Married or engaged girls interested in other guys?

Why will a girl do that? It's actually cheating and they wanna do it with ME, no one else, even though I get no such approaches from single girls (as an adult).

Girl 1 -- She's engaged. Signs of interest:If she realizes I'm coming from the back, she's going to turn around 15-20 times a minutes and then I'm obliged to join her; she was telling the women who accompanies her to not tell me about her marriage... but somehow I figured out. She walks WITH me. If I slow down, she slows down, if change tracks, she changes tracks too, and I can see it in her eyes she's very much interested. But since I asked her about her marriage, she lost interest (ah... relief for me).

Girl 2 -- This girl is married (engagement ring + mahandi) and probably 4 to 5 years elder to me and somewhere in her very late 20s. It's her first day in the gym. I was resting near the bicycles (all sweaty) and she came and started cycling on the bike which was closest to me (despite the fact all of them were free and the others were actually better). She was around 1ft close to me and watching me indirectly through the mirror.

My friend said that she just wants to 'talk' and be friends... can that be true?

Also the general staring -- it's common in my case, so I don't take that as a sign of interest. Even elderly women (auntie) stare at me and that's commonly accompanied with a smile. Even some men stare.

Originally posted by: dating_mystery

Why will a girl do that? It's actually cheating and they wanna do it with ME, no one else, even though I get no such approaches from single girls (as an adult).

Girl 1 -- She's engaged. Signs of interest:If she realizes I'm coming from the back, she's going to turn around 15-20 times a minutes and then I'm obliged to join her; she was telling the women who accompanies her to not tell me about her marriage... but somehow I figured out. She walks WITH me. If I slow down, she slows down, if change tracks, she changes tracks too, and I can see it in her eyes she's very much interested. But since I asked her about her marriage, she lost interest (ah... relief for me).

Girl 2 -- This girl is married (engagement ring + mahandi) and probably 4 to 5 years elder to me and somewhere in her very late 20s. It's her first day in the gym. I was resting near the bicycles (all sweaty) and she came and started cycling on the bike which was closest to me (despite the fact all of them were free and the others were actually better). She was around 1ft close to me and watching me indirectly through the mirror.

My friend said that she just wants to 'talk' and be friends... can that be true?

Also the general staring -- it's common in my case, so I don't take that as a sign of interest. Even elderly women (auntie) stare at me and that's commonly accompanied with a smile. Even some men stare.

Originally posted by: The_Alchemist.

You should actually be concerned about it. People stare at you, probably because you look abnormal or something? And then they pity you and later smile at you , probably?Just ask one of your close friend about how you look. Don't forget to mention that you won't mind whatever he/she says about your appearance! Hope your fiend helps you deal with your complexes. 🤓

Yeah, see I always had theories about this -- one is that I have a feminine face cause men find my face 'sexy' and extremely hot (but oh, I was born straight) and assume I must be getting a lot of action. So men look (not as much as women do) cause they find it attractive, and women look cause my face is too feminine. Yeah, and cause of this most male friends too think I'm 'hot'; I've no female friends. They all get spooked by looking at my face hearing my voice.

But that theory got discarded when I technically analyzed my face and found it to be overly masculine, and the fact that my thick voice corresponds to my face (people ain't surprised when I speak out, as with the case of Hina Rabbani + I look like 29 since I turned 18 and lost weight).

I've been told that I look like Chetan Bhagat... so that's my current theory as of now, but this has been happening since 8th grade, and at that time Chetan Bhagat was no where to be found. Since it's been happening for such a long time I'm kinda getting used to it.

But at times the staring from girls is so intense I get harassed. And if she's real close, I can see what she's looking at via my peripheral vision. They kind of 'analyze' the face; they look at the forehead, eye brows, eyes, eyelashes, nose, cheeks, lips, chin etc... etc... etc... as if they're scanning and memorizing it.

