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Posted: 11 years ago
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...Or is it???

Is Zoya blaming Asad for the "accidental marriage"? NO.

Zoya is blaming Asad for asking her to go against her one biggest belief, her dream of what she wanted her life to be, for living a lie.

As one of the members so righly said
**** Zoya believed in the institution of marriage which forever but not in a marriage against her will. ***** Credit goes to euphoric.


If Asad had told her Zoya, I'm sorry you made a mistake and now you are Ayaan's wife. She would have run away like the previous times.

And she did.

When she was asked to sign the nikhamma, she walked out. But Asad asked her to pretend till Nikhat gets married. She returned for Asad's sake, for her love. The next day at SM, she even shouted at Ayaan when she realised the pact between the two brothers without consulting her.

Zoya had no obligation to Nikhat. Zoya did what she did for Asad.

Zoya is blaming Asad for asking her to pretend. Asad is accepting full responsibility because her asked to pretend.

In today's episode,
Asad was afraid of losing Zoya to the pressures of soceity
Asad was afraid of losing Zoya because Zoya was losing all hope.
Asad was afraid of losing Zoya because Zoya was feeling quilty that she was not being true to her beliefs.


Asad had to convince Zoya that whatever happened between Ayaan and Zoya was an accident and not a promise.
Asad needed reassurance that Zoya still trusted him
Asad needed reassurance that Zoya still wanted to marry him.


P.S. Asad is not be succumbed by Tanveer at any cost.
P.P.S. Asad will not trade Zoya again for any of his siblings again. He has learnt a huge lesson.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I love asad more after todays epi.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Great post...!!!
I just came here after watching the episode...my heart is still beating fast...Ahh, Asad...He feard lossing her since the start but this time his love and care for his sister came in between...He thought he could let her go away from him if it was just for a week...But after what he saw Zoya acting like Ayaan's wife...and what he saw today, his heart did stop and Now he doesn't/WON'T let anything to come in berween...She is his and period...Duniyaan, samajh or SM wale joh chahen kaheen...She IS HIS...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: beekay1



...Or is it???

Is Zoya blaming Asad for the "accidental marriage"? NO.

Zoya is blaming Asad for asking her to go against her one biggest belief, her dream of what she wanted her life to be, for living a lie.

As one of the members so righly said
**** Zoya believed in the institution of marriage which forever but not in a marriage against her will. ***** Credit goes to euphoric.


If Asad had told her Zoya, I'm sorry you made a mistake and now you are Ayaan's wife. She would have run away like the previous times.

And she did.

When she was asked to sign the nikhamma, she walked out. But Asad asked her to pretend till Nikhat gets married. She returned for Asad's sake, for her love. The next day at SM, she even shouted at Ayaan when she realised the pact between the two brothers without consulting her.

Zoya had no obligation to Nikhat. Zoya did what she did for Asad.

Zoya is blaming Asad for asking her to pretend. Asad is accepting full responsibility because her asked to pretend.

In today's episode,
Asad was afraid of losing Zoya to the pressures of soceity
Asad was afraid of losing Zoya because Zoya was losing all hope.
Asad was afraid of losing Zoya because Zoya was feeling quilty that she was not being true to her beliefs.


Asad had to convince Zoya that whatever happened between Ayaan and Zoya was an accident and not a promise.
Asad needed reassurance that Zoya still trusted him
Asad needed reassurance that Zoya still wanted to marry him.


P.S. Asad is not be succumbed by Tanveer at any cost.
P.P.S. Asad will not trade Zoya again for any of his siblings again. He has learnt a huge lesson.



Superb post...👏
I wish they unite soon..😕
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Exactly... Zoya knew she was wrong to run away but Asad is the reason she went against herself to live this sham. She's blames him for not thinking this through and undermining the consequences of this sham.
And if Zoya doesn't voice her feelings and hurt to Asad to whom then to whom she'll open upto? Asad has Dilshad to understand him, he's in his own house but Zoya is out of her comfort zone staying at SM, an alien place filled with a few acquaintances who aren't capable of understanding her... she cannot and will not open upto Ayaan because even though he initiated this drama, Zoya has never had any expectations from him... he's nothing more than Asad's brother or Rabert to her... but Asad... he's everything to her. She shared her darkest secrets and fears with him... her expectations and trust has been placed on Asad. So its only him that she opens upto opening her wounds for only him to see. Emotionally, Zoya is bonded with Asad.

Asad himself had admitted he didn't know things will go that bad and again he didn't realize that she would be expected to take on the responsibilities of a wife! Her pouring out her grief and anguish to him was I guess only fair.

-Sonia
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Is Zoya blaming Asad for the "accidental marriage"? NO.

Zoya is blaming Asad for asking her to go against her one biggest belief, her dream of what she wanted her life to be, for living a lie.

Exactly. All those who are bashing zoya for blaming asad should please read this post.

Asad and Zoya are past the stage of blaming. Asad was not even angry with her for running away on the day of marriage, he has not once pointed a finger at her and said "Its bcoz of you". Just as Zoya didn't blame Asad when he decided to marry billi.
Their relationship is past such ego tussles. What we have here is pure love, no questions asked, no answers given.
no misunderstanding and no jealousy.

Nice post. 👍🏼
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Finally, someone who gets it 😆

Great post! (:
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: KulfiBai

Finally, someone who gets it 😆

Great post! (:


So true! 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I only wish Asad to learn one lesson from all this - Zoya to be put first above all. She should be his first priority. no one else. NO ONE. not even his mom or bro
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: KulfiBai

Finally, someone who gets it 😆

Great post! (:


Thank you.

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