Memories

hello guys...

well today I was just thinking how helpful memory is for u...I mean what would we do if we didn't have memory...it would have been like starting life all over again every single time... we wouldn't have friends...coz we wouldn't remember them😆

but there is also one bad point to memory...like if someone hurts us...we never forget it...and it kinda always hurts...or if someone is mean to us then we never forget it...and just be mean to the person...if this happened...we would forget all our hatred and would start liking the person again...but we would also not learn form our mistakes...

I just wish that we could erase some parts of our memory...when we wanted...like we delete things from our computer...things would have been much better...like when we fall in love and can't forget the person... it would have been so helpful...if we could just delete all the memories of this one person and continue with life without being hurt...

so what r ur views on memory?? do u think yaadien is one of the best and worst things in life or not??

LOLZ Sapna, so true!

Well, I guess memory is just like all the other things in life... There are both good and bad parts to it.

But the thing that matters the most is that there are more advantages than disadvantages.. Think about it.

Advantages

We can remember our friends as you said.

We can remember our mistakes so we don't make similar ones again.

We can remember our family and have someone to connect to.

We can remember to finish off our work the next day so that we don't it over again.

We can remember what spices we put in our dish so we can just put the perfect amount in. 😆

We can remember to take bath everyday. 😆

Disadvantage

Just that we have to remember the bad memories too....

So see the advantages do outweigh the disadvantages... So just like every other things in life, we just have to accept it too. Try to remember the good stuff and jsut care a lot about the bad stuff.

nice question ..

then we must be like animal .. who lives in today like searching food when we are hungry ...

Memories are what we make of them!
We have a choice to cling to them(both the good one's and the bad) and not move on...or cherish the good one's, block out the not-so-good one's and look forward to the future.

I follow the second approach.

Originally posted by: Naina_Manam

LOLZ Sapna, so true!

Well, I guess memory is just like all the other things in life... There are both good and bad parts to it.

But the thing that matters the most is that there are more advantages than disadvantages.. Think about it.

Advantages

We can remember our friends as you said.

We can remember our mistakes so we don't make similar ones again.

We can remember our family and have someone to connect to.

We can remember to finish off our work the next day so that we don't it over again.

We can remember what spices we put in our dish so we can just put the perfect amount in. 😆

We can remember to take bath everyday. 😆

Disadvantage

Just that we have to remember the bad memories too....

So see the advantages do outweigh the disadvantages... So just like every other things in life, we just have to accept it too. Try to remember the good stuff and jsut care a lot about the bad stuff.

i totally agree with that