Ruqaiya is on a power trip, even when she was pregnant her desire was to ask jalal for full control to lessen MA's power. Being Mariam Uz Zamani was foremost in her thoughts than the joy of becoming a mother and giving pleasure to her husband. She is not entirely to blame though, from a young girl married to jalal all she knows is how to possess and in her mind that constitutes love. Jalal too has suppressed his love and emotions for so long that he believes he does not have a heart.
Jodha's love however will work subtly on jalal, stirring his soul and unlocking his emotions.