sure was so true...since i am new to posting stuff in IF i was searching like hell how to post stuff and when i finally found scoop and was ready to post...BANG! ur post catches my attention...DUDE U READ MY MIND! LIKE LITERALLY! what the heck was sharon thinking? and why the hell is everything going backwards? it was quite interesting and good to see the team finally taking their future seriously but...I AM LOST FOR WORDS! DONT KNOW WHERE THE TRACK IS HEADING! ...*baffled state*😕

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medha

@ToujoursPur

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: armaanasya

I'd say yes! Swayam has lost trust on Sharon and rightfully so! I myself have zero trust on her love for him. Today's episode and Sharon's changed decision is a complete let down. She needs to get back his trust and definitely not by ignoring him. What a foolish thought. Zero logic

if he lost trust---he is right. this girl...i dont know---is she mentally addled?