Immeditate requirement of IQ Tests...

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Here again, they display the portrayal of contradictory statements, on one hand you say "Vidya doesn't want to transfer all the property to that Dracula because she is greedy, but on the other hand, if she wants the property why would she leave the house..?" Sagar is mentally ill, Vidya is soft hearted and illiterate, but what are the rest? Are they uneducated? Or do they see illogicality as logicality and validity as invalidity?

Why do they never use their brains to think? If ears can hear, eyes can see and hearts can feel, why do their brains not think intellectually and logically..? How about I take an IQ test of them...

Definition of IQ Tests: Traditional psychologists believe neurological and genetic factors underlie "intelligence" and scoring the performance of certain intellectual tasks can provide assessors with a measurement of general intelligence.

Let's analyze the family member's behaviors/thought processes/communication skills

Sagar's mum: She utilizes the most unhealthy way of communication...You cannot build healthy relationships on a foundation so weak...You cannot speak of trust, when you've never trusted, if you did, you wouldn't distrust at every seed of doubt that situations create...You cannot always talk and leave no room for the opponent to speak, this way, you're thrusting your perspective on people, without admititng that they too could have a point of view that is righteous and could throw back your perspective...Listening is the key to effective communication, if you don't listen, no one will ever listen to you..This cartoon character is very funny, when her own son was troubled by Sindoora, she remained mute and never raised her voice to object Sindoora's wrong doings, yet today Surili has suddenly built up some sort of adrenaline pump to scream and shriek at Vidya? Sweetie, when your son could have almost died, your voice raised not even a notch..and now you seem to have a new attitude born within you..wow..

Aniket: Psychologists say personalities are unchangeble...Attitudes may somewhat change, but never personalties, so how did your personality suddenly swift to a different direction? When situations arose before, you were the first to analyze the situation and calm everyone..yet now you seem to be resorted to a meek mouse, who speaks others words, and does not think for himself...Where is the trust you enveloped inside of your heart for Vidya, and where is the distrust you had bestowed for the woman who left a man when he was mentally challenged? At first, it was you who controlled your wife, and stopped her from hurling baseless accusations and scheming games to humiliate Vidya, and today is her who is controlling you around her finger, you cannot see through her schemes today?

Chinu: You're a good hearted soul, no really, but you lack confidence and a voice that needs to be heard...You've helped out Vidya at every step in her life after marriage, yet you've been the person whose helped behind everyone, and not openly...You've consoled her when she was alone, and but you too seemed to be resorted to a quiet mouse, when you could have said something important that could shut up everyone...Just because everyone is yelling you can't say anything? If maaji and Sindoora can yell, cutting short Vidya's words why can't you? Your words hold truth, and trust, why be afraid? Say it, say it so everyone knows you support Vidya, say it so people know you've seen Surili's true colors, say it so everyone knows you're not a weakling that the draculas should underestimate..

Hema Chachi: hmm...what can I say about you? You're a weirdo that's what you are...When you so desperately wanted to tangle Shalu and Chinu into a marriage filled with lies, you sweet talked and innocent smiled with Vidya, urging her to do whatever it takes to make Shalu-Chinu's wedding happen...When turmoilous times approached Vidya you turned your back..Let's see who helps you out, when you're stuck in a hulabaloo yourself, this time Vidya will not be there to help you out, and you can curse your fate all your life, but it will not change your karma...Please, don't point fingers at others, cause let me tell you a secret those who point fingers at others, should know three fingers very easily point back at them...Did you forget how you stole money to give Harsh some time ago, or the perfume bottles you hid beneath your heavy sari or did you forget you utilized an iron rod on Vidya's hand or did you forget you enacted a complete hilarious play to get your daughter married??? She is a distrustful woman, that shouldn't be trusted at all...Everything she says and does are contradictory and she will do anything that will benefit herself...She banks on others sympathy and celebrates victory at the expense of others pain...Granted these pains may not always be the result of her schemes, but one who laughs at others pains, is left in isolation when thorns surround them...

This is it for now, l'll come back later analyzing the rest..As for now, hope you were able to bear with me!

Keep smiling..

Love

Soni

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Wow Soni ji, that was a lovely analysis 👏 👏 😳 When I was reading ur thoughts, it felt as if i was venting my own out at the same time..!! 😛

Really, it seems that everyone has changed who they are.... not everyone, but almost, but oky anyways...

Maaji is someone who has really shocked me.... and i am SO upset at what's done, no matter what later on, i'll never be able to forgive her for how she suddenly changed her whole trust to Surily.... 😡 She never used to speak up and now she's speaking up for the wrong things... trusting someone who is trying to ruin their family, and instead thinking that Vidya is untrustworthy... which is a completely false though... really have no words!

