All is well - Page 3

I agree with Skep in parts...

Originally posted by: reshmiroy2012

Anandi forgiving Shiv? Hope she does not and start life as a single woman.

Would love to see Shiv without Madaam Nautanki.

But what is the next high voltage drama in BV? If there is only samosa, kachuri and tray carrying, BV will not be BV. Guess what s coming now? I cannot because I have a brain death after SaJaGa.

My dear if Anandi becomes a single woman again then there will be no work for Shiv in this serial, except perhaps as a Devdas pining for lost relations.
He will either have no role or become a bigger nautanki than anyone else. This serial is about Anandi not Shiv beta.

Anandi may forgive. But giving silent treatment and remaining stoic without being servile is a must.

Shiv said stuff like Mom was right and accused Anandi of deliberately keeping quiet. He was silent as she and her family were threatened and royally humiliated in public. He was silent as his sister pushed around Anandi.

There's no need to happily jump in bed with him either.

Shiv better do something better and meaningful than coughing up a sorry, give a card or flowers and then call her to bed again to make Anandi "happy" and think all is over.

Anandi need not involve Shekhars in her interactions with Singhs or Khajaan or even her social work.

Singhs must definitely stop their Shiv beta jaap. He's no Shyam. He's no beta. He remembers all past very well. He is only jamai.

I agree with Hooked, Anandi or Ganga need not feel ingratiated to anyone. Do your duty silently, be civil yet maintain distance. No need to spread yourselves like carpets for everyone to walk all over! No need to appease or please everyone. Or bear sh*t in bid to impress people.

Side by side, focus on carving your own identity also as individuals. If you let only relations define you, then what you be if relations aren't there? Or if even one relation suffers? Anandi Shekhar and Ganga Singh need to have own place apart from being just bahus or wives.

Shiv doesn't just owe apologies to Anandi or has to impress her. If he has a conscience, he has to apologise to Singhs also and try to make them believe he respects them and won't isolate Anandi. Singhs were scared for Anandi. Shekhars' (including Shiv's) behaviour proved their fears right.

Anyway, I want serious gossiping, insult and embarassment for Shekhars with their colleagues, social circle etc. throwing hissy fits of sniggers as they see them. Going public and going to court are not just for justice or some piece of cake. Everything gets exposed.

Anandi may and will forgive Shiv, as Shiv had been a very good husband till Sanchis drama started. Between husband and wife such things happens but they see each others plus points and forgive them.

if Anandi can't ignore Shiv for a little while, then I hope at least DS ignores that old fatty Daddu FOREVER. That guy shouldn't be allowed to enter BH...now he's definitely a baasi phool...so is Ira...Singhs' relationship with Ira should become zero.

Even if Ganga forgives Sumitra, that's fine...but I hope DS doesn't...and Bhairon keeps an eye on her behavior.

I also agree that Anandi & Ganga should keep a certain amount of distance from their in-laws...come out and do the cooking, then go back. Ganga has a child & husband to attend to, plus she will probably work at the hospital. Anandi should cook the meals, attend to Shiv & then go work on her NGO. Show these women having their own priorities as well.

Originally posted by: yanks28

if Anandi can't ignore Shiv for a little while, then I hope at least DS ignores that old fatty Daddu FOREVER. That guy shouldn't be allowed to enter BH...now he's definitely a baasi phool...so is Ira...Singhs' relationship with Ira should become zero.

Even if Ganga forgives Sumitra, that's fine...but I hope DS doesn't...and Bhairon keeps an eye on her behavior.

I also agree that Anandi & Ganga should keep a certain amount of distance from their in-laws...come out and do the cooking, then go back. Ganga has a child & husband to attend to, plus she will probably work at the hospital. Anandi should cook the meals, attend to Shiv & then go work on her NGO. Show these women having their own priorities as well.