Mindset vs. Heartfelt!!!
Angad and Kripa's frame of mind is not correctly placed—since they did not follow under the supervision of their hearts. Its strange how both desire their beloved's happiness, but not making a sincere effort of listening to their hearts.
Kripa—not paying attention to her words coz her words don't reflect the mirror of her heart. She understand the depths of Angad's love, yet does not comprehend that her one decision can severely damage others heart and soul. She claims to not love anyone anymore, but then why is so concerned about Angad's ruined life? Angad reveals that whatever happened to him was due to his faults, then why is she suffering from within? Angad's unwillingness to perform with her illustrates that he is trying to stay away from her, then why is she pushing him? If she truly wishes to start a fresh life with Prithvi, then why is she still worried about Angad's career? Why, Why, Why?
There are plenty questions that raise in our minds, which relies on Kripa's choice only if she peeked in her heart. The door of our hearts is always open, but sometimes we just lock it and go knocking on our minds to give us answers. Kripa wishes to marry Prithvi out of her own will or by coercion?" Peace out of coercion or fear is no peace at all." Well let's see—Kripa says it's her wish to marry Prithvi, but the reason she gives is that she is doing it for Prithvi's happiness. Prithvi has always been by her side through ups and downs; hence she plans to support him as well. Why is she looking for Prithvi's happiness and not Angad's? In my opinion, she feels indebted towards his sincerity and friendship and so her mind forced her to think in that direction. Since she was coerced by her own thoughts, how will she gain peace of mind? If there is no tranquility in our minds, then how can we live happily? Just once look deep within and your heart will guide you through towards everyone's happiness. Ask yourself kripa—would Prithvi ever be happy seeing you live in misery? Focus!
Kripa—you wish to settle with Prithvi and start afresh. If you have faith in that concept—then what's the rush in marrying Prithvi? If you have confidence that you will lead a happy life with Prithvi then what happens when you are around Angad? Live in the house of truth and love, plainly and simply, without carpets of gratitude and the furniture of social strains. You will be elegantly lying to yourself if you think Prithvi will be happy in future.
Angad—you allowed to destroy yourself for your love, but why are you giving up now? It was a little disappointing to see you lose hope after everything you did. Life is precious; don't insult it by just existing. You assert that you don't want to live and only want your love to be always happy. How will she be happy seeing you in such a state? How can you take another road after coming a long way in life? You say you don't feel anything anymore—then why even care about your love? If you have totally given up, then why survive and insult God's gift of living? Only through thoughts and emotions do we live, otherwise we just exist. Don't do this to yourself and others who love you (such as Kripa, Dadi, and Josh). Show what really is in your heart and your love might just return and once again bring essence in your life. We don't fail unless we fail to try. Sorrow will leap off immediately as soon as you hear the rhythms of your heart. There is something enchanting about believing without proof, for hope will take us through in the journey of life. Love will save you and hurdles in execution. "There can be no enlightenment without realization and no realization without emotions." Don't lock up your feelings and let yourself feel defeated—in that case the shadow of unhappiness will always follow you.
Both made their share of mistakes, which when gathered taught them life experiences. They need to unlock their resistance towards their true love and should obediently listen to their hearts. Finally truth in our heart is the winner in any battle of dilemma. It is such a simple concept, yet so hard for human mind to comprehend.
Some of you while reading this might think that I am taking this show really seriously. I realize that it is only a show, but I am hoping that we see what is invisible to the eye in real life situations. I was just wondering how much life would become easier if we just allowed ourselves to look within to see what is worth seeing. Many people might just move along with logical possibilities—but have you ever wondered how many thoughts we have without being thoughtful. I am just trying to relate this in terms of Angad-Kripa's feelings from what I perceive.
To all who agree—always let your heartfelt emotions take you through in life. For as the difficult takes time, the impossible just takes a little longer.
To all who disagree—think over and consider real emotions to be a lot more worthy than logic of life. For once, take a chance of letting heart rule over mind and you will see a difference.
I would love to read anyone's point of view on this issue. Do tell me what you all really think about it.
-Love4ever!
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