Originally posted by: Dr4viL.

so you think a girl is running behind you? and then you think a girl on a stationary bike is after you too? the common factor isn't the relationship status of the girl.. its the working out bit. you are either working out or she is and you have adrenalin pumping through your blood and you think any girl within vicinity is chasing you cuz you are superman?!!! LOL

if you want a girl.. or 10.. stop going to the gym and drinking protein shakes.. girls dig thickshakes with real ice-cream and a guy who can make them all the shakes in the world and they arent looking for a gyming buddy.. but a thickshake creator like me will cream .. more sugar babe? are you full? did you burp? want me to get you some more? i like curves.. i like your curves.. do you like mine?!

maybe we should work out? TOMORROW!!! 😆 or never?!

Well the next day she came across the gym to ask a simple question (where's this/that etc...) when there were a lot of people (include coach and other girls/women) around. I've decided to talk to her.

Actually she got interested the moment she came to the gym (to check it out). Too bad I didn't notice the fact that all the time she was around the squat and leg press machine where I was. She went nowhere else to check anything out.

Originally posted by: dating_mystery

Well the next day she came across the gym to ask a simple question (where's this/that etc...) when there were a lot of people (include coach and other girls/women) around. I've decided to talk to her.

Actually she got interested the moment she came to the gym (to check it out). Too bad I didn't notice the fact that all the time she was around the squat and leg press machine where I was. She went nowhere else to check anything out.

Today she kept the aerobics mat closest to me and did aerobics on that.

If you think all this is coincidence...

Originally posted by: Dr4viL.

you are a familiar face now! or worse, don't intimidate her and have become like her brother.. 🤢Logic yaar.. if we like a girl a lot .. do we pull up our stationary bike and pedal our hearts out and ultimately huff and puff thereby showing off our non-existent stamina? no way..

No, she's married, and she's also cross eyed (but she's very beautiful and got a very attractive body) so I'm not attracted to her.

I'm attracted to other girls, and I do not see myself pulling their stationary bikes and pedals to my heart.

If a girl is interested in you, what do you think she'll do? Propose to him on the face? Or give hints?

About familiar faces -- This's her 4th day in this gym, and mine 2 weeks.

I think I'm starting to get signs from another girl who's about to get married. And I DO NOT like her.

Originally posted by: dating_mystery

I think I'm starting to get signs from another girl who's about to get married. And I DO NOT like her.

Originally posted by: The_Alchemist.

@blue - then say that to her. Trust me she'll never ever look back at you!

Oh no no, that's the usual stare, that too for a very brief moment (2 or 3 seconds) like when we're crossing each other's way. Actually she noticed me the first time yesterday.

She does not appear interested.

Originally posted by: dating_mystery

Yeah, see I always had theories about this -- one is that I have a feminine face cause men find my face 'sexy' and extremely hot (but oh, I was born straight) and assume I must be getting a lot of action. So men look (not as much as women do) cause they find it attractive, and women look cause my face is too feminine. Yeah, and cause of this most male friends too think I'm 'hot'; I've no female friends. They all get spooked by looking at my face hearing my voice.

But that theory got discarded when I technically analyzed my face and found it to be overly masculine, and the fact that my thick voice corresponds to my face (people ain't surprised when I speak out, as with the case of Hina Rabbani + I look like 29 since I turned 18 and lost weight).

I've been told that I look like Chetan Bhagat... so that's my current theory as of now, but this has been happening since 8th grade, and at that time Chetan Bhagat was no where to be found. Since it's been happening for such a long time I'm kinda getting used to it.

But at times the staring from girls is so intense I get harassed. And if she's real close, I can see what she's looking at via my peripheral vision. They kind of 'analyze' the face; they look at the forehead, eye brows, eyes, eyelashes, nose, cheeks, lips, chin etc... etc... etc... as if they're scanning and memorizing it.

Ok there's something new that's happening.

It happens that whenever I'm fat, I do get approached by girls (as it happened in school quiet a lot & a year or 2 ago, few girls showed interest but I was not dating), but if I go thin, I get more stares but no girls approaches or talks to me (they appear hostile).

Currently, I've never been this thin (face fat is at its lowest for my lifetime) and now I'm getting 'double stares'.

If a girl has noticed me for the 1st time and she looked for a second or less, she's gong to look back again (in less than a second) as if 'what the heck did I just saw?'. Girls who're with they BFs also do this and some married in their 30's women also.

They must find something odd in me.😕