Mindset vs. Heartfelt!!! - Page 2

Hey guys,

Thank you so much for agreeing with me! I appreciate your input towards my random thoughts. You all are just too sweet – Komal, Anamika, LT, Soni, gals, Kritika, Queen—I am truly grateful for your kind words and very glad to know that you like my writing.

Komal—you're such a sweetheart! I love you too hun. Like I said earlier, Kripa is focusing on what her mind is telling her. I just hope she realizes soon before it's too late to rectify her actions! I am hoping that Prithvi backs out seeing Kripa's anxiousness every time she looks in Angad's direction. Prithvi…do the right thing!

Anamika—sweetie young age can teach a lot too coz I have encountered a lot of things in life! Years teach us which days knew nothing of—hence I have always given importance to positive aspects of life. "Some people see things and ask 'Why?' I dream things that never were and say 'Why not?'"

-Love4ever!

Originally posted by: love4ever

Angad and Kripa's frame of mind is not correctly placed—since they did not follow under the supervision of their hearts. Its strange how both desire their beloved's happiness, but not making a sincere effort of listening to their hearts.

This is actually quite a lovely point: to get what is best in life, one should first ask what is best for yourself. Making choices while keeping someone else in mind is bound to have problems because you are always guessing at what they really want/need. I agree completely with this one. The only thing that I don't agree with is that there is a difference between "heart&mind" - they are merely two sides of the same coin/soul.

Originally posted by: love4ever

Kripa— Angad's unwillingness to perform with her illustrates that he is trying to stay away from her, then why is she pushing him? If she truly wishes to start a fresh life with Prithvi, then why is she still worried about Angad's career? Why, Why, Why?

Let's say it all together: Why, why, why??!! :-)

Originally posted by: love4ever

Angad--If you have totally given up, then why survive and insult God's gift of living? Only through thoughts and emotions do we live, otherwise we just exist.

Another brilliant "Why, why, why???!"

I have one more nuance to add to your lovely set of questions: given the way that you have shown up the flaws in what KS and AK are doing, here's what I suspect: KS is looking for AK to really come back and GET her; not just show her that he is sorry! So far that is ALL that he has done! Shown her that he is desperately sorry for all that garbage that he dumped on her.

He has not yet (other than side-way intense looks, or on-the-sly ways of getting to hold her) shown her that he wants her wholly, madly, deeply, desperately, like he used to in the good old days of beaches and Goa.

Whether consciously or unconsciously, she is taking actions to try to push him to prove his LOVE not his repentence. Once he can see that through his pointless self-pitying lazy-ass routine, he will come and grab her and she will willingly go with him.

Err, at least, that's what I think.

Originally posted by: love4ever

For once, take a chance of letting heart rule over mind and you will see a difference.

Just finished a rapid fire set of tos-and-fros on the question of heart-vs.-head in postings that LoonyTunes started where I said this: any person who faces any, but any kind of choice in any walk of life, chooses with their heart. No question, no doubt. There could be obvious choices, of course, like "Do you think AK is good looking or not?" :-) Here, both the heart and head scream in unison, no doubt. :-)

But, in any choice that is tough, people always choose with their hearts. Just MHO&O (My Humble Observation and Opinion), of course.

-E

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Beautiful dear, agree with ya:)

Firstly, let me say, this is a brilliant post. 👏 👏 👏

Originally posted by: love4ever

Angad and Kripa's frame of mind is not correctly placed—since they did not follow under the supervision of their hearts. Its strange how both desire their beloved's happiness, but not making a sincere effort of listening to their hearts.

Roopal mentioned in a post that Kripa has been through so much that she is now being practical…I disagree with that statement…Practicality in certain situations is fine, but practicality cannot carry you through life giving you the happiness and fulfillment you need to live life to its fullest.

Originally posted by: love4ever

Kripa—not paying attention to her words coz her words don't reflect the mirror of her heart. She understand the depths of Angad's love, yet does not comprehend that her one decision can severely damage others heart and soul. She claims to not love anyone anymore, but then why is so concerned about Angad's ruined life? Angad reveals that whatever happened to him was due to his faults, then why is she suffering from within? Angad's unwillingness to perform with her illustrates that he is trying to stay away from her, then why is she pushing him? If she truly wishes to start a fresh life with Prithvi, then why is she still worried about Angad's career? Why, Why, Why?

Exactly! Very well put…she suffers when he suffers, she cries for him, she wants to him to be happy, but why can't she realize that he can't be happy without her and she definitely won't be happy without him.

Originally posted by: love4ever

Ask yourself kripa—would Prithvi ever be happy seeing you live in misery? Focus!

No, Prithvi will not be happy. Prithvi will become a sad, bitter man, after his marriage to Kripa…but I also hold him responsible for this…it was clear from the DTPH dance rehearsal, that he could see the emotions that Angad and Kripa still hold and feel for each other, yet he chose to close his eyes to it and ignore it….if he goes through with this marriage despite knowing everything, the he has gladly made his bed and he will have to sleep in it.

Originally posted by: love4ever

Angad—you allowed to destroy yourself for your love, but why are you giving up now? It was a little disappointing to see you lose hope after everything you did. Life is precious; don't insult it by just existing. You assert that you don't want to live and only want your love to be always happy.

Angad claims that his happiness lies with Kripa's happiness…I think he should fight for the with everything that he has in him…try his utmost to gain back the love that he has lost…after that, if she still decides to marry Prithvi (which would be a ridiculous decision), than he can add validity to his walking away from her…he can justify his actions by saying I've tried and she has chosen …Don't just sit back and take for granted that she will forever be lost to you…believe me if Angad shows that he still loves her, if he fights for her…she will come to see what's still in her heart, what has always been in her heart…and like Josh said…she lives by her emotions…if she is brought to finally acknowledge these emotions, she will definitely go back to Angad.


Just my point of view.


Hafsa