Three women with three different perspectives

Since time immemorial...the greatest unsolved puzzle in the world is---the life of a woman and her inner feelings !"If we try to understand those feelings...it will be a feeling of surprise mingled with admiration...caused by something unexpected...curious enough to know by everybody !

Nature always wears the colours of our mood ! Three women with three different perspectives towards life in this BV---Ganga"Sanchi"Anandi .

The wilderness... the nature holds answers to all questions, these women have yet to ask !

Little things matter in life...a kiss on her forehead...a word of assurance...a sweet gesture...lifted the mood...changed her perspective towards life !She knows..there is no dream house to move in...no flower bed to indulge... but a ray of hope...moving her towards future!!

Deserted by fate...escorted by misfortune...wounded by marriage...tortured by relationships..."got a small shade- under a tender sapling ...Mannu... solace after a long tiered journey !

Walking through the garden ...found some flowers on the path..picked them up carefully and feeling their tenderness and fragrance ... which is giving her soothing feeling... a smile ...for a while enjoyed the tranquillity...place them carefully on the floor of veranda[backyard] where Mannu is playing !

The waning moon is giving a little light...a faint hope...but for her, it is more than enough to save her marriage... to safeguard her love...! Yet to heal from those past wounds.. still to recover from the earth shaking incidents...there is no time to recuperate...or recover...she has to run again-this time to save her love ... how long, she has no idea...but with grit- she decided to march forward...to strengthen her relation with Jagya...another test...another quest to get justice !!

Holding tears in the corner of her eyes...like a lotus holding winter mornings' dew drops...looking fondly to Mannu...hold his hand and started to move forward with determination !----

After celebrating break-up party ... Sanchi reached home and found that there is no light in the porch...moon is hiding behind a cloud...eerie silence...quaint and quiet, the atmosphere is in a somewhat dreary and depressive state !

Depression is when you have lots of love..but there is no one to take !!

while entering in to the porch...because of darkness -she knocked down the pot of cactus and the thorns hurt her feet and a wail from her mouth and followed by a mouthful of abuses!!She sat there for a while and started thinking about her failed relationship!

She wanted him ...followed him...cornered him...got him...fancied her love with red coats and black kheer...a war cry like expression of love [ ! ] in the middle of the night on the deserted road...then a whimsical fashion parade...a kiss on the platter...rejected by him... deserted by him ,felt insulted by him...determined to make him realise ---the level of her love...to what extent she hates him now...threatening him with brandishing whips... but still wondering where she went wrong...why her tender love failed to impress him!

A caressing hand on her head... as if giving full support to her strange ideas...the eccentric mother and the lunatic daughter went inside the house !---with a face that badly needs to be slapped [ Shhoo...calm down...cool down...look at that moon !! it is slowly coming out of the cover of the cloud !]

Anandi wanted to live self directed life ...in every walk with past-- she received far more than she sought... both the pain and the pleasure !Compassionate companion!!

On the other side of the KB...Anandi standing in the veranda ..and staring at the waning moon...

her eyes wide open...with a blank expression!!

She felt a black cloud hangs over her...complete darkness...thick clouds gathered around the moon and there is no hope to see the moon in the near future ! Suffocation sort of feeling !

One sees great things from the valley, only small things from the peak !"Being a crusader since childhood...fought for others' rights... with a clear perception of human relationships ...failed miserably in her own life ! She is on the verge of losing everything again !!

She honoured Jagyas' relationship with Gowri...distanced herself from Jagya-forever...but maintained friendship with him...always there for him...to save... to guide and to bring him back to the BH ...but this affinity created a holocaust in her life... Sanchis' love and Jagyas' rejection...wrecked her smooth sailing married life...now Sanchi and Ira with ruffled feathers -- wanted legal action against Jagya... there she has to take a clear stand...which is inevitable...and will affect the relations either side !

There are certain things you learn best in calm, and some in storm !"whether to live like a log there and bear the brunt of Sanchi and Ira or ...save Jagya and walk-off from the house. as well as from the life of Shiv ...who is a mute spectator for long !!

