Dilshaad A Wife n A Mother!

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Posted: 11 years ago
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"Pyaar Andha Hota Hai Aur Behra Bhi" In This Matter I Totaly Agree With Ayaan! 😆 n The Perfect Example Of It Is "Dilshaad"

Well I Will Not Bash Dilshaad Coz I Can Understand Where She Is Coming From, She Is Doing What She Thinks Is Right But The Fact Is She Is Wrong!

Dilshaad Is Not A Weak Women But Her Good For Nothing Husband Rashid Is Her Weakness, When It Comes To Rashid She Can Do Anything n Everything!

When Dilshaad Was Fullfilling Her Duty Of A Mother Towards Asad, Najma n Zoya, That Time She Was A Mother Only Mother!

Now When Dilshaad Wants To Fullfill Her Duty Of A Wife Towards Rashid, This Time She Is A Wife Only Wife!

As A Wife Dilshaad Is Always Very Much Loyal, Coz Her Husband Is The 1st Person Who Came Into Her Life, Whoom She Loves Alot, She Still Has Some Expectation From Him, Deep Down In Her Heart She Always Wanted To Be With Him!

As A Mother Dilshaad Is Always Good, She Worked Hard For Her Kids, She Gave Them Very Good Sanskar n Parvarish, Made Them Amazing Human Beings, She Gave Zoya A Mother Which She Never Had, She Made Asad n Najma Setteled In Their Lifes!

Dilshaad Cant Be A Mother n A Wife At The Same Time,

When She Thought More Then Her Husband Her Kids Needs Her That Time Her Choice Was Her Kids,

Now When She Thinks More Then Asad Najma Her Husband Needs Her This Time Her Choice Is Rashid,

I Am Not Saying Dilshaad Is Right No She Is Not,

I Am Just Saying We Should Not Compare A Wife n A Mother These Two Complicated Characters, Yes Dilshaad Is A Loyal Wife But It Does Not Make Her A Bad Mother!

Yes At The Moment Dilshaad Is Doing Wrong With Asad, But She Was The Only One Who Never Let Anyone To Did Something Wrong With Her Son!

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Posted: 11 years ago
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you are right...Dilshad is right at her place...
she has two diff roles & she has been the best mother...and she is...
but deep down she alwys loved Rashid..and she is trying to fulfill his lst wish sumwhr...(as Rashid says tht he'll nt be alive fr more tym...)

the nly culprit as usual is Rashid...
he shud hav either took his complete family (Dilshad-Asad-Zoya) to SM...or shud hav cum to KV to spend his remaining life with Dilshad...

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: angel2930

<font color="#3300CC"><font face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif" size="2">you are right...Dilshad is right at her place...
she has two diff roles & she has been the best mother...and she is...
but deep down she alwys loved Rashid..and she is trying to fulfill his lst wish sumwhr...(as Rashid says tht he'll nt be alive fr more tym...)

the nly culprit as usual is Rashid...
he shud hav either took his complete family (Dilshad-Asad-Zoya) to SM...or shud hav cum to KV to spend his remaining life with Dilshad...


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Exactly, Haider Seikh Should Kill Rashid 😡
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Arpimugfan

Exactly, Haider Seikh Should Kill Rashid 😡



ha ha ha...😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I agree Arpita! I see where Dilshad is coming from. My only problem is I wish she was not as blunt to Asad in telling him her decision.
But yes we cannot compare mother vs. wife. Seeing all the kids in QH besides Zoya, only Dilshad's kids are respectable...baaki sab toh useless/spineless/cheap/disgusting...etc...etc...etc..hai..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: niki_12

I agree Arpita! I see where Dilshad is coming from. My only problem is I wish she was not as blunt to Asad in telling him her decision.

But yes we cannot compare mother vs. wife. Seeing all the kids in QH besides Zoya, only Dilshad's kids are respectable...baaki sab toh useless/spineless/cheap/disgusting...etc...etc...etc..hai..

Yeah Niki, Thats Why I Said She Is Doing Wrong With Asad!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Exactly!
Dilshad choosing to go over and stay with Rashid doesn't mean she's leaving Asad! She's bound to Rashid by her heart and doing what she's compelled to by the emotional state she finds herself in coupled with Rashid's emotional blackmailing. Her decision is also because there's a fear clouding her mind... fear of what if something happens to him? What if her denial cause him another stress that may deteriorate his health? If something happens to Rashid after her denial, she'll never be able to forgive herself and live in peace as she has never let go of him.

But just one weak decision doesn't make her a weak person or a weak mother. Asad is right in his stand to protect his mother to be possessive of his mother. They have stood by each other in worst times and have been the support to other so now he's bound to feel that the ground slipping away from beneath his feet but at the same time, what Dilshad is signing up for is snatching her own son from her too. She's giving up on the protection and support of her son and comfort of her son to do what she feels is right. She's a torn woman right now. And not making a practical and sensible choice. Perhaps she's not even in a state to understand.


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Posted: 11 years ago
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I m nt saying ki dil os wrong ...but shez definitely wronging asad
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Arpita.. Everybody have their POV.. Agree with you that Rashid is the culprit 17yrs back and now as well...
First if we take the current situation.. Is it not disgusting to have 2 women in the same house..?? This I completely do not agree... It is against the self respect of both Dilshad and Shireen.. Am sure Dilshad will come back to KV soon...She agreed on this since she is currently emotional and scared that her husband is counting his last days after the attack..but she will definately realize her mistake as days pass by...

Your point on Dilshad cannot be Mother and Wife at the same time.. If Rashid wants his entire family then he had to request Asad also to join them... Why only Dilshad ?? It definately does not mean that if Dilshad had left Asad and Najma 17 yrs back, Rashid would have taken in Dilshad... I hope CVs bring out all these points and provide clarity to the audience...

17 yrs back, we don't know what made Rashid marry Shireen if he was so much in love with Dilshad and again what made him agree to Razia and Gaffur to go to Gudiya Factory..?? which completely changed the lives of Asad, Najma, Dilshad and Zoya ??

Even now his move will change the lives of these 4 but how ??



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Posted: 11 years ago
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in present time she fail as mother

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