I can never be upset with Chinu Bhaiyya, but I do wish that sometimes he also cuts off Sindoora or Maaji. yesterday he did it a little bit in desperation because Tusshar was coming, but today he kept quiet in the most important of times why? patha nahin....

Aniket jiju who i used to like because he never wanted Surily in the house and atleast had some sense, is now stepping back at the wrong time!

That's why I'm so happy that atleast Tusshar is there, someone who doesn't take any panga from anyone and does what he needs to do...

Bechari Vidya and Sagar... God, felt so so bad for them today 😭 😭

lovely analysis once again, and im sholly for rambling in the bargain! 😛
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Fantastic Analysis!!!👏👏👏

What I don't understand is that is it that difficult to calculate 2+2= 4.

Remember before going to the water park, Sameer had heard SS conspiring to drown him but Surili somehow changed the meaning of his actions. But what happened later? Sameer did nearly drown! It was up to Vidya to allow Sameer and Surili in the house, why would she accept them if she wanted them out in the first place. Also its pathetic that despite all the evidence given against Surili, Maaji refuses to accept that there could be something fishy yet if there is a small doubt on Vidya, she takes it to be certain that Vidya has done wrong.

I'm surprised that Aniketh jiju has been so mum about this whole situation. Do they not comprehend that Surili has got what she wanted....Vidya out of the house! How did this all happen? They don't have time to have even a sneak in to Surili's misdoings but are always ready to jump on Vidya.

P-A-T-H-E-T-I-C! 😡😡😡

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: ammmu

Wow Soni ji, that was a lovely analysis 👏 👏 😳 When I was reading ur thoughts, it felt as if i was venting my own out at the same time..!! 😛

thankoo ammu😳 aah "great minds think alike"

Really, it seems that everyone has changed who they are.... not everyone, but almost, but oky anyways...

I personally think Sindoora, Surili, Chinu, Bharat, and Vidya haven't changed, the rest like Hema chachi are like swings they will shift according the winds that favor them...

Maaji is someone who has really shocked me.... and i am SO upset at what's done, no matter what later on, i'll never be able to forgive her for how she suddenly changed her whole trust to Surily.... 😡 She never used to speak up and now she's speaking up for the wrong things... trusting someone who is trying to ruin their family, and instead thinking that Vidya is untrustworthy... which is a completely false though... really have no words!

She has definitely shocked me too, her son almost died and she remained standing crying, I felt sad for then, and I pitied her helplesness, and now I am angered at her sudden hot tempered attitude..She speaks of the faith she had in Vidya, let's ask her what faith is she talking about? When has she ever trusted Vidya when situations trap Vidya in a circle of doubt?

I can never be upset with Chinu Bhaiyya, but I do wish that sometimes he also cuts off Sindoora or Maaji. yesterday he did it a little bit in desperation because Tusshar was coming, but today he kept quiet in the most important of times why? patha nahin....

I don't know, Chinu bhaiya really dissapoints me sometimes, he is not a kid like bharat, he is a grown adult, so act like one sometimes please...

Aniket jiju who i used to like because he never wanted Surily in the house and atleast had some sense, is now stepping back at the wrong time!

He can doubt Surili's reports the first she performed her barbie doll / woman in distress act, and now when Tusshar shows the reports, he turns a blind eye?? He too needs to wear glasses of trust...

That's why I'm so happy that atleast Tusshar is there, someone who doesn't take any panga from anyone and does what he needs to do...

Exactly, he doesn't need to tolerate all the crap, and he won't...He is one strong character as of now besides Sindoora...

Bechari Vidya and Sagar... God, felt so so bad for them today 😭 😭

aww yea...I can't wait to see the small eye locking, tear filled scene of theirs otherwise I will just skip through the rest of the drama...

lovely analysis once again, and im sholly for rambling in the bargain! 😛

not don't be sorry, I too ramble on and on, no wonder my four line paragraph turned into something so long, thankoo for liking it!😳

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: *Reemz*

Fantastic Analysis!!!👏👏👏

Thankoo Reemz😳😛

What I don't understand is that is it that difficult to calculate 2+2= 4.

Exactly, exactly and exactly!

Remember before going to the water park, Sameer had heard SS conspiring to drown him but Surili somehow changed the meaning of his actions. But what happened later? Sameer did nearly drown! It was up to Vidya to allow Sameer and Surili in the house, why would she accept them if she wanted them out in the first place. Also its pathetic that despite all the evidence given against Surili, Maaji refuses to accept that there could be something fishy yet if there is a small doubt on Vidya, she takes it to be certain that Vidya has done wrong.

I'm surprised that Aniketh jiju has been so mum about this whole situation. Do they not comprehend that Surili has got what she wanted....Vidya out of the house! How did this all happen? They don't have time to have even a sneak in to Surili's misdoings but are always ready to jump on Vidya.

