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Dabulls23 thumbnail
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Posted: 18 years ago
#21
Behind every successful man there is a supporting strong woman. Behind every successful woman there is another strong woman or Her Idependent self.

Souro is so right about some people achieve success with very little or no help from others.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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To tell you the truth I don't believe in that...these are just sayings...people with big philosophical words...they don't really mean anything in today's world...when sumone becomes successful the woman is not doing the work for the man or anyone else for the matter...a man is in his position due to his own hard work...and I can say that being a woman because we are not just supporters who sit at home and encourage men anymore...women have stepped outside we are competitors to men...we are successful by our own hard work and intelligence...yes women provide support for women but men do the same for women so maybe this applied years ago where a man was trying to be succesful and his wife sat at home and supported him but not in today's world! we are just as equal as them and doing the same hard work that they are doing..so let's not claim sumone else hardwork as our "support"!! 😊
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Posted: 18 years ago
#23

HI Nishtha, that fantastic Topic - But U Know This topic is really Meant
for the guys to answer...Lets C How Many of'em relates with my opinions...

So Starting from The Start...
warning : This Post is Quite a Lenghty & all this content is just my own thoughts &
Im Not in any way a total feminist & its not meant to hurt any 1's feelings or wat so
ever - so all my opologies for those who felt that its time consuming & if its hurting
To sum one...

uhhu Uhhu - Attention all the Gentlemen of the "IF", Heres sumthing Important i wanna
know...May B Few Questions...

# Firstly, wat do u feel according to U Is Success i.e, wat according To u is
The or SHould b The Definition of Success ?
# secondly, Do U really feel that u are successful?
# If yes then have U ever wondered that U have been The 1 person alone who have travelled the
road to ur success all alone ?
# Are U the 1 contented with wat ever U have achieved till date ?

Now as an example I would not drag MR president Bush or Mr Bill Gates Or
OUR Own Mittal's or Tata's or Birla's or Ambani's Or bachchan's or kapoor's Coz I
dont excel In having Great General Knowledge...

So Limiting my Self.
i Strongly feel that "Behind Every successful Man Theres a Woman", Why Coz...
u may Not B as Successful as The above Persona's i have mentioned, but still
U Might B a LIL Champ 2 ur Mom,a Shield 2 Ur Lil Sis,a Support system 4r ur friendz,
a life 2r spouse & a role Model 4r Ur siblings...So Wats that in them that I find that
make U successful In my vision is...

# I Find UR MOM 2 B the Women behind Ur success...Coz...

When u were born U instilled her heart with Mere happiness, but nothing else except
duties but She Irrespective of any thing Cared 4r U -
she kept awake 2 Make sure U were sound slept.
she made U the Individual Ur...

"Aisa Matt karo? wahan Matt Jao? Late Night Party - No ways ?
Wheres Ur Report Card? Wats this mess doing in ur room ?"
Sooo irritating but havent she said this - will u b the as same as U are Know.

When u felt u r alone in a crowd,When u felt no 1 can understand u,
When ur love is rejected by others & When u hated ur life....
She was, Is & the Only 1 who loves u more than anyone else.....
who cares for u in loneliness & dies for u when u cry.......
she is no one but ur sweet loving MOM.....
Now Tell Me " isnt she The 1 behind Ur success "

# I Find Ur sister as another step for Ur success...
Ur first toy,Ur first reason of Jealousy,
Ur First reason of Proofing that U were the best among both of u...
She gave u the breath to say that u Have the strentgh,
To fight,tolead...
Sumtimes a compititor, but sumtimes still she stayed up the whole night
so that when U return she can save U from Punishment.
sumtimes a Best listener & sumtimes A toital nerd & Much more...
Now Tell me,Is this True...

# I Find Ur Friend responsible 4r Ur success...
They put a smile on your Face & a spring in ur every step.
They Took all Ur Mistakes in their strides while sum times
put theirs On U...
U Bunked the Classes & She Made all Ur notes other stuff 4r U.
Lied 4r U,Got in trouble 4r U, so that U can live as U want to live,
Fought with U, Laughed with U but never tried to suppress U...
She made U felt secure & protected But never telecasted ur
Secrets from rooftops...
Tell me, Can u Astray Ur self from This truth...

# I Find Ur Spouse 2B the 1 tioling with u in ur
Coz, She Had always Seen u True,
Believed in the things U wanna Do,
Felt Glad when Ur Dreams Cum true,
Best Of all she didnt Judged -
She simply Loved U Coz 2 her U were U...
Tell me,Didnt she walked with U.

# I Find Ur Daughter 2 b Behind ur success...
Her First sight made feel Proud,
her Lil steps made U Feel that u were Needed,
she made a New begining in ur life with her which
was filled with joy & wonder...
Tell me,Have U not Felt that way...


Back to the topic - abhie tak toh aap sab ko kuch na kuch samajh aaya hoga kay main nay
aisay silly questions kyun kiye thay...
Its simple that i want every One of u (Whos reading this Post) to think about such silly
facts...
coz I want U to know Wats creeping U 2 Bcum successful,may B Its the want for Fame or Money may b
for a Better Life for U & ur loved Ones but have U ever thought in this Race to reach the Top
u might have Left all Ur dreams and the person behind it soo back that after reaching at
the top u might think & only think but can do nothing about it...So as the Famous lines go...
"Kal Karay so aaj Kar" coz abhie dair nahi hui right, go back to her and Live ur Dreams again
& not alone but this time with the Women who was,is & will b with U in wat ever U Do...

If This is true, heres 1 simple Tip 4r U all...
Women just want to feel special,But gifting her a Diamond is not all that she needs...
If U really wanna Gift her sumthing Just kneel down to her,Close Ur eyes & say as softly as
possible THE ONLY 6 letter word " THANK U " for wat ever the reason it B,thats It...
And U will feel thats the Billion dollar smile that strikes on her Face will proof that
Ur The Most Successful Person & all ur efforts have been paid Off...

So The Moral Of the story is...
Love her more than anyone else in this world...
Bcoz only she was, is and will be there for u all the time...

Hey guys Abhie toh Kubool Karlo that "Behind every successful Man there's a Women"

And all U gurlzzzzzz Out there, dont get too much tacky & Pricey i just praised every 1 of Us Coz
i Had to post Sumthing Really mean about gurlz in 1 topic, so this post can make up
as a Defence for me as this is Women week & if Sum Mahila Mandal Nari reads that 1 post
of mine i will b dead...
Hope U understand...
Waise if they think that Ur their Better Halves makeUr self the Best &love being treasured.

Rameena...

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Posted: 18 years ago
#24
ya that is true 100%..i dont hv experience bt i can say after seeing my frnds
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Posted: 18 years ago
#25
Spectacular topic Nish! 😛 😳

I am not a believer of women being behind a man's success...A man can be successful if he wants to and unsuccessful if he wants to, just as well as women, they can attain success if they want to, and allow failure to approach them as well..

"There are no secrets to success—don't waste time looking for them. Success is the result of perfection, hard work, learning from failure, loyalty to those for whom you work, and persistence."

Keep smiling...
Love
Soni
Edited by soni595 - 18 years ago

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