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Posted: 11 years ago
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Didi, here I mingled everything... Dont mistake me...

Didi, now I am seeing Astha's promotion...

I remember your word also , before marriage everything at a place... and also compare with ur comfort zone chart...when we are in our own home sky is the limit... but enter into inner circle little bit changed due to the factors... Trick is, how we break this circle with our intelligence...its upto persons ability...
When we promoted I think we didnt lose our identity... Our responsibilities increased and its a plot to expose our power; again women lead... But thing is, when we enter in new environment, and like agnigothri's family its not easy to adapt... we need time to understand everyone... and don't know how far practically it is possible?

Astha :
Before DIL - Her world is only Shlok; so give her attention only to Shlok, not bothering much about others...not mean disrespect ; Its her trust or we can say that its her assumption " I can manage everything with the support of Shlok"...
After DIL - Now practical stage... Even Shlok supports its not easy to adapt everything for her; obviously fearness, tension, frustrations, anger enters into mind...Its quite natural; fluctuations occur in Astha's mind...big family, ppl are like five fingers, How I am going to handle or settle everything? She needs to pour out; whom? Automatically its Shlok ; and again she knows him very well; if she says anything (maturity) he will again create a big mess up against Anjaliji? Result of this we know... later realize Oh! I showed my anger to my beloved one & it hurts him a lot... im(matured) Astha

How Astha going to balance? -Biwi & Bahu

Shlok

Her unbalancing mode, Shlok understands her... I appreciate Shlok for his supportive nature ...Didi already told na, if Astha cries, he melts and one more thing I wish to say here, "Everyone has some soft or senti corner though they are like stonehearted"; if you identify that one; its easy to bring them into real world; [Didi you know some scenes and hints I gave] but patience required; Coming to the point, now Shlok changed a little bit, and he expects Astha's attentions for him;

Dialogue: "We would talk later when you are in good mood"... I take this in 2 views:

1. Shlok knows himself very well; He knows his nature; Astha's avoidance is the biggest turning point in his life; He couldn't bear her avoidance; and always expect priority, this all made him in peak; again his anger going to hurt her more... So he just avoid it; [Good Boy] and I think, instead of he speak show his love via his actions [True Love] [Brain & Heart works].

2. Bad boy version, if you hurt me by avoiding my help then me too don't want to listen your words [Child wala hubby /Ego]

But one thing, if he doing this all [support, care] with intention, don't know what to say? [Didi u know]

Ashlok

Tiffs also needed; without tiffs life becomes boring... And truth is we can see the real face of a person also; depends on the situation; Astha tries to pacify him by using her weapon; Shlok other side showing his supportiveness by actions... This is Ashlok upto now...

Pride Section

Astha

Happy vs Blind

As per show ok...She is happy and proud...

But why not Astha think about his mom? DIL Astha will do it in future?...

Shlok

He always fulfills his promises... "Give & take" ... But don't know what about that plot?what happened for that? [ may be I missed that episode]

Ashlok:

How Shlok going to fulfill his promise? - Astha & NA


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Didi, color Matching, [ Red- Red] [ Blue - Blue]

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: abi_niki

Didi, here I mingled everything... Dont mistake me...

Didi, now I am seeing Astha's promotion...

I remember your word also , before marriage everything at a place... and also compare with ur comfort zone chart...when we are in our own home sky is the limit... but enter into inner circle little bit changed due to the factors... Trick is, how we break this circle with our intelligence...its upto persons ability...
When we promoted I think we didnt lose our identity... Our responsibilities increased and its a plot to expose our power; again women lead... But thing is, when we enter in new environment, and like agnigothri's family its not easy to adapt... we need time to understand everyone... and don't know how far practically it is possible?

Astha :
Before DIL - Her world is only Shlok; so give her attention only to Shlok, not bothering much about others...not mean disrespect ; Its her trust or we can say that its her assumption " I can manage everything with the support of Shlok"...
After DIL - Now practical stage... Even Shlok supports its not easy to adapt everything for her; obviously fearness, tension, frustrations, anger enters into mind...Its quite natural; fluctuations occur in Astha's mind...big family, ppl are like five fingers, How I am going to handle or settle everything? She needs to pour out; whom? Automatically its Shlok ; and again she knows him very well; if she says anything (maturity) he will again create a big mess up against Anjaliji? Result of this we know... later realize Oh! I showed my anger to my beloved one & it hurts him a lot... im(matured) Astha

How Astha going to balance? -Biwi & Bahu

Shlok

Her unbalancing mode, Shlok understands her... I appreciate Shlok for his supportive nature ...Didi already told na, if Astha cries, he melts and one more thing I wish to say here, "Everyone has some soft or senti corner though they are like stonehearted"; if you identify that one; its easy to bring them into real world; [Didi you know some scenes and hints I gave] but patience required; Coming to the point, now Shlok changed a little bit, and he expects Astha's attentions for him;

Dialogue: "We would talk later when you are in good mood"... I take this in 2 views:

1. Shlok knows himself very well; He knows his nature; Astha's avoidance is the biggest turning point in his life; He couldn't bear her avoidance; and always expect priority, this all made him in peak; again his anger going to hurt her more... So he just avoid it; [Good Boy] and I think, instead of he speak show his love via his actions [True Love] [Brain & Heart works].

2. Bad boy version, if you hurt me by avoiding my help then me too don't want to listen your words [Child wala hubby /Ego]

But one thing, if he doing this all [support, care] with intention, don't know what to say? [Didi u know]

Ashlok

Tiffs also needed; without tiffs life becomes boring... And truth is we can see the real face of a person also; depends on the situation; Astha tries to pacify him by using her weapon; Shlok other side showing his supportiveness by actions... This is Ashlok upto now...

Pride Section

Astha

Happy vs Blind

As per show ok...She is happy and proud...

But why not Astha think about his mom? DIL Astha will do it in future?...

Shlok

He always fulfills his promises... "Give & take" ... But don't know what about that plot?what happened for that? [ may be I missed that episode]

Ashlok:

How Shlok going to fulfill his promise? - Astha & NA




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