To be, or not to be , that is the question !"whether it is nobler in the mind to suffer...or to take arms against a sea of troubles ?... be all my sins remembered !! [ Shakespeare] Hamlet

What Anandi has to do and--- what Anandi is going to do?...the darkness asked the sky...---like a wink of an eye ...sky told to the earth..."I am giving you solace in the form of rain"---...a ray of hope...Yes she has taken a decision !! Started drizzling ...a cool breeze swept over the confusion and carrying away shame and humiliation...! and her world refreshed by freedom...freedom from hesitation and confusion !!

Why Anandi and Ganga are suffering from the rigid mind set of their in laws? Why they are so submissive towards insults and humiliation ?Why Ganga blamed by BH and other people as selfish and schemy type ?She never expected to marry J ..in fact after that 7 phere also she consented him to go with his peoples' wish...respect that decision taken by elders ! but because of Js' love and his dislike towards Sa are the main reasons for this relation !Why this misunderstanding is popping up ...disproportionately ?

Being a divorcee... even though .rejected by a man for his selfish reasons...is a curse for a woman forever ? why society is expecting them to kneel down and be grateful to her husband and in laws for ever ...without any fault of them ?

@TM

Originally posted by: -Swetha-

@TM

Great post by u dear! 👏

Thank you !Thinking about these characters made me a little bit too expressive...result is this !But still confusion is there... why the negative impact is more on these women characters than their counterparts ? Why this biased view of the society ?

well written Seetha 😊

my 2 cents...all three women in BV are blessed as there is atleast one person who loves them selflessly & their happiness matters a lot to this person 😊...so they will be taken care eventually.

Originally posted by: BeyondTheSky

well written Seetha 😊

my 2 cents...all three women in BV are blessed as there is atleast one person who loves them selflessly & their happiness matters a lot to this person 😊...so they will be taken care eventually.

But incidentally all these three women are suffering because of his hasty decisions ! Here the paradox is ... so far every important decision taken by him-- for love... or by gratitude---...created a dent some where ... which he never intended to be !! at this stage... Is he a stigma to the writer too ??!!

Seetha K - Absolutely love your unique style of drafting the posts👏👏

Originally posted by: SEETHA.K

...a cool breeze swept over the confusion and carrying away shame and humiliation...! and her world refreshed by freedom...freedom from hesitation and confusion !!

Perhaps the above two lines conveyed the message for Anandi. She will hold her head high ,won't succumb to pressure & conduct herself in the befitting manner & would exercise her duty judiciously. Nice post Seetha😊

Originally posted by: Hiral_Halwa

Seetha K - Absolutely love your unique style of drafting the posts👏👏

Coming to BV - when we talk of societal norms and their laws which make women submissive - who/ what really is the root cause...I think women themselves!

In BV, it started with DS, the strong matriach, putting down her bahus in the house - be it Sumi, gehena, Basant's ex-wife or Anandi.

In case of Ganga, it is Sumi who thought Ganga is the manipulator and showered insults on her - it is a 'woman' who put another woman down.

In case of Anandi, it is Ira who put A down by calling her BV and divorcee and saying that A is basically an erstwhile version of Ganga, now, who fasaoed her pyaraa beta Shiv

Again a woman who put another woman down. Society on the whole comprises of women themselves who are bullies and exercise it on another, because at some point in life, they were victims too <<something like kyunki saas bhi kabhi bahu thi - its their way of taking revenge from the people who have wronged them>>. kehte hai na, aurat hi aurat ki sabse badi dushman hoti hai...its passed down from one generation to another

This is the main problem, we complain against the injustice metted out to women, but another woman herself is responsible and linked to it somewhere

If the rape cases are so high, then a very important reason for that is that the mother of the son never teaches her son to respect girls

If the domestic violence is so high, then it is the MILs who instigate their sons to get violent in order to garner money from her DIL

If the female infanticide is so prevalent, then it is the mother who thinks that her daughter is a curse too and agrees for it

If all women in the world are headstrong and sensible, then trust me, no the hell body in the world can touch us or have a right to abuse us...Maa durga and kali is within us

Appreciate these sentences most !! Very much like it dear !!A woman is a woman's foe...point is to some extent correct ... Knowing fully well about the sensitive feelings of Anandi...Su , Ira, Shiv [being an elderly lady , dadisa also]--why all these people agreed for this alliance ?By agreeing Sanchis' manmani ..they put 4 lives[J,A,S,SH] and their peace of mind in jeopardy...Instead of this they should have shut the mouth of Sanchi and avoid this awkward situation !Elders' fault is much more evident than the youngerones' confusion !!