Anandi is not Dudh Ka dhula - Page 3

Originally posted by: onlinebuddy75

Agree with u Shweta and hooked.

I dont think apology is required. She just needs to assure and show shiv that she is with him.She understands his pain and they will sail this storm together. Just those lines are required.

Anandi needs to shake Shiv up make him sit and clear all misunderstandings, she had that right. He is lost and hurt and even she agrees that he is not wrong. She is the only one person who can show him the light standing with him.

As shiv did during J's amensia drama , he took things in his hands and made J back-off from his plan.

Shiv has been her pillar in her problems and now she needs to be his pillar in his problems.

Originally posted by: onlinebuddy75

@bold But Debbie isnt that giving freedom to the person you love. You don't force your choices and views on them but let them decide what they want. It is upto the other partner also how they take the whole thing and manage both relation. Whom and how much they prioritize.

Wont we also like to have a choice in our life too, which is not forced.

Originally posted by: onlinebuddy75

Agree with u Shweta and hooked.

I dont think apology is required. She just needs to assure and show shiv that she is with him.She understands his pain and they will sail this storm together. Just those lines are required.

Anandi needs to shake Shiv up make him sit and clear all misunderstandings, she had that right. He is lost and hurt and even she agrees that he is not wrong. She is the only one person who can show him the light standing with him.

As shiv did during J's amensia drama , he took things in his hands and made J back-off from his plan.

Shiv has been her pillar in her problems and now she needs to be his pillar in his problems.

Originally posted by: hooked

Totally agree with your post - except red.

You see - she HAS kept things from Shiv - sometimes due to circumstance - sometimes coz she decided she was the betetr judge or probably she didn't want to tattle on his little sister.

But - whatever - A knows Shiv distrusts her coz she knows stuff that she did not share with him. She HAS to make time to tlak to him and make him listen to her. Soften him up - accept her part in distancing him and acknowledge that she did in fact - get too caught up in all that was happening and did not keep him posted.

Its no shame to say Sorry - when you have in fact - been wrong.

Originally posted by: Debbiee

Thats right buddy.

My mom often says "When a husband and wife fight; no one wins. Both lose. Because once married they must work as a unit".

Sometimes one has to bow a little even if knowing the other person is prone to err.

Anandi after 2 marriages and so many bad days could not learn this much.

The story which was at No 1 few months back is now in the middle of nowhere 🤢

@bold agree 200% . If they loose it is the 2 person in relationship who loose and if they win it is this 2 people who create wonderful and strong relationship.

About the story i better not speak.

Originally posted by: hooked

Totally agree with your post - except red.

You see - she HAS kept things from Shiv - sometimes due to circumstance - sometimes coz she decided she was the betetr judge or probably she didn't want to tattle on his little sister.

But - whatever - A knows Shiv distrusts her coz she knows stuff that she did not share with him. She HAS to make time to tlak to him and make him listen to her. Soften him up - accept her part in distancing him and acknowledge that she did in fact - get too caught up in all that was happening and did not keep him posted.

Its no shame to say Sorry - when you have in fact - been wrong.

@hooked no it is no shame is saying sorry.

But in present scenario Shiv does not expect or need a apology. His is shattered as his trust is broken by J , he is disturbed that he could not see thru him and due to his lack of wrong judgement his sister is suffering.

At present shiv needs is a person who says that i understand your pain and i am in this with u. Lets face it together. Lets see how we can go thru this . He needs a trustworthy person as he is hurt and broken.

He needs someone to communicate with him and he needs a wife.