Why is Nikhil taking everything lightly

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Posted: 12 years ago
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One question did Nikhil ever talk to Laajo openly about his love for Ishaana, the last time they talked about this issue was in the village but he did not clearly mention Ishaana as such and so much has changed since then..Laajo came to know about Ishaana indirectly and not from Nikhil as such. He has just assumed that Laajo is okay with it without knowing her true feelings. He has to understand they might be friends but in reality they r married and in a married relationship its important to know about how the wife feels by talking to her and not just assuming. Even if he has assumed stuff and for sure Laajo being who she is wont openly say anything, it doesn't mean he should talk about it lightly like the dance/shirt thing which will probably come tomorrow after all according to me its a serious matter. I feel sad for Laajo she has already decided that she is never going to get her husband's love and is staying here only for her parents. I guess the story is taking place according to the promo now with the wife being the third wheel..

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Uditi I agree completely...nikhil is acting as if all is ok...he is immature to understand the situation ...he doesn't know between right or wrong other wise he would doo wat he's doing now...or he is just plain selfish jerk...honestly not liking this nikhil 🤢 ...he's acting like a child who is favourite toyis ishana n would do anything to get it...
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Originally posted by: hana89

Uditi I agree completely...nikhil is acting as if all is ok...he is immature to understand the situation ...he doesn't know between right or wrong other wise he would doo wat he's doing now...or he is just plain selfish jerk...honestly not liking this nikhil 🤢 ...he's acting like a child who is favourite toyis ishana n would do anything to get it...

so true I thought Nikhil is smart and all but he does get immature when it comes to matters of Ishaana
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Uditi, I didn't comment immediately because I was thinking Laajo after hearing Nikhil said to Nikhil you told me you couldn't give me love or your heart when you brought me back from the village, so pretended to be content with the situation as it is, so I wanted to see if she does that first then I would say not Nikhil's fault entirely here, we can't blame him for believing Laajo is okay with the situation of him seeing another woman Ishana. So I was waiting first to see what would happen, if Laajo had done that I would have said Nikhil is doing this yes it's wrong but Laajo by saying to him in that way is giving him a green light to hurt her, he said on the phone that he loves Ishana and Laajo is not important to him that Ishana is more important to him then Laajo is but though he says this today to give her money insisting he wants to still take care of her. Now I'm thinking despite he saying those words his actions towards Laajo, his responsibility shows he cares for her perhaps as much as he cares for Ishana, the fact he married her to help her situation and insists to keep her with him at his home even though his grandfather wanted to take her to his home, the day she needed his help to take her back home he went to take her though it was a special day for him and Ishana, when he brought her back also he could have left her outside and taken the car to go to Ishana but he didn't he came in the house with her, so he likes the time they spend together and likes to laugh and talk with her.

But I agree Nikhil today brushing everything aside and it hasn't occurred to him what will happen to Laajo, Ishana and his future, so yes he is taking it very lightly, to him going places with Ishana is like before he was married hang out with his girlfriend but he is a married man now, he shouldn't be seen even with a girlfriend at all.


I'm glad Laajo didn't seek to say it's okay Nikhil you told me you can't give me love so carry on with Ishana in your plans, also I'm very sure had he spelt it out for her that he intends to carry on seeing his girlfriend if Laajo returns with him back to Delhi she would have decided to tell her parents instead, I'm sure Laajo when he told her that he can't give her love Laajo was thinking we hardly know each other, he cares for me and my parents not to be hurt, eventually with his support his family will accept me and he will grow to love me, but this seeing his ex-girlfriend whilst he is married did not occur to her where it would be difficult then with the family wanting Ishana and Nikhil to be together and throwing it in her face everyday now, Laajo in her room is thinking she should leave, though she considers her parents situation in Sornbarsa if she turns up there, so just a bit more thought perhaps she will come to realise there is another way for her.
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Originally posted by: .Nafisa.

Uditi, I didn't comment immediately because I was thinking Laajo after hearing Nikhil said to Nikhil you told me you couldn't give me love or your heart when you brought me back from the village, so pretended to be content with the situation as it is, so I wanted to see if she does that first then I would say not Nikhil's fault entirely here, we can't blame him for believing Laajo is okay with the situation of him seeing another woman Ishana. So I was waiting first to see what would happen, if Laajo had done that I would have said Nikhil is doing this yes it's wrong but Laajo by saying to him in that way is giving him a green light to hurt her, he said on the phone that he loves Ishana and Laajo is not important to him that Ishana is more important to him then Laajo is but though he says this today to give her money insisting he wants to still take care of her. Now I'm thinking despite he saying those words his actions towards Laajo, his responsibility shows he cares for her perhaps as much as he cares for Ishana, the fact he married her to help her situation and insists to keep her with him at his home even though his grandfather wanted to take her to his home, the day she needed his help to take her back home he went to take her though it was a special day for him and Ishana, when he brought her back also he could have left her outside and taken the car to go to Ishana but he didn't he came in the house with her, so he likes the time they spend together and likes to laugh and talk with her.

But I agree Nikhil today brushing everything aside and it hasn't occurred to him what will happen to Laajo, Ishana and his future, so yes he is taking it very lightly, to him going places with Ishana is like before he was married hang out with his girlfriend but he is a married man now, he shouldn't be seen even with a girlfriend at all.


I'm glad Laajo didn't seek to say it's okay Nikhil you told me you can't give me love so carry on with Ishana in your plans, also I'm very sure had he spelt it out for her that he intends to carry on seeing his girlfriend if Laajo returns with him back to Delhi she would have decided to tell her parents instead, I'm sure Laajo when he told her that he can't give her love Laajo was thinking we hardly know each other, he cares for me and my parents not to be hurt, eventually with his support his family will accept me and he will grow to love me, but this seeing his ex-girlfriend whilst he is married did not occur to her where it would be difficult then with the family wanting Ishana and Nikhil to be together and throwing it in her face everyday now, Laajo in her room is thinking she should leave, though she considers her parents situation in Sornbarsa if she turns up there, so just a bit more thought perhaps she will come to realise there is another way for her.

nice view Nafisa...so true Nikhil does care for Laajo after all he did marry her to save her and her family's honour...but at times I do feel he is not sure how to carry out the situation with Ishaana and Laajo becoz how much ever good moments he spends with Laajo they r still friends and the future of three individuals depends on the decisions all three of them take...

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