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Posted: 12 years ago
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I personally think if a person isn't happy inside he cannot keep others happy. Moral is important but only when it is not ruining other's life. What are these rules..made by humans only..made by us and it has changed a lot as time changed..people saying marriage can never be broken aren't aware of the fact that its better to take divorce than staying in a loveless marriage..atleast u will have a chance to find true love..Also this was the mentality in India before..not matter how abusive the husband was a woman was not allowed to think about divorce as everything was considered as MORALS!! But now a days women take stands and decide to stay away from such husbands n marriages. I don't want Meethi n Aakash, if meethi isn't comfortable, she has everyright to decide for her. But this Vishnu is out of this world!! I don't know what he wants to prove from this marriage..and to whom!! I remember a famous hindi novel..Gunahon ka Devta..in that the hero had same morals and values and he forced his morals on the girl and finally the girl died as she couldn't bear the separation..even when both loved each other the most..So, sometimes there is something beyond the concepts of wrongdoings n right doings and we are only humans!!

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Posted: 12 years ago
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very nice post ruhi totally agree with ur every point .vishnu can find happiness with mukta only .her true love is mukta not meethi .
let me tell real incident story .that there a couple who truly love each other .but their parent does not want their marriage so boy married to another and girl married to another boy .on first of night wedding girl told to her husband that i dont love u i love someone else .so i want divorce .her husband did not start giving moral .he understand his wife and he give divorce to that girl .after getting divorce from her husband girl marry to his lover and that girl is very happy
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@ruhi86,very nice post and agree with u.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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u guys should watch devdutt view on bheeshma
bheeshma had tken a vow for happiness of family and he stick to it due to morals.
but wen situation changed and there was need to break it he continued following it and laid basis of mahabharat and land up on wrong side.

everyone respect marriage institution
but rules n morals are modified wid tym situation.
this moral of vishnu wid love n urge for mukta and priority to keep meethi happy by contining accidental loveless mrg is not keeping anyone happy.some
people want deny n wear dark glasses n call day as nite than they can continue doing.
but fact is wen mukta bumped accidently he consciously holded her.
in this whole matter mukta is biggest victim.
akash lost love due to his revenge act and even he could not utlise second chance due to mother.
his approach to get meethi back inappropriate
vishnu himself responsible for his suffering
meethi lied took wrong step
now she is trying to get muka vishnu together but if vishnu due to morals if does not break
meethi will cont this relation as it is she cant go back to akash n lost hher love kya farak padta hai if vishnu will be husband or not.

but if guy who loved only meethi was there she could move on widout guilt
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: saurabhrocks

u guys should watch devdutt view on bheeshma
bheeshma had tken a vow for happiness of family and he stick to it due to morals.
but wen situation changed and there was need to break it he continued following it and laid basis of mahabharat and land up on wrong side.

everyone respect marriage institution
but rules n morals are modified wid tym situation.
this moral of vishnu wid love n urge for mukta and priority to keep meethi happy by contining accidental loveless mrg is not keeping anyone happy.some
people want deny n wear dark glasses n call day as nite than they can continue doing.
but fact is wen mukta bumped accidently he consciously holded her.
in this whole matter mukta is biggest victim.
akash lost love due to his revenge act and even he could not utlise second chance due to mother.
his approach to get meethi back inappropriate
vishnu himself responsible for his suffering
meethi lied took wrong step
now she is trying to get muka vishnu together but if vishnu due to morals if does not break
meethi will cont this relation as it is she cant go back to akash n lost hher love kya farak padta hai if vishnu will be husband or not.

but if guy who loved only meethi was there she could move on widout guilt

Agree with each and every words yaar.Instead of living in loveless mrg and morals vishnu should move on,as no one is happy and 4 lives are suffering becoz of this fake mrg.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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i doubt vishnu can ever make mukta happy
u can make ur spouse happy wen u give right love n priority to ur patner
if anything else is comes before patner wen u work for good cause like nation
but vishnu priority is vow to teacherji n meethis happiness
he should marry a gal of old ideology and tell her baba even if ur my wife dont expect to get first preferece or rite on me
n she will obey like wife of 15th century
did iccha told him to marry her daughter
in the act to fullfil vow how many oder people r hurt
did he managed to give
happiness to meethi as promised

than wat is logic behind this vow

could not making damini convinced about meekash union
is best way to make her teacherdidi family happy

cvs gave clean cheat to akash
n showed rapid repentation
no matter he is called pshcyo
fact meethi loves him still
if akash breaks tie wid ekadashi wat anni will hv problem
she will be happy as long as meethi is happy


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: saurabhrocks

i doubt vishnu can ever make mukta happy
u can make ur spouse happy wen u give right love n priority to ur patner
if anything else is comes before patner wen u work for good cause like nation
but vishnu priority is vow to teacherji n meethis happiness
he should marry a gal of old ideology and tell her baba even if ur my wife dont expect to get first preferece or rite on me
n she will obey like wife of 15th century
did iccha told him to marry her daughter
in the act to fullfil vow how many oder people r hurt
did he managed to give
happiness to meethi as promised

than wat is logic behind this vow

could not making damini convinced about meekash union
is best way to make her teacherdidi family happy

cvs gave clean cheat to akash
n showed rapid repentation
no matter he is called pshcyo
fact meethi loves him still
if akash breaks tie wid ekadashi wat anni will hv problem
she will be happy as long as meethi is happy


Agree with u
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I Wonder if meethi says to Vishnu tht she is still in love wth Akash or anyone eose(not keeping Mukta in scene) wht will be his stand..will he not be angry or something..I mean then also he will forcefully keep meethi with him saying its immoral..u hv to be wth me n bear me whole life..I found this Vishnu so boring..I mean how anyone can be this boring n spineless.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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meethi already tell vishnu that she confess her love to aakash but surprisgnly vishnu still want to stick to marriage .sticking to marriage it comes under vishnu moral then whom u love ie mukta u should marry to mukta only why does not it come under vishnu moral .btw i also find vishnu morals just hollow
Edited by surabhi01 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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And his style of talking is so boring.there is no spark. He is too matured.if there was no aakash it would be so boring to hear his dialagues.

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