P-A-T-H-E-T-I-C! 😡😡😡

Exactly, none of them have actually sat down and reviewed or analyzed the situation logically and practically, every normal person would do that...They also probably have short term amenesia, cause like you said, even if one person didn't remember Sameer saying in actions about the drowning, did no one in the entire family remember that? Did anyone care to ask Sameer even in actions, if Vidya did anything wrong with him?

Coming to think of it, it's Surili who has a bad background with them, and on that basis they trust her soo much, and Vidya whose always stood up on every turmoilous time and supported them, they don't trust her...They should consult a relationship counselor..they desperately need one...

aah pathetic is the word!

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Thankoo!! 😳

I think Sindoora is still the same, but she has changed a bit in the sense that.... hmmm... before she would atleast care for Bharat or pretend to care for Aniket jiju, but now... seems like she's all into her own plans... as for the other people, I agree... Shalu hasn't changed either 😆 , as for Harsh... same thoughts, same plans, maybe the way he is going about it is different now...

One thing about Sagar though.... is that I know so many may be upset with him because he isn't supporting Vidya, or he is the one who was kind of moving her onto sign the paper (playfully, of course), but I dun think that he's changed.... it's just that of course, all that hungama with being J of Sameer, and then he finds that Tusshar has come and then Vidya is talking to them... but it's Sindoora, Surily, and Maaji who have drifted them apart physically... mentally and emotionally, they are still close to each other and both feel pain and guilt, but physically, we can see ourselves that we rarely actually get to see them together... (which will hopefully change soon!) But the sad thing is that also, if someone suddenly starts to watch the serial, they won't find out that Sagar and Vidya are pati-patni, chahe kuch bhi ho, I know Sagar is mentally ill but atleast we knew they were husband and wife... even with other serials, you can tell that usually from the beginning, but it's sad how much they have drifted away from SV story, I wish they will bring it back now! 😳

Oky you are right, Chinu Bhaiyya is not a kid like Bharat.... 😉 wish he can speak up... he too needs to be more bold, but he is bolder than Vidya...

Woahh oky, did not expect for me to write that many lines, so bear with me 😆

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Posted: 18 years ago
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amazing! 👏 i def agree wif u!
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: ammmu

Thankoo!! 😳

I think Sindoora is still the same, but she has changed a bit in the sense that.... hmmm... before she would atleast care for Bharat or pretend to care for Aniket jiju, but now... seems like she's all into her own plans... as for the other people, I agree... Shalu hasn't changed either 😆 , as for Harsh... same thoughts, same plans, maybe the way he is going about it is different now...

Shalu changed a slight bit in the sense she thinks for her own too, and wants to help out the gang, unfortunately she doesn't really entirely succeed...Harsh yea, at first he was buttering Sindoora and now blackmailing more...

One thing about Sagar though.... is that I know so many may be upset with him because he isn't supporting Vidya, or he is the one who was kind of moving her onto sign the paper (playfully, of course), but I dun think that he's changed.... it's just that of course, all that hungama with being J of Sameer, and then he finds that Tusshar has come and then Vidya is talking to them... but it's Sindoora, Surily, and Maaji who have drifted them apart physically... mentally and emotionally, they are still close to each other and both feel pain and guilt, but physically, we can see ourselves that we rarely actually get to see them together... (which will hopefully change soon!) But the sad thing is that also, if someone suddenly starts to watch the serial, they won't find out that Sagar and Vidya are pati-patni, chahe kuch bhi ho, I know Sagar is mentally ill but atleast we knew they were husband and wife... even with other serials, you can tell that usually from the beginning, but it's sad how much they have drifted away from SV story, I wish they will bring it back now! 😳

I completely agree with you Sagar hasn't changed at all, it's his eight year old that comprises of an egocentric perspective that he utilizes this stubborn mode and what we call distrust is actually not distrust in his mind, but something true, because he will and can only believe what he says, yes shifted a little bit sometimes but not much...aah well, here's where Maaji, Sindoora and Surili will never succeed, they can seperate SV physically how much they want, but legally and emotionally they cannot..yayyy😛

Oky you are right, Chinu Bhaiyya is not a kid like Bharat.... 😉 wish he can speak up... he too needs to be more bold, but he is bolder than Vidya...

Aaah, true, he needs to also get some bold lessons like Vidya...

Woahh oky, did not expect for me to write that many lines, so bear with me 😆

aah don't worry, I too often go into tangents, if you've beared with me, so can I!😛

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: angel_10

amazing! 👏 i def agree wif u!

Thankoo for liking it and agreeing with it!😳

keep smiling..

Love

Soni

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Posted: 18 years ago
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*Sorry...double post by mistake*